Chapter 821 Upbringing
Qiao Lan and Wenwen chatted happily, and talked non-stop in the carriage all the way. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
"Sister-in-law, I'm not tired yet, shall we take Xiuya to walk around? I haven't had any fun yet. Wenwen pulled her and begged.
"Okay, it's all out anyway, just play for a day, let's pick up Xiuya, put things down, don't take her, she's going to cry with me." Qiao Lan smiled.
Probably because her parents are not around, Xiuya and Qiaolan are very close, and they are also very close to the Li family, especially Mother Li and Qiaolan, they have a special charm, Mother Li is loving and tolerant, and Qiaolan also gave birth to two children, there is a mother's smell, which is the main reason why Xiuya is unconsciously close.
"Well, I can see that Xiuya seems to rely on you very much, and she listens to you very much." Wenwen also discovered this when she came.
"His father and mother went to the border to let go, where it was more difficult and reluctant to take the children to endure hardships, it happened that Grandpa Li and the old lady also needed the children to bear the knees, so they sent two children over, but in the end, grandparents and grandmothers can't replace the love of parents, probably because Xiuya thinks that I have some similarities with her mother, and empathy. I think that the child likes me and is in my house, I should take a little responsibility, I have to say it, I have to teach it, not to mention that Xiuya is sensible and clever, such a good child is ruined because of a little selfishness, then I am sorry for my conscience. Qiao Lan said frankly with a smile.
Wenwen nodded and agreed, "You're right, when I was in the barracks, I did something wrong, and my aunts would whip me with rattan, saying that my mother was sick and they couldn't ignore it when they saw it, and it had nothing to do with how big an official my father was. Sister-in-law, what you did was right, although Xiuya worked very hard to learn the rules, but she was the daughter of the Li family, and sooner or later she would have to go back to the capital to face all kinds of characters. ”
is also the daughter of the official family, Wenwen understands Qiaolan's approach, her aunt is also from the Beijing Palace, she also has to learn the rules, but she likes to be lazy when no one is around, and if she really wants to meet the official's wife, she also has to pull up the shelf and rules, and she can't let people underestimate that her father didn't teach her daughter well.
"Yes, what do I think, Xiuya's father and mother are also heart-to-heart to us, knowing that my nephew has the intention of taking the imperial examination, and has found a lot of books and notes back, these are very precious things, others can't ask for it, every time I write a letter, I have to guide the children in their homework, I can't do much, just take care of a few children."
"Yes, I also like Xiuya and Brother Qi, they are really well educated, cute and sensible, but the strength of the bolt is so great, I played with him that day, and it hurt me, I was really surprised that this child's strength is born to be the material of the general. Have you invited a master? ”
"Please, my father invited, he also fought in the northwest, and he studied in Wudang together, and his feelings are irreversible in order to invite someone to teach the plug, I didn't think about it so much, it's just that the child has too much strength, and he often hurts others by mistake, thinking that he can learn some skills so that he can control his own strength, and now it's nothing to hurt Brother Qi and Xiuya often, and I was frightened to see it, so I learned it early." Qiao Lan also nodded, she had indescribable mixed feelings about this, happy and worried, and uncertain about the future.
Wenwen smiled and comforted, "Don't worry, