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Lou Wangshu used to discuss with her the issue of "career and love can't be both". She said that in her time, girls could come out and work.

For a woman, it is difficult to cover all aspects of her relationship and career. She has always believed that girls don't have to be in a hurry, and they marry off in order to marry themselves. Of course, the only goal of Zhou Yanan's girls of the same generation in life is to get married and have children. Fortunately, Zhou Yanan is not an ordinary girl, and Lou Wangshu can still discuss it with her.

She cited the president of the Contemporary Writers' Association as an example of how she did not marry until she was in her fifties. And she is busy with her career, not like most people, doing useless work. Her achievements surpassed even those of her contemporaries, and her career success led people to ignore her marital status.

Zhou Yanan said that in numerology, this is called "Kefu". Kefu, of course, is not in the usual sense of the word, killing his husband. Rather, it refers to a man who surpasses his husband in a certain field, and surpasses some of his contemporaries.

And most girls say that they are busy with their careers, but they are just gangsters, and they can't reach a height that everyone looks up to, so they can never be said to be a plus for their marriage. On the contrary, the years were wasted, and when he really wanted to get married, he was not high or low, and said that it was because he was busy with his career. In the end, it's just because I'm making excuses to be lazy.

Lou Wangshu said that a person's energy is limited. Those who have a successful career and a double harvest of love are rare, and they are also truly blessed people.

There are relatively many beautiful skins, but there are too few beautiful souls.

Most boys of the same age live a boring life. Three meals are taken out, I watch messy news all day long, I stay up all night two weeks in advance of the exam, I can't wait to stay in the dormitory for four years of college and never go out, as bland as a glass of boiled water that is cool and overnight.

The girls are ambitious, busy socializing, busy studying, planning to travel the world and enjoy the world's food.

In fact, they are not happy to turn their wonderful lives into black and white paintings in order to be with a boy.

For the sake of their lovers, they rolled up their sleeves and began to prepare three meals a day, but they complained: "The food you cook is really unpalatable." ”

They are afraid that when they are eager to develop a certain interest, all they get is the boy's accusation that "why are you starting tossing again?"

If you are single, you can eat barbecue if you want to eat barbecue, and if you want to eat shabu-shabu, you can make a little porridge and side dishes by yourself, and you can live comfortably. Who cares if you eat spicy food, whether you put onions and garlic, and whether you like to avoid it?

Who wants to block themselves?

At that time, more than half of the girls in their medical school had never been in a relationship or found a boyfriend until they graduated with a doctorate. It is likely that they feel that the cost of falling in love is too great. The process is too trivial, and the ending is not necessarily perfect.

Later, a few girls who hated to marry and were bold came up with the bad idea of "going to the bar to catch a boyfriend and coming back".

Of course, they didn't go to the bar; Despite disliking the boys in his own department, he got married and had children at random, and the whole process was like Mendel's famous pea experiment, which had nothing to do with feelings, but for life.

Lou Wangshu is the kind of girl who comes first in boys, second in dancing, and last in learning. Running out on a date or dancing every night seriously affected her roommate's normal rest, and the girls in the same dormitory hated her to death, so no one told her that there was anything wrong with her husband.

She thought that she was the lucky one, she could get married early, she didn't have to delay until she was in her thirties and had a difficult child, she didn't need to check a lot of indicators, and she nervously worried about whether her child would get Down syndrome throughout the second trimester, or in order to have a child smoothly after she was old, she injected hundreds of ovulation tubes of fetal protection injections on herself. When you are older, having a child is a needle money.

But what happened later...... makes Lou Wangshu feel that it is better to be single than to put a murderer in the same bed with him! At least you can live well.

Lou Wangshu's advice to Zhou Yanan is this, if a girl is focused on learning how to get along with her lover, attaches more importance to love, and spends less effort on her career, then it is naturally okay. Like the girls of Neon Country, there are very few real officeladies. Most of them choose to be housewives after marriage, and those girls who choose to join large companies may only choose a suitable partner for marriage. After all, the building near the water gets the moon first!

If you are determined to work your career, then don't think about other things and want to do something else. fell in love with men and women, and had to follow fate.

A relationship needs to take time to maintain, and it is necessary to spend energy to learn how to communicate effectively with your lover, how to deal with conflicts and even how to subtly transform your lover, so that she becomes a more pleasant type to get along with yourself.

Very few people are born with a natively knowing how to get along with their lover.

In love, the vast majority of people need to be honed before they can become more mature.

It's hard to imagine that a young girl who works from 9 to 5 and is too busy to apply a mask will have the leisure and elegance to eat and go shopping with boys to cultivate a relationship.

Lou Wangshu once asked Zhou Yanan why people who hurt others can often get away with it and live their own lives comfortably. Could it be that God is blind? Is there really no justice?

Zhou Yanan told her that there are two possibilities.

One is a natural enemy. Let's say that the person's previous life killed a person. Then, this person can actually be reincarnated specifically to take revenge.

That's how those common rebirth revenge novels work.

Another possibility is that this person has started to have good luck after doing bad things. When fortune is in charge, it is difficult for others to find out what he has done, and law enforcement officers may not be able to catch him.

And when this person begins to lose his luck, his previous sins will be shaken out one by one, and those who are at large will be caught. What he does will be inflicted on himself in an even more brutal way.

For example, a person who takes someone else's money will be taken by someone else. Those who hurt their colleagues for their own selfish interests and lost their positions will also go home to sell sweet potatoes for the same reason.

Retribution is unpleasant.

Of course, the kind of person who had an excellent reputation during his lifetime and was only revealed after his death, Zhou Yanan couldn't say what the reason was. The people of the Dajin Dynasty put the dead first, and they were not very happy to talk about the dead.

Zhou Yanan and Sister Last were born with the ability to communicate with ghosts and gods. God is fair to everyone. The greater their skills, the greater the price they pay.