Chapter 144 There Are Words in the Words (Birthday + More)
Yu Minglang didn't seem to have had enough, "Second sister-in-law, I heard that you still have-"
"I still have something to do at home, Panpan will leave you here for the night, this child is always crying to find grandma, don't follow me, I'll go first!"
I can't take care of Cordyceps, I'm afraid that Yu Minglang will worry about her other things, and the wind will be under her feet, and the children won't want it. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
Yu Mu and the others left, pushed Yu Minglang, and glared at him fiercely.
Yu Minglang looked indifferent, "Xiaoqian is not an outsider, you have to see it sooner or later, it's useless for you to hide it." ”
As soon as he said this, Yu's mother wanted to kick him even more, this stinky boy, don't you know what face is?
And Xiao Qian... Yu's mother looked at Xiaoqian thoughtfully, she really didn't look like a teenage girl just now.
The sister-in-law and the eldest brother glanced at each other, the sister-in-law looked at Xiaoqian suspiciously, and then looked at the eldest brother, the eldest brother nodded, and the sister-in-law understood, Xiaoqian really did it on purpose just now.
Xiao Qian Panpan hugged him and held his little hand, Panpan had a lot of barbs on his hands, the north called this thing a knife and a gun, the child seemed to have a habit of pulling out a knife and stabbing him, and there were a lot of small cuts on his fingers, which hurt to look at.
"Auntie, how old is this child?"
"It's been 21 months."
Xiaoqian asked softly to the child, "Baby, where did mom go?" ”
The child did not answer her.
"This kid is a little late." Yu's mother walked over and looked at the little grandson in Xiaoqian's arms.
"At this age, those two stinky boys in my family will already run around the house, and they will beep every day, which is annoying." The sister-in-law followed.
My sister-in-law gave birth to a pair of twin sons, who are 7 years old this year, and were picked up by my grandmother at night.
"Did you take it with you to check?" Xiao Qian asked.
The communication between the doctors was more direct, and when she asked, Yu's mother and sister-in-law were not angry.
"Checked, there's nothing wrong, my pulse is a little bad in my stomach." Yu's mother was still upset when she thought about this, she felt that Panpan was a little late to speak, and led the child to have a check-up.
When Wang Xiaohong came back, she cried all kinds of things, she felt that her mother-in-law couldn't trust her, she felt that she had abused children, and she could think a lot about what others did.
"What do you think is wrong?" Yu Minglang asked Xiaoqian.
"In front of my aunt and sister-in-law, I don't know whether to say it or not."
After all, people's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are serious doctors, if Xiaoqian is like a doctor of psychology in her previous life, it is normal to say something, and now she is still a student.
"I don't have that much in my family, you say." Yu Mu said.
"I can't diagnose it—Minglang, you go get a pen and paper." Xiaoqian knew in her heart that when she went to her boyfriend's house for the first time, she should keep a low profile, but as long as it involved children, she couldn't stand by.
Yu Minglang took the paper and pen, Xiao Qian drew some graphics on it, when she did this, the Yu family watched, and even Major General Yu quietly came out of the study.
Xiao Qian showed Pan Pan one by one, Pan Pan didn't react at the beginning to point to the figure ahh
"Where's Daddy?"
"Bing!"
Hearing that Xiaoqian could talk to the child, the Yu family was very surprised.
Panpan said very little, but I didn't expect to be able to communicate with Xiaoqian, who I just met.
Yu's mother took the puree to divert Panpan's attention, and then got him from Xiaoqian's arms.
"What's the matter with this kid?" Yu Minglang asked.
Xiao Qian glanced at Panpan and compared Bili House.
Yu's mother followed Xiaoqian and Yu Minglang into the room, Major General Yu wanted to listen, but he couldn't wipe his face a little, he usually leaned on the door and eavesdropped, but his girlfriend is still there today, it's not good to do this...
Brother Yu smiled and got his father to the study, gave the sister-in-law a color, and the sister-in-law gave the puree to the little aunt, and she followed Xiaoqian into the house.
The child is very young now, but he can understand some words, and Xiaoqian should not say these things to the child.
"I suspect that Panpan has toddler anxiety, accompanied by a tendency to fear." Entering the back room, Xiao Qian spoke.
"What?"
"I began to suspect that Panpan was autistic, then there was no way, fortunately his intelligence was normal, he could understand us, but this child was a little anxious, you see his hands, the skin of his hands are torn."
Infants and toddlers behave differently from adults, adults will vent their anxiety, and children who can't speak will be anxious, and will subconsciously tear the skin of their hands and tear constantly.
"I thought he was vitamin deficient." Yu's mother also noticed this problem.
"There must be a lack of vitamins, otherwise it won't be so easy to peel, he is slow to respond to the outside world, I feel that this child is because of anxiety accompanied by fear, he dare not let go of his heart."
"What caused it?"
“... It's hard to say, it may be innate, or it may be environmental. Xiaoqian knew in her heart that the innate possibility was too small, and when she looked at Wang Xiaohong, she knew that this child was influenced by her.
In front of Yu's mother, she can't be so straightforward.
"So what should I do?"
