Chapter 351
For the first child, Li Mei wants to give birth to a son, but it is not up to her to give birth to a boy or a girl, it depends on how God arranges it.
As long as she lives, Li Mei doesn't believe that she will be unlucky and unable to give birth to a son like in her previous life.
"For the first child, it is better for my husband to have a son, so as not to have an opinion on your parents-in-law. "Huang Guihua and Li Mei have the same idea. Since ancient times, the inheritance of ancestors and other things can be said to be deeply rooted in the countryside. If you don't have a son, you don't have incense. Although it is not as feudal as it used to be, the situation is not much better. If this daughter-in-law doesn't give birth to a son, then the mother-in-law won't give you a good face at all.
What's more, Tang Nengzhen is not a good mother-in-law, if her daughter gives birth to a granddaughter, then she is afraid that she will not want to see Li Mei even more.
"Mom, it's not up to me to have a boy or a girl. Even if he gives birth to a daughter, I believe that Zhao Yuanchao will not have any opinions. "Needless to say, my mother-in-law has an opinion, but Zhao Yuanchao will definitely not have patriarchal thinking in it. For this matter, Li Mei can pat her chest and give Zhao Yuanchao a ticket.
"Anyway, I think it's better to have a son for the first child. This is the conclusion that Huang Guihua has come to after most of her life.
The child is only two months old, and Li Mei is not good at arguing with Huang Guihua about having children and daughters. What's more, it's still in front of my sister-in-law.
"Mom, I'm a little tired, I want to go into the room and take a rest. Before she didn't know that she was pregnant, Li Mei didn't feel anything. When I found out that I was pregnant, I suddenly felt as if I was getting tired easily.
"Then you go into the house and rest, you got up so early today, you should have a good rest, so as not to tire the child in your belly. Huang Guihua heard Li Mei shout that she was tired, so she didn't say anything, and directly asked Li Mei to go back to the house to rest, so as not to be tired.
When Li Mei woke up, it was already dark, and she slept directly for an afternoon, and she didn't know if she would sleep at night.
"Meimei, you're hungry, get up, I've boiled an egg in sugar water. Get up and eat. "Li Mei, who is pregnant, is also treated like a helicopter, flying directly up.
"Mom, there is only one chicken in the family now, and the eggs you lay can be sold for a few dollars if you take them to the supply and marketing cooperative......" She has just become pregnant, so in the next few months, I don't know how many eggs I will eat. If she is fed like this, she will turn into a pig.
"There are only a few eggs at home now, and you won't have to eat them even if you want to eat them in the future. "Huang Guihua wants to make up for Li Mei's body, but the conditions at home are here. She just wants to make up for it, but she is also powerless. "Hurry up and eat this bowl of eggs, lest your little sister find out and say that I am biased. ”
"Thank you, Mom!" Huang Guihua's eccentricity, she had already understood it in her previous life. But in this life, her partiality is towards her. Li Mei can only accept Huang Guihua's love.
"By the way, I've already discussed with your dad and want you to live at your mother's house this month......"
"Mom, I'm already married, and it's definitely not appropriate to live in my mother's house. Without waiting for Huang Guihua to finish speaking, Li Mei directly refused.
"Why is it inappropriate? Look at your second sister-in-law, she is married and doesn't live in her mother's house well, and others don't say it's inappropriate. Huang Guihua directly took Xu Jinhua as an example.
"Mom, how can I compare with my second sister-in-law. The second sister-in-law lives in her mother's house because she has to work in the county, which is no way. I'm different......"
"Why is it different?" Huang Guihua was not angry and directly interrupted Li Mei. "Your second sister-in-law is at her mother's house because she has to work, and you live in her mother's house because you want to raise a baby. Your man is not at home, and your father-in-law and mother-in-law are useless, at this time, we have to do something to be our mother's family, so when can we contribute. ”
"I know you're doing it for my good, but I'm not squeamish, I'll take care of myself. "Others who have children still go to work and go to the ground. She has a child, she doesn't go to work, she doesn't go to the ground, why can't she take good care of herself. They made her look like she was made of glass, as if she would shatter when touched.
"You kid, why are you so strong. If you don't obey, I'll ask your dad to come to you. Huang Guihua said angrily.
"It's the same when Dad comes, you don't want to think about it, I have a married daughter who has been living in her mother's house, what is this like. Even if her parents are willing to take care of her, Li Mei can't be so faceless. Mom and Dad have no opinion, but this family is not only the two of them, but also the two daughters-in-law who married in. Brothers and sisters, for the sake of being the same mother, will definitely not say anything. But the two sisters-in-law are different, the daughter who got married, spilled the water. Since they are all married, they naturally can't be as powerful in their parents' family as they were before they got married.
"What's this, aren't you in a special situation?" Huang Guihua looked disapproving. "Don't be afraid of what your two sisters-in-law will say? Your second sister-in-law has been living in her mother's house, and none of us as in-laws have said anything, so she is naturally embarrassed to come back to take care of her in-laws' affairs. And your sister-in-law, your sister-in-law doesn't have a strong belly, and she can't harden her waist and liver in our family, and she doesn't dare to have an opinion on the decision I made with your father. ”
Although they didn't dare to have any opinions on the surface, they definitely felt uncomfortable in their hearts. For the sake of family harmony, Li Mei said that she would not move back to her parents' house.
"I won't let you eat and live here for nothing, and you will naturally have to pay living expenses when you come back to live. Huang Guihua continued, "I know, you are married, and this situation is definitely different from before. Although you are married, you are still the daughter of my Li family, and your situation is special now, we can rest assured that you will come back to live. ”
"Mom......" Li Mei was very helpless.
Huang Guihua didn't wait for Li Mei to speak, and directly interrupted what she was about to say. "Besides, in a few days, you will have to go to such a far place with your son-in-law to join the army, and your father and I will see you again a few times a year. Now you don't let us take care of you while you're at home, and when you go to join the army, we just want to take care of you, and we don't have a chance. ”
Huang Guihua said so, if Li Mei doesn't let go, she will become an unfilial son. "I'll write to ask your son-in-law, and if he has no opinion, then I'll move back in. ”
"Okay, that's it. Huang Guihua is very satisfied with this result. She didn't believe that her son-in-law could not think about Li Mei's body. Therefore, the fact that Li Mei moved home to live can be regarded as a nail in the coffin.