"When you retire, go to the capital to accompany him, didn't you say that you want to take your dad out to play, go, what a good thing, go out for a walk, after a lifetime of old age and old wandering, if he doesn't go, you will take Brother Yu with you, anyway, the child will also go on a study tour, and he will definitely be happy to go out with his grandson." Old man Li naturally understands Father Liu's thoughts, as long as he drags his grandson up, he will not be unwilling to go anywhere.

"Hahaha! Grandpa, you've got my father's pulse. I said that I will send Brother Yu home to study, let my father stay with me to guard his son, don't be rare to guard his son, I have to go back to guard my grandson, said that Brother Chen is not only a nurse by his side, I can look at it better, said that Duanhui can usually be busy and take care of me inside and out, I can't do anything else, I can still watch a child or something. The idea is right, and I don't want to stay. Qiao Lan said and laughed.

"Sister-in-law, don't say that my dad is here, but it saves me a lot of heart, I usually have to be a housekeeper, and my dad takes Brother Chen and the nurse in and out, there is nothing bad at all, Brother Chen knows what he eats and pulls a few times and what color is better than me, but it's good." When Duan Hui heard this, he ran over to join in the fun.

I listened to it just now, and I couldn't bear to go over, and I felt uncomfortable when I saw my sister-in-law crying unhappily, but she couldn't say it, which made my sister-in-law feel even more embarrassed.

"That's when I was wearing a bolt, and I'm a novice, I don't know anything, so I'm nervous. I made a small notebook, what is the situation of the child from morning to night, eating, drinking, Lazar, including what he ate, all the notes were written, what he ate today is uncomfortable, and immediately stopped and observed for a few days, which means that it is best not to touch this thing in the future. Daddy has always carried a plug, just remember it, even Brother Yu I don't have to worry about it, every day with my mother can remember clearly, you don't have to worry, my dad has a book of his own, the child's things can be remembered clearly. Qiao Lan smiled triumphantly.

The old man watched her record, Li's mother didn't know how to write and relied on her brain to remember, but her father knew how to write and recorded it by himself, thinking about helping his daughter-in-law reduce the burden, and he also loved his eldest grandson, and he was enthusiastic and happy when he had something to do.

Duanhui couldn't help but nod when he heard it, "If it wasn't for my dad to help me watch this time, I really didn't dare to go out, I saw that my dad was more experienced than me, last time you weren't at home, Brother Chen was uncomfortable and kept crying, and he couldn't see anything when he checked his pulse, saying that he had internal heat but no fever, but the child just kept crying, I was so anxious that my mouth was on fire and blistering, and my father touched the child's buttocks and said, I want to have a fever, drink more water, and let me watch it carefully at night, it must burn up, and sure enough, in the middle of the night, the nurse told me that it was burning." God, the imperial doctor didn't even see it. ”

"It's really, so I said that whoever brings more children knows the changes in the child's body best, you don't take the child or bring less, you just don't know some of the child's physical problems, so I asked you not to trust the grandmother too much, the most important one is that the child who takes who kisses, this is no problem. Qiao Lan also has her own experience when talking about children.

Duan Hui nodded repeatedly, "That's right, sister-in-law, I listened to you, I play with the child every day for a while, I sleep with the child when Weizi is not at home, Brother Chen and Grandma are not as close as I thought, they are still willing to kiss me, this is really in response to your words." ”

"Yes, children are the simplest, if you treat him well, he will rely on you, and if you ignore him, he will not recognize you. Qiao Lan smiled.

Duan Hui nodded when he listened, and asked a lot of questions about raising children, Mrs. Li is very experienced and said things that the imperial doctor does not know, but it does not belong to the category of medicine. said that it was crooked, saying that Qiaolan was difficult to raise when she was a child, and her temper was stubborn, and she also said interesting stories and embarrassing things about Qiaolan when she was a child, Duanhui laughed and was very happy.

They said all the way home, still happy or, Duanhui is very patient with the elderly, probably because the Queen Mother raised her, she has a unique way of accompanying the elderly, which can make the old man very happy and will listen carefully.

"Grandma, at that time, my sister-in-law really learned embroidery so hard, why did she prick her with a needle. Duan Hui didn't quite understand why she was so harsh.

Mrs. Li sighed and recalled the past with a distant gaze.

"I didn't think so much when I first taught, I just thought that girls should learn things and have to learn, can't do nothing, if the income is slightly better, you can embroider purses and go out to make money, and if you marry someone in the future, you can have more money in your own hands, and your mother-in-law can say a few words less.

Later, I found that Lanzi is very spiritual, and the embroidered things are particularly aura, so I moved my mind, and then conscripted and conscripted food, and several times I earned the little money I earned when I was young, including her second uncle to get married, to be upright and to become a family, to learn to become a family, etc., you want to be a farmer's family, where you can withstand so many things, red and white ceremonies, build a house, conscription, etc., and buy land, always have to live.

This time I was drained, how can the peasants make money, there are so many things to eat by the sky, there are a lot. Her mother went out to set up a stall, I took the child during the day, and I restrained Qiao Lan to learn the craft, or hoped that he could come out to reduce the burden on the family, because that would have been overstretched, for this Xuewen retired from the craft and went home to farm, Qiao Lan did not learn how to be neat, she embroidered well, the purse can sell a few more copper plates than others to go home, the farmers do not see a few big sons all year round, do not buy oil and salt do not go to the county, rush to the market in order to sell more things to get the money to buy salt and the necessary food at home.

He can embroider well and also has this talent, I still hope that the family can reverse the predicament, can get over the better, the child loves to play, can't sit still, tired. No way, in order to grind her temper and temperament, when she is naughty and embroidery, she him with a needle, the embroidery girl's hands are much more expensive than the face gold, the hands can't be beaten, she can't embroider things if she wants to embroider things, and the hands are thick and can't embroider valuable things, you think about him not working and not making money, can he tolerate her in the future, I can live for a few years, I have to think about it for the future of the child, there is a craft, you are not afraid of wherever you go, right? ”

After saying all the bitterness of the peasant family, Duanhui was panicked when he heard it, "Grandma, you are so hard, I used to think about my father and mother in my palace, and I felt that I was so wronged, but now I look at my sister-in-law, why do I think I am so hypocritical." ”

She laughed to herself.

"It's not the same child, the rich and noble families also have the sorrow of the rich and noble people and the hard work that is not enough for outsiders, I have also lived in the capital for a few years, and I have also seen Wanyu's grievances and bitterness, wearing silk and satin, suffering no less than anyone else, each has its own difficulties, but we don't know. "Mrs. Li has lived a lifetime and has rich life experience, so she can naturally understand this.

"Grandma, you are so nice, I like to talk to you, and my heart is open when I talk to you. Duan Hui threw herself on Mrs. Li's knees and buried her head, she remembered the Queen Mother, the Queen Mother was really good to her.