"Isolate his source of terror, let him have as much contact with children of the same age as possible, and the most important thing is that he must feel the warmth of the family, while he is still young, quickly correct, it's too late..."
Xiao Qian didn't say it, but anyone could imagine what it would be.
Xiaoqian's infant psychology is not authoritative, and she can only make a simple judgment but cannot be treated in detail.
"You can try to find domestic authorities on infant psychology, and they will give more professional solutions than me."
Yu's mother nodded solemnly, feeling very guilty.
As a doctor, she didn't even see that there was something wrong with the child, mainly because she took the child to check it before, after Wang Xiaohong made a fuss, Yu's mother rarely went to her, she didn't expect the child to be like this, if it wasn't for Xiaoqian to see it, the two doctors in the family didn't notice this aspect of the matter.
Xiao Qian stayed with Yu Minglang for a while before leaving.
Only the sister-in-law and Yu's mother were left in the house.
"I've long seen that Xiaohong can't take a child, the last time I went over, she wasn't at home, her mother-in-law threw Panpan in the yard, and led a bunch of people to play mahjong in the house, and I don't know where she found so many idle old ladies."
Yu's mother was still angry when she thought of that scene, when she passed, Panpan sat pitifully in the yard, wearing dirty clothes, the chickens, ducks, geese, dogs and cats in that yard were all free-range, and the child was obviously afraid.
"No, bring the child to our family, and don't let her raise it."
"I look back and think about it, how to tell the second child about this, I'm afraid of Wang Xiaohong in his family, I cry at every turn, and my ears hurt when I cry." Yu Mu sighed.
"Mom... Do you think Xiaohong and Mingyi can really go together? "My sister-in-law has wanted to say this for a long time.
She and her mother-in-law are not without a way to deal with Wang Xiaohong, but Yu Lao Er brought Pan Pan back from the outside, and the Yu family felt that Wang Xiaohong was at a loss, and they have always been merciful to her.
"The second child chose it himself, he has the final say, what is going on with the second child, he was obviously a smart child when he was a child, how can he be so confused about choosing a mate, Wang Xiaohong compared with Xiaoqian, he has lived for so many years in vain." Yu's mother was worried when she thought of this.
"Yes, I like Xiaoqian's girl very much, and she performed so well today..."
In the study, Brother Yu poured a cup of tea for his father.
"What do you think of this girl you are looking for?" Yu's father asked Brother Yu, Brother Yu was always smiling, no matter how good he was outside, he was a good man when he came home, he basically saw through everything but rarely said anything.
But if there is something going on at home, he will say a word, and it will be absolutely good.
"I think it's good."
If you don't look up, Xiao Qian just watched quietly, Yu Minglang picked her head, she was able to pick it up, and she had a very good grasp of proportion, just these two points, Brother Yu had reason to think that Xiao Qian could accompany Yu Minglang to the end.
Father Yu nodded and did not speak. It would be nice if the second child could also find such a woman, Yu Lao Mo and Yu Lao Er are both active, and from the perspective of the future, the two children are equally good, but if Yu Er continues to rise in the future, the woman in his family will become a scourge.
"Lao Mo is still young and bloody, it is impossible to stand by and watch, it is good to hone and hone him through this matter, his girlfriend is not an ordinary person, there is nothing wrong with her, see how Lao Mo deals with this matter, it can be regarded as exercising him, Dad, drink tea."
When the eldest brother and sister-in-law came out of Yu's house, it was already an hour later, and on the way back, the sister-in-law asked the eldest brother.
"Mingli, my mother discussed with me today to bring Panpan over, and she raised it herself, what do you think?"
"Lack of meat in the belly is incomplete..."Brother Yu touched his fat belly and shook his head.
"You're all fat and tall, and you still eat! Don't change the subject! I actually have a headache, you look at the second family, every day, our mother made her gray hair, Lao Mo is really relieved today, Xiaoqian also surprised me, I was stupid when I was 18, I didn't know anything, I feel like she understands everything, it's good, if only Wang Xiaohong was half as sensible as Xiaoqian. ”
"The second child doesn't want to find a smart one, if Wang Xiaohong is a transparent person, the second child can't marry."
"What?" My sister-in-law doesn't understand.
The eldest brother looked at the car potted plant placed between the co-pilot and the driver's seat, and asked with a smile.
"There are several bones in this potted flower, why is there only one?"
"I repaired it, the space in the car is so big, it's too long, it's better to grow one that can absorb nutrients - no, why do you change the topic again?"
"Silly daughter-in-law, I've told you the answer, you can figure it out yourself, I can only tell you, he has been very aware of things since he was a child, but his sense of responsibility is too heavy and emotional, sometimes it is easy to hurt himself, he can marry Wang Xiaohong, it may be killing two birds with one stone, or he may not be able to think about it after encountering it, these all take time, the key to the problem is to see how Lao Mo does it."
Yu Mingli looked out of the car and restrained his smile, only hoping that Yu Laomo could live up to expectations and grow up quickly, and guard this home with him and Mingyi.
At this time, Xiaoqian is also thinking about an important question, this explosion, whether she wants to come out... (To be continued.) )