In the face of intentional or unintentional attacks from relatives and friends, Yan Shunhua in the past would be as patient and tolerant as possible, and she would generally choose to ignore others in the face of others.

She seldom thinks about how to successfully resolve her conflicts with the outside world.

Just like Niu Dingshan educating Niu Dali, calmly and in an unexpected way, happily tell the other party his dissatisfaction, and calmly make the actions he wants to do, but will not make the other party really unhappy.

After that, how I think of you, how I choose is up to me.

A truly mature person should be mellow and fearless.

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After seeing that she was stunned, she was silently stir-frying, Niu vigorously raised his head and wiped his sweat, and snorted, "I just want Zhou Yuping to stop crying, I did it, the female doll is always crying, it's very annoying." Don't follow her. ”

"Did she laugh then?"

"Of course, I have a strong shot, how can I not catch it?"

Yan Shunhua smiled slightly.

When friends joke with each other, only if the other party also finds it funny, rather than feeling offended or even attacked, so that there is a bad mood of unhappiness or even anger and sadness, that kind of joke is a real joke.

No matter at any time, don't treat it slowly and despise it from your heart, and that kind of friend is a real friend.

It looks like a laissez-faire, but in fact, subtly, Niu Dingshan taught his grandson very well.

"When will your grandfather return to the village?"

Before she was abducted, Niu Dingshan left Yanjia Village and disappeared. Before leaving, he just told his grandson that he would come back as soon as possible.

It's just that there is still half a month to go before Chinese New Year's Eve, but the old man still doesn't see anyone. I don't know if I'll be worried about Niu Dali.

"Don't look at me like that, from the moment I speak clearly and walk neatly, he will disappear every now and then. I've been used to it since I was three years old, and I don't starve to death in the village anyway, he likes to go wherever he likes. ”

The tone was full of indifference, and the expression on his face was relaxed, and even the movements in his hands did not slow down. It looks like it's really never worried.

"He's old, if he's cold and hungry outside, won't you be worried and sad?"

Yan Shunhua served the fish well. I scooped a small half spoonful of oil into the pot, and when the oil boiled, I put on the minced garlic, and then poured all the washed vegetables in the bamboo basket. Pick up the spatula and flip it over a few times. Cover the pot.

"Don't look at his beard, he is very quick to grab food, if you see him one day, and you are unfortunate enough to share a table with him, you know that you must not worry about whether he eats well or not. Slow down, and you'll be hungry. ”

Seeing her laughing, Niu vigorously pursed his lips, "I'm not afraid of your jokes." I haven't been pleasing to eat with him since I was a child. Every year, the chicken legs are his, and he can't win at all. Damn it. ”

If it weren't for the grandfather who left from time to time, and then the people in the village occasionally entertained him, maybe he would have been at home for ten years, and he would never know what the chicken legs tasted like.

Seeing that she was interested, Niu Dali began to spit out bitterness endlessly, and those troubles and pleasures that were trapped by her grandfather, regardless of whether they had or not, made Yan Shunhua still smile until dinner, and she was in a good mood.

Diametrically opposed to her is Fang Rouniang, not only has her face been gloomy during the meal, but she still has a long face after she is finished, as if someone else owes her millions of gambling debts.

"Who are these people? I don't do any housework, I don't say anything, and I shake my face to show us all day long, and I'm not afraid of overexerting myself to crack it. ”

Yan Erya rolled her eyes at Fang Rouniang's back, and while cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks, she continued to say loudly unceremoniously, "You started slapping the table again?" has the ability to be like an uncle, and the corner of the table was broken, and I Yan Erya really wrote the word 'service'! ”

Yan Liu's family had already followed Yan Shengguo to the study.

Since I knew that there was joy, the older pregnant woman was managed by the family to death, and she was not allowed to do this, and she was not allowed to do it. At first, the couple stared at each other every day, but later changed to Yan Shengguo to teach Yan Liu to write and paint.

At this moment, without Yan Liu's wordless suppression, Yan Daya's advice was all taken as wind in Yan Erya's ears, and her voice tended to get louder and louder.

"Erya, listen to my sister, don't say it again."

"Why don't I dare to say if she dares to do it? If you have the ability, don't throw your face to show us, you still slap the table, you see, one of the chopsticks is broken! ”

In the palm of her hand, there were chopsticks that had been broken in two.

Fortunately, Niu Dali and the fat girl ate quickly, in order to feed the puppy, the two raced all the way, and ran away after eating a bowl of fish and meat bowl of rice early, otherwise they would definitely be scared.

Yan Daya sighed, took it silently, and stopped talking.

Yan Erya wanted to scold a few more words, but Yan Shunhua shook her head at her.

"Forget it, what's the use of scolding? was so angry that he angered her again, and the gains outweighed the losses. ”

Yan Erya looked angry, and while putting the rest of the meal back into the pot to warm it, she continued to mumble, "I just don't like her." The eldest brother always said that she had no heart and didn't mean it, but you see, what did she do? As soon as you came back, she dared to take advantage of the time when the eldest brother was carrying his father and mother to the study. I'm going to shout it out so that the whole family can hear about the good things she did. ”

Yan Shunhua wiped the table with a rag, and when she heard this, she glanced at Yan Daya who was washing dishes, and they both saw each other's helplessness.

"And then? Second sister, have you ever wondered what will happen to your eldest brother? Can you scold or beat your pregnant sister-in-law? ”

The table was quickly wiped clean, and she took the rag to wash it.

"I know you want to say that no matter how the eldest brother reacts, anyway, you just want your sister-in-law to be unhappy. But even if you don't care about the emotional estrangement with your eldest brother in the future, don't you want to consider your father's feelings?

My mother is now pregnant with a child. She'll be sad, and then she won't be able to sleep tonight, and then Daddy won't be able to sleep well. Even so, do you think it's a pleasure to say it? ”

Yan Erya stared, her chest rose and fell because she was too angry, but she was so choked by Yan Shunhua's question that she couldn't say a word.

"Okay, okay, let's all go play. Eliminate your appetite and then take a shower and go to sleep. ”

In fact, in the cold winter, they only bathe once every three or five days, but Yan Shunhua insisted on washing every day, so that the three sisters, including Yan Xiaoni, also washed once a day after meals.

Yan Erya was speechless and couldn't get angry, so she ran away and went directly to Niu Dali, preparing for a hearty fight.

Yan Shunhua shook his head and followed Yan Daya out of the door, but did not immediately go back to the room to see the puppy, but entered the east wing.

"Eldest sister, don't you throw away the broken chopsticks?"

I saw Yan Daya dig out a piece of red cloth, carefully wrapped the two chopsticks, and then put them in the box, and even cautiously locked them.

When Aunt Chunhua was pregnant with Yu Ping, the couple had a quarrel at dinner, and Uncle Da Liang broke the chopsticks on the spot. Aunt Chunhua and her mother wrapped the broken chopsticks with a piece of red cloth and threw them away until the child landed safely. ”

"Oh, it's to keep you safe."

Yan Shunhua nodded in understanding.

She has heard that when a woman is pregnant in the family, not only the pregnant woman herself has many things that must be taboo to do, but the family must also be cautious, such as what bed cannot be changed at will, nor can you drive nails in the home at will.

Although you will feel that it is just superstition after listening to these bizarre statements, sometimes some things cannot be explained, and it is better to taboo some things, at least to calm people's hearts.

"Little girl, can you send the puppy back?" (To be continued......)