Yan Shunhua lay lazily on the recliner.

Bai Guo leaned over and asked, "What's wrong?"

"Nothing. Just take care of your children. I'm fine, I just want to quietly enjoy the feeling of stealing a half-day of leisure. ”

"Madam, there are quite few things in our house, you rarely go out, and you rarely entertain guests, and the close contacts are real relatives and friends. Unlike some people on the side, in order to welcome and maintain a close relationship, they are so busy every day that they don't touch the ground, and sometimes they have to accompany guests when they are sick. ”

Yan Shunhua took the book away from her face, "Oh, are the other housewives busier than me, are they all more willing to spend their time on ushering in and sending them off? Not necessarily? Isn't parenting more important?"

When it comes to this, Baiguo has a lot to say.

"Of course, not everyone is like this, but how to say it, marriage is the good of the two families to marry Qin and Jin, so many times women can't help themselves after marrying a wife.

Some people don't have to take care of the house, and they may have more time to take care of their husbands and children, but in order to gain more voice, they may also spend more effort to please those who can talk to their husbands.

As for the mother-in-law, she has to take care of the daily life of the family, and also take care of the affairs of the farm and shop outside, so she does not have so much time to take care of her husband and children. This type of person often needs to put in more effort, but no matter how capable they are, they will also need to rely on more outsiders to help them manage their families and take care of their children

。 Many times, because it is really a lack of skills, if the communication between husband and wife is poor, it is easy to have problems, if there is a particularly powerful concubine, even if the husband and wife can maintain the surface of harmony, the private relationship must be drifting apart, no matter how generous the woman, it is impossible not to have an exclusive desire for her husband's heart.

Although slaves and maids rarely go out, but compared with their wives, they always leave the house more often, and they can always see such a situation, whether it is a family or an ordinary person, but if they are not struggling with the food and clothing line, they have a little money and a little status, and they will always cause family conflicts because of the inability to cooperate in time. ”

Yan Shunhua's eyes sparkled when she heard this, and she blushed when she saw Bai Guo, and said uneasily, "The slave is in vain." ”

"No, you said it well, and you observed and summarized it well. It seems that getting married is still different from not getting married, if you were a few years ago, you would definitely not be able to say what you say today. Shen Yan seems to be very good to you, compared to you who was cautious in your words before, you are much more lively now, and you are willing to share your thoughts with me. ”

Baigo's face turned even redder.

"It has nothing to do with him. Even if the slave maid is not married today, she will talk to her wife about everything. You are a good master, fair and generous, amiable, and never take into account the mistakes made by us maids. Even if the slave is a gourd without a mouth, after so many years, she has already grown a new mouth, and she has told her all the words in her heart. ”

Yan Shunhua glanced at her playfully, "You mean, in your heart, I am more important than Shen Yan?"

Bai Guo nodded without hesitation, "Of course." For the sake of the wife, the slave and the maid can go to the soup and the fire, and the slave and maid are not happy to lose their lives for him. The slave's life belongs to the Shen family, and he doesn't owe him anything. ”

If it were in the past, Bai Guo would probably change her rhetoric euphemistically, so that someone who could definitely hear it secretly would not hurt her self-esteem so much, but I don't know if she was really influenced by Yan Shunhua, or if she was spoiled by someone after getting married, her personality is getting closer and closer to Baicao, and if she doesn't speak, she will tell the truth, a proper Geng straight girl.

Yan Shunhua couldn't laugh or cry.

"Do you believe that you have shown loyalty to me, and you will be punished by Shen Yan to kneel on the washboard when you turn around?"

Bai Guo blinked, "He doesn't dare, unless he wants his master to punish him to work as a coolie in the frontier."

Madame, you think, if the slave is not happy, it is very likely that she will not be able to do a good job, the slave and the maid, as your eldest maid, represents a certain amount of face for you, if you don't give face to the slave and maid, you don't give face to the lady, the slave is not happy, the lady will be unhappy, if the lady is unhappy, the young masters will definitely be angry.

The master's words are not said on the face, but they will definitely find out in private, and when the truth is revealed, it will be the day when my family leaves the house. If others are not stupid, they will not do this kind of stupid thing that directly offends me and indirectly displeases the masters. ”

Yan Shunhua laughed.

"You guy, you are really getting more and more cunning, and you also know what it means to bully others? Although it is said that our house is dominated by men and women, the problem is that in the final analysis, I still listen to Shen Jingyuan's opinions more. If Shen Yan also learns to make a small report to Shen Jingyuan, and compares the two with each other, I also think that Shen Yan is more aggrieved, wouldn't you be beating yourself up?"

Bai Guo shook his head quite confidently when he heard this.

"This won't happen, you and the master are both people who know what to do, and watching the excitement or something is completely inconsistent with your and the master's temperament. In addition, my family actually doesn't make small reports. He always said that the matter between husband and wife is a private matter, and it should be resolved by the two of us by ourselves, and don't bother others.

Slaves and maids don't matter, just like Mrs. You said, women have hands and feet, it's not that they don't have ink on their chests, and they don't have any craftsmanship at all, and they can live a good life alone, no matter whether they are married or not, they find that the two are really not suitable.

Time flies like a white horse, and decades of time are just a snap of a finger, and after separation, it is not good that such a hurdle has been completely crossed in less than a year. ”

Yan Shunhua was surprised, she could see that Bai Guo was serious when she said this.

"It's over, I think that even if Shen Yan makes a small report, if it is not good, he will complain to Shen Jingyuan that I have brought you badly.

Baiguo, when did you start thinking like this? I remember I didn't specifically instill such an idea with you, right? It's a big deal to live alone or something, speaking chicly, really putting it into practice, telling you, it will definitely make you unable to eat and walk around, and tears will flow upside down. ”

"Of course, the slave knows that it is easier said than done, but it is just to think about it.

Although Madame didn't specifically say this, Madame has always been very independent, how to say, just like a real gentleman, consistent with words and deeds, always responsible for what she says and does. ”

What you want to do and what you want to do are calculated, not afraid of failure, willing to take risks, when you encounter a problem, you will not be afraid to try anything, but dare to face the difficulties in life, and always learn and grow in the continuous problem solving, constantly break the game, constantly break through, and constantly become better, stronger, and faster, so that life becomes more open.