"I remembered the rest, your second uncle asked me to borrow money a few days ago, saying that he wanted to buy an air conditioner, and your grandmother and our two families lived in turns, and he said that his house was too hot, and he was afraid that your grandmother would be offended." Xiaoqian's mother remembered this.

"It's embarrassing to buy an air conditioner, if they talk about the old man again, you tell him to buy it with the old man's pension, and he will stop as soon as he stops, as for the matter of this pillar" Xiaoqian paused and thought for a while.

"Don't give money, it's better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish."

"What fish are not fishing?" Xiaoqian's mother knows braised fish.

"I mean, according to the situation of our family, you will definitely not be able to recover the money after you give it out, and you will cause other troubles, wait for me to find someone to arrange a job for the sister-in-law of Zhu Zizi to earn more money in a month, so that her family status will come up, and the child will be able to save for a period of time to get the child's surgery fee as long as the young couple has the heart."

This is a one-and-done method, which can make the other party remember their kindness, and can contain the pillar from running over to make trouble.

"What are you doing with that thing, just give the money."

"You've got a little money and you're floating, aren't you? Let me tell you, people's mentality is that they will not cherish things that are too easy to get, you give people for nothing, not only will the pillar not receive our love, but if you don't help if you need it in the future, you are the enemy of others, but if you give his daughter-in-law a job, he will think of you all the time. ”

The biggest beneficiary of this is still the six-fingered child that Xiao Qian has never met.

"That's the case, but do you have anyone over there?"

"The stone family's pharmaceutical factory should have a distribution point over there, and when the time comes, I will get the pillar sister-in-law to run a business, although it is hard but the income is not low, and the pillar will not be able to help coax the child at that time." Although a man with a small peasant consciousness has some straight male thoughts, the advantage is that if he grabs the money, he will also grasp his lifeline, and he will be honest in the future.

"Your pillar brother is also enough to make people angry, if your sister-in-law doesn't say it, I really can't see that he is the kind of person who doesn't care about children, this is my nephew, I can't say, but Qian'er, what you did this time surprised my mother."

"Oh? Where is the accident? ”

"I've listened to so many episodes of your show, you talk about divorce at every turn, and I'm afraid that you will persuade others to break up."

"Uh, Mom, can you listen to my show less in the future? It's hard to stay up late. "I feel a little embarrassed to be heard by my mother that she is hosting the show.

"It's okay, your Uncle Liao recorded it for me, I not only listened to it myself, but I also listened to it to the sisters around me, and I was happy that my daughter was promising."

"Okay, when I didn't say"

Give it to others!!

Xiao Qian's temples jumped several times.

"Mom, there's a sentence I have to tell you in front, I don't think it takes a lot of effort to do this, in fact, half of the brain cells are burned to deal with one thing, for example, after reading it to the pillar sister-in-law, I have to lie down for half a month when I go back, I and Minglang are planning to have a child recently, I personally don't mind helping the person you introduce to the voluntary consultation or something, but if it is delayed, I want a child-"

"Ahh Are you planning to have a baby? Emma, thank goodness, you're enlightened, don't worry! I'll push you in the future, don't let them bother you, girl, won't you delay your studies? If you don't read it, you will say that female doctors are different from normal people."

For Xiaoqian's mother, she is very happy that her daughter can go to graduate school, and in her heart, doctoral and graduate students are just the difference between one and two, so aren't there many specialties?

"You don't see much of this mess, how many doctors do you see that are not normal? Isn't it normal to be rich? Liumei is such a good girl, and she can't marry it? ”

"I said a female doctor, not a male doctor! I also heard a joke recently, saying that the undergraduate student is Huang Rong, the master's student is Zhao Min, and the doctoral student is the extermination master, if you read a postdoc, it will be undefeated in the East! ”

Xiaoqian took a deep breath and said silently in her heart, this is my mother, this is my mother, I can't scare her

"Mom, others demonize highly educated women, what are you doing with it? I'm going to become an exterminator, what is Xiaoqiang? ”

"Shaolin old bald donkey?" Xiaoqian's mother recently changed from a bloody drama to a martial arts drama, and she came as soon as she opened her mouth.

Mother, mother, you can't be angry with your mother

Xiaoqian was pouring chicken soup on herself again, and Xiaoqian's mother probably felt that it was inappropriate to say that her sensible and filial son-in-law was inappropriate, so she took two mouthfuls.

"Let your bad girl go around for me! Where did you just go? ”

"Speaking of why you don't let Zhuzi's sister-in-law divorce, it's not because Zhuzi is your nephew, but I think there is a saying that is particularly true, there are not so many saints in mortal dust, but some mortals who are in love with each other. Sister-in-law Zhuzi is an ordinary woman, and Zhuzi is also an ordinary man, if you let her divorce, she must also have the capital to set up another door, what about the child? ”

The reality is that unless a woman who is not financially independent looks like a big star, even if she remarries, will the man she finds really be better than the pillar?

Some of the straight men's ideas of the pillar are quite scary, but they are not hopeless, he wants to take shortcuts, but he doesn't need to talk about it outside, he doesn't want to spend money on his disabled daughter, but he doesn't hate and abuse this child.

When the pillar sister-in-law earns more, not only will she be financially independent, but her personality will definitely be more confident, will the pillar be the same as now?

People are changing, she has changed, he has changed, the man who values interests looks annoying, but this kind of person also has a benefit, as long as the pillar sister-in-law earns more than him and holds economic power, this kid will be able to honestly dare not bully the pillar sister-in-law and dare not dislike the child in the future, the most important thing is that if the pillar sister-in-law stands up, the pillar must share part of the family responsibilities, and there is no time to come over and entangle the little Qian's mother with soft ears, Xiaoqian can be regarded as solving the family once and for all.

In fact, there are more extreme ways to make the pillar never bother Xiaoqian's mother, but if you do that, the six-fingered child will be miserable in the future, Xiaoqian herself has plans to have children, and during this period, she intentionally or unintentionally wants to accumulate more virtue for the child.

"You've really grown up, and this married woman is just different."

Xiao Qian's mother felt relieved, her daughter has changed so much and matured, she still remembers that when Qian'er almost married Ni Jianren, she didn't know how to pick an expensive one to buy, and now she can analyze the head of the way.

"It doesn't matter if you get married or not, you heard that the divorce in my show is a matter of principle, and the pillar sister-in-law, which can only be regarded as a small contradiction in marriage, is not irreversible."