It turned out that the feeling in Nantan floated little by little, which made Lu Weimin a little moved, anyway, Shen Zilie's attitude towards himself has not changed much, maybe because of the change in the status of each person and some other factors are involved, but in essence, it has not been affected much.

Lu Weimin's heart warmed, and he scratched his head, "I really haven't considered this matter, someone introduced it, Brother Shen, you also know that I also had one or two girlfriends, but as you said, starting a family and dating are two different things, dating can talk about feelings, starting a family is not just feelings, there are others, especially now like me, it is difficult to choose." ”

Shen Zilie heard the anguish in Lu Weimin's heart, and groaned slightly: "For the people, there is no contradiction between dating and starting a family, the purpose of dating is to start a family, you young people are sometimes easy to pick and choose, but I think you should be able to grasp the proportion, like Yue Shuangting, if Yan Yongshu has no problems, then Yue Shuangting is a good dating partner, but Yan Yongshu has this kind of thing, you should also know that it is not appropriate for you to have a relationship with her again, I think Yue Shuangting and her family should also know this." Marriage and family are very important, it is a key step for your life, and you really need to be cautious on this issue. ”

"Brother Shen, I know, but you also know that sometimes feelings are difficult to say, everything can be analyzed and judged with reason if there is no emotion entangled, but once there are feelings, your analysis and judgment is no matter how rational and reasonable it is, but it is difficult to make up your mind. Lu Weimin shook his head sullenly.

Shen Zilie glanced at Lu Weimin deeply, he felt that Lu Weimin was indeed worried about this problem, it seemed that it was difficult to make a choice, he didn't know Lu Weimin's private life very well, Lu Weimin's words also revealed some meanings, and there seemed to be some unspeakable obstacles for those who were like-minded, and those who met the conditions seemed to have no emotional foundation, which was indeed a not easy to make a decision.

Shen Zilie guessed correctly. It's not that Lu Weimin hasn't thought about his personal problems, it's not that he has repented, but he knows that this problem has been placed in front of him and cannot be avoided.

He thought about it, the three marriage partners in front of him, Su Yanqing, Zhen Jie, and Mu Tan.

Zhen Jie should be the most inappropriate, not only Lu Weimin has a certain psychological barrier, I am afraid that Zhen Jie's inner psychological barrier is even greater, it is one thing for two people to cross the boundary and have a relationship. Even in private, Luan Feng and Ming have little impact, but if it comes to talking about marriage, it will undoubtedly make both of them suffer huge moral and ethical pressure, Lu Weimin doesn't think that Zhen Jie can bear it, and even Lu Weimin feels that Zhen Jie has not considered this aspect at all.

Even Lu Weimin and Zhen Jie didn't know what the outcome of their bad relationship would be, in fact, after that relationship, Lu Weimin and Zhen Jie both consciously avoided it, trying to calm themselves.

Su Yanqing wants to say that she is very suitable in all aspects, and she also has a very good emotional foundation. But it is precisely this point that makes Lu Weimin the most afraid and annoyed, he has no confidence in himself, Su Yanqing is a woman who can't rub sand in her eyes, and Su Yanqing may be able to pretend not to know all the things before marriage. But after marriage, Su Yanqing will never allow any flaws in the relationship between the two, which Lu Weimin has a deep understanding of.

Moreover, Su Yanqing's rather tough and strong temper also determines that if this kind of thing happens, something big may really happen, and the dissolution of the marriage is possible. But it is very likely to fall into the most painful cold war, as he has been married in his previous life, and even had an unforgettable relationship. I know too well that the lover is in the eyes, and any mistakes and mistakes in the lover are insignificant, but once the lover becomes a husband and wife, then the subtle mistakes will be magnified, if the other party is a woman who has a habit of cleanliness in her feelings, then what she does will not be accepted by the other party at all.

Of course, Lu Weimin knows that if he can really change his mind and be loyal, of course it is not a big problem, but Lu Weimin knows that he is easy to change his nature, he really has no confidence in himself, and he can't cut off his feelings for a woman who has had some kind of emotional interweaving.

As for Mu Tan, to be honest, Lu Weimin has also considered it, a woman who does not have too deep emotional entanglements, and has a considerable help to her career, it seems to be good, but there are also many problems here, one is that Mu Tan himself is not very interested in this marriage contract, and the other is that Mu Tan does not seem to mind his private life now, but it is difficult to say what kind of performance he will have after he really gets married, and the third is that Lu Weimin himself is also not interested in this marriage contract.

Although the Yang family will help him in his future career, Lu Weimin has never thought that he has to rely on the Yang family to really get ahead.

Lu Weimin knows very well that even if he and Mu Tan are married, the Mu family originally belongs to the collateral bloodline of the Yang family, and the reason why he likes himself is because he has already broken a path in his career and laid some foundation, otherwise why would Yang Zining take a fancy to him, and even send a girl from the Yang family who is not bad in all aspects?

Even Cao Lang may not be cultivated as a descendant in the Yang family, it depends on his own creation, even if he is married to Mu Tan, so what? The icing on the cake may be okay, but he is more likely to become a member of a certain group, and he has to be subordinate to serving this interest group, Lu Weimin is not much interested in this, and even a little resistant.

It should be said that these three people are not his good match, but he doesn't seem to have much interest in finding his true destiny again, some things seem to be said well, the reason is determined, he really hopes that this is the case, but now time does not allow him to delay it so much.

"Brother Shen, I know, just because I know the importance of marriage, I really need to think about it seriously, I don't want a marriage to make a mess for the rest of my life. It even affected the goals I set for myself. Lu Weimin said sincerely.

Shen Zilie sighed, "For the people, I don't want my failure in marriage to affect your perception of marriage, after all, successful marriages are still the majority, you have to have confidence in yourself." ”

"I see. Lu Weimin nodded, "Brother Shen cares." ”

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The month at the end of the year is undoubtedly the busiest period for the government, and for Lu Weimin, the end of '97 can be regarded as the busiest period since he joined the work.

In addition to the preparations for the first phase of the merger of the new Lushan Group, Lu Weimin also shouldered the huge problem of the city's municipal organs up and down for the New Year.

The New Year is not a word, but a real thing to spend with real money.

And 97 years for Songzhou, is undoubtedly the most difficult year, in recent years the economic development of the difficult pace of financial growth has slowed down day by day, from 95 years the city's municipal fiscal revenue growth has been in zero growth, 96 years of growth of a pitiful 0.5 percent, and 97 years is a negative growth of 8 percent.

According to the agreement reached with the Lushan Group, the city needs to bear part of the debts of the four major factories pledged by their own assets and all the debts guaranteed by the municipal finance, and these debts alone are enough to push the municipal finance into the abyss.

In addition to the four major textile enterprises left a huge black hole, there are several other municipal enterprises in the city also have a lot of debts guaranteed by the municipal finance, most of these problems are left before Shang Quanzhi took office as secretary of the Songzhou Municipal Party Committee in 95, and Shang Quanzhi tried to solve these legacy problems after taking office, but the deterioration of Songzhou's economy greatly exceeded his expectations, so that his idea of reversing this trend not only did not be implemented, but further increased the number of these debts.

Several major banks in the city have clearly closed the door to lending to Songzhou municipal enterprises and Songzhou municipal finance, and none of the major banks in the city have any intention of lending to Songzhou until they reach an agreement on the issue of repaying the huge loans.

This is not because the major banks have to be embarrassed by the newly appointed Tong Yunsong and Lu Weimin, but because the major banks are facing the difficult adjustment of the transformation from professional banks to commercial banks, and the compression of the non-performing loan ratio and the assessment of the superior banks have forced the major banks to harden their minds and unify their attitudes.

Coming out of the Industrial and Commercial Bank of China, Tong Yunsong's face was as dark as a summer cloud, and he didn't say a word when he got into the car, just raised his head and stared in contemplation.

Lu Weimin did not expect to encounter such a closed door, these two days and several major banks to contact and coordinate, to solve the problem of funds years ago, in addition to the city to celebrate the New Year, there are several municipal enterprises also need a working capital for the New Year, but several banks are more resolute than one another, one is tougher than the other, without exception proposed to solve the previous loan repayment problem first, and then talk about others, which also means that the door to continue the loan is closed. ‘

The credit unions agreed to settle a few loans, but they were not enough, and the major banks closed their doors, making the situation suddenly sinister.

Lu Weimin got into the car, and saw that Tong Yunsong's face was extremely ugly, and he was helpless, the president of the Industrial and Commercial Bank of China, Xiang Zuofeng, was the new president who had just arrived, and the former president had been transferred back to the provincial branch to serve as an idle position, it was said that it was because he was too indulgent in Songzhou City on the issue of lending to municipal state-owned enterprises, and the new one was quite resolute, and after talking for less than half an hour, the conversation collapsed.

Work hard to make up for it, be sure to make it up, ask for a monthly pass!(To be continued......)