"What are you thinking?" Chuanhu asked with a smile as he saw her standing at the bow of the boat and seemed to be a little worried.

"I'm thinking about my grandparents, I didn't accompany them well when I went back this time, I asked them, they don't want to leave their hometown, let me not always run back, there will be more and more problems, they are old and have children and grandchildren to take care of it, it's actually very good, don't worry about me, I still feel a little uncomfortable. ”

"They can go out to Yangzhou and live in the capital for a year or two in their old age, which is actually a very happy thing for them, and they are very content. They don't let you go back often, and they don't want the conflict to be intensified. When you are old, you always want to see a harmonious family. It's true that you think about them and want to go back to spend time with their loved ones, but you give a lot of hope to others, but when you are rejected, your hopes are dashed, and that feeling will not be very good. When we settle down, if you want them to go back to see them, or write a few more letters, it's good for the old people to be accompanied by Brother Yi and their little ones, and they are not lonely. Chuanhu also understood that this time I went back, Mrs. Li talked to them earnestly.

Over the years, Qiaolan has actually spent a lot of manpower and material resources in her mother's family, and as a daughter-in-law, it is actually a bit undesirable, and even a little too much.

The girls married out of their Lijia Village can only go home once a year during the Chinese New Year, and sometimes the mother-in-law is unwilling or has other things to delay, and it is not uncommon for them to not be able to go home for several years.

And he gave birth to a plug and baa for a few years, almost all of them lived in his mother's house, and later took all his mother's family out to play everywhere and lived in the capital, almost the most important stage of his life, grandparents, parents and parents followed the whole process, and his father was good-tempered and tolerant of her, and there was no serious relationship with his mother-in-law, and no daughter-in-law could do this.

Mrs. Li also said that even Xuewen has grandchildren, so let them not go back often, the children and grandchildren will have more and more ideas because of wealth and glory, and they will also be a burden to Qiaolan and Chuanhu to the Li family, and the status between them has long been unequal, and they can't look at the problem with ordinary eyes.

This sister-in-law will become an aunt and grandmother in two years, so what are you going to do when she goes back? Thanks to the filial piety of the children, they have a good life to serve, and they have these good days with a longevity word, and it is very good to live a quiet life, knowing that their children and grandchildren are living well, and Qiaolan is living well, they are very happy.

specially warn Qiaolan, you are also a mother-in-law, don't worry about your mother's family, you are so old, and you still carry your mother's family on your back, it's not appropriate, what do people say about you. Just write a letter, don't keep coming back, I'll write to them if there's something.

This is what Mrs. Li and Old Man Li meant, let her live her life steadfastly, and let the old man understand that she should not be restraining Qiaolan, because they made Qiaolan unable to put her mind at ease, and she tried every means to go home to see, so there were so many problems and troubles.

That's why the old couple had this separate conversation, in fact, they had a good life, no one wronged them, and the little grandchildren could tease and play, and they were not lonely, Qiaolan shouldn't be thinking about her mother's family like this, she has been married for 20 years, and she has to carry her mother's family on her back, which makes people say that her mouth is too inappropriate.

The old man's understanding and generosity moved Qiaolan, but it was also a little bitter, he also understood that it was really inappropriate for her to continue to live in her parents' house, although her parents were there, she could accompany her grandparents, but some things were slowly changing, and the sister-in-law was still relying on her mother's house for her age, and she said that she was filial piety and gave a lot of money, but it was not suitable.

"I went home this time to accompany my grandparents, but the matter of learning literature made me a little uncomfortable, and then you sent the family back, and when I went out of the village, Uncle Xu caught up and asked me not to worry about going home, they were fine, it was my grandfather who asked Uncle Xu to tell me. I feel a little bad in my heart. ”

"Fool, your grandparents don't want to be a burden to you, they said that after a hundred years, let your father-in-law and mother-in-law live with Xuewu, so that you can see them often. In those years, it was good for them to accompany you to live in the capital, after all, you still have to consider the faces of your second uncle and second aunt, you can't let people be buried in the capital, this will slap your second uncle in the face, and it is not suitable. People live in the world in this life, they have never lived only for themselves, there are always some shackles and concerns that need to be considered and sacrificed, grandparents are like this, and you and I are the same. You see why your second brother doesn't want to go home to be filial to his parents, but he also knows that it is not appropriate to go back again, which will make Xuewen and his wife think that he wants to divide his father's property when he goes back, and grandparents can live in the capital for a few years It is already filial piety and consideration for their children and grandchildren. ”

"Well, I understand the truth, but sometimes it's a little uncomfortable. By the way, my brother and my sister-in-law said that when it gets hot, they also plan to take the child back to the city to live, his brother has returned to the capital, it is said that he is going to be on duty, Grandpa Zhang hopes to learn martial arts and go back to prepare for some things in the pharmacopoeia, and may live in the city for a few years, my brother hopes to carefully study medical skills, and the time and energy have been spent on human relations in recent years, and he is also a little tired. When I go back, I may take my parents and grandparents to live in the city for a while, and play to make the old people happy. ”

"That's a good thing, he's a doctor who has no end to learning, as he should. Chuanhu also supported Xuewu to continue to study his medical skills and become a real Saihuatuo.

"Well, if it weren't for my brother going back, I really wouldn't be at ease to leave like this, and my brother and sister-in-law told me the plan during the Chinese New Year, so that I could rest assured that I would take care of my grandparents when I went back. Qiao Lan wiped away her tears and smiled again.

"Well, your brother will be very happy when he goes back to his grandparents. Chuanhu smiled.

"Well, my second brother is a little dissatisfied with my eldest brother, so he wants his father and grandparents to live in the city, and he said that he is sure to persuade them to live in the old man, hehehe! I don't know what he thinks, anyway, he will definitely be able to do it without me. Qiao Lan couldn't help but laugh.

"Learning martial arts never does things that you are not sure about, so it shouldn't be a big problem. Chuanhu also laughed out loud.

"I am also relieved to have him take care of the elderly. Qiao Lan smiled and nodded.

After traveling for almost a month, they arrived in Guangzhou, and it is really more prosperous here, especially the scene of various goods being loaded and unloaded at the wharf, which is very busy.

"There are a lot of seafood here, especially Western goods, and I plan to do Western goods. "Chuanhu sees the business opportunity and is ready to cooperate with the general to do the business of Western goods, close to the port, it will be more than 30% lower than the previous cost, this is all profit.

"Okay, I don't care about your business, you can do it as you like. ”

"Well, you just wait to collect the money, don't worry about the rest. "Chuanhu is full of confidence.