Chapter 182: Carrying it on its back
This divorce incident came to an end after Li Mei promised Zhao Yuanchao that she would never dare again next time. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info
This matter is over, and Li Mei is ready to go to bed. Today, I almost cut the dried red weeds for an afternoon, and I am indeed a little tired, so Li Mei is ready to rest early, recuperate her spirits, and get up early tomorrow to have something to do.
Li Mei wanted to go to bed early, but Zhao Yuanchao, who was sleeping next to her, did not plan to sleep, but came to chat with Li Mei.
"Meimei, do you think I did the right thing today?" Zhao Yuanchao asked with some uncertainty. Regarding the matter of paying Grandpa Zhao and Grandma Zhao to prepare for the afterlife, Zhao Yuanchao did not regret it at all. However, his family did not approve of him doing so.
Don't talk about Tang Nengzhen's mother, Zhao Tianzhu's father and Tang Nengzhen's mother mean the same, and the others, he also thought about the expressions on their faces at that time, and they also disagreed at that time. Therefore, Zhao Yuanchao wanted to know the truest thoughts in Li Mei's heart.
"yes, yes, definitely. Li Mei didn't even think about it for a second and gave the answer directly, she was really not perfunctory to Zhao Yuanchao, she really felt that Zhao Yuanchao had done nothing wrong.
Respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, Zhao Yuanchao wants to do his filial piety, why is it wrong?
Li Meizhong replied angrily, so that Zhao Yuanchao couldn't help laughing.
"What are you laughing at, what's so funny?" Li Mei was puzzled by Zhao Yuanchao, who suddenly laughed. She didn't laugh when she said that just now, why did she poke his laughter, which made Li Mei very puzzled.
Finally holding back a laugh, Zhao Yuanchao continued to ask, "Since it's right, why don't everyone approve of me doing this?"
Li Mei thought for a moment and organized her own language, "The right thing doesn't mean you have to do it." ”
"What do you mean?" Zhao Yuanchao couldn't understand the meaning of Li Mei's words.
"As far as our family and our grandparents are concerned, we and our grandparents should be regarded as the closest relatives in the world. Zhao Yuanchao wanted to nod, but thinking that Li Mei couldn't see it, he quickly hummed.
Li Mei heard Zhao Yuanchao's reaction and continued, "But our family and grandparents are very stiff. I won't say the reason, I guess you know it in your heart. For this reason, Li Mei's ears are almost calloused, let alone Zhao Yuanchao. Since everyone knows this reason, Li Mei doesn't bother to repeat it again.
"But my grandfather said that he would not divide things for our family, because he didn't want my mother to move the things from the family to my grandfather's house. In fact, Zhao Yuanchao also agrees with Grandpa Zhao's approach. Although it was not for someone else, it was for his grandfather. But if he encounters this kind of thing, he will do the same, no one's things are blown by the wind, why should he take advantage of others.
Li Mei had also heard this reason, so she couldn't help asking, "Do you think grandpa did the right thing?" ”
"Hmm. Zhao Yuanchao did not hesitate at all, and directly gave Li Mei a positive answer.
Li Mei couldn't help but smile when she heard this, "I knew you would be like this." Not only do you think so, most people think like this, but have you ever thought that no matter what the reason, if your grandparents don't give things to our family when they divide the family, then the family will be divided unfairly. ”
Divide the family, divide the family, divide the family, divide the family. But this family doesn't give me anything, and everyone will be angry and feel unfair.
After all, it's the same son, why do the other two have it, but he is the only one who doesn't?
"Even if it's not fair, but our family hasn't given my grandparents a grain for so many years, and I think that's enough. ”
"You can't count things that way. "A lot of problems can't be solved by swapping formulas. "The matter between our parents and grandparents is a dead knot, if you try to untie it, maybe this knot will become tighter and tighter. ”
"What then? Zhao Yuanchao frowned.
"Of course not. Li Mei shook her head, "Between parents and grandparents, they have to figure it out for themselves." Their affairs can't be solved, but we can do what we have to do. ”
"Do what you have to do!" Zhao Yuanchao repeated puzzled.
"It's like today when you decide to give a portion of the money to your grandparents to prepare those things. I think you're doing the right thing, but in a ...... way It's too straightforward. Li Mei thought for a long time before she remembered how to describe it.
"Too straightforward?"
"Yes. Li Mei nodded very affirmatively. "Our parents have a deep opinion on our grandparents, let them help out, maybe they are still willing, but asking them to pay, this kind of thing is absolutely not okay. ”
Let them do something, and it doesn't cost money anyway, so they will naturally agree. But if you pay for it, wouldn't that be tantamount to asking for their lives?
"So what are we going to do?"
It was me just now, why did it become us now?
It is quite natural for us Zhao Yuanchao to say this, Li Mei married him and was his daughter-in-law, and her grandparents were naturally Li Mei's grandparents, and Li Mei naturally had to be filial to them.
And Li Mei didn't think much about us at all, she is now Zhao Yuanchao's daughter-in-law, and Zhao Yuanchao is husband and wife, Li Mei didn't think there was anything wrong with these words at all.
"If we can't come directly, then we will carry our parents behind their backs to be filial to our grandparents. "Anyway, Zhao Yuanchao has his own salary, and he doesn't have to go to his parents to get money. So without their consent at all, they can be filial to Grandpa Zhao and Grandma Zhao.
Zhao Yuanchao heard this, but directly disagreed. "If I found out about this, my mother would make trouble again. ”
Li Mei didn't care at all when she heard this, and her mother-in-law didn't have a time to stop making trouble, "We should be filial to our grandparents, even if she knows, can she still go and snatch the money back from her grandparents? Besides, if you come back today and tell your parents about this, your mother won't make trouble with you right away." ”
This kind of thing has to be carried on its back, and Li Mei feels that it is a matter of killing two birds with one stone. They have honored their grandparents, and if their parents-in-law don't know about it, they will definitely not be angry, and it will also help their health. After all, too much anger hurts the liver and lungs, and it is better to be an ignorant person.
Even if they know about it in the future, as she said, can they still snatch it back, at most they can only curse a few words behind their backs.
Zhao Yuanchao has been hesitating, he is a soldier, and he pays attention to what he does, but let him be secret, which makes Zhao Yuanchao really unacceptable for a while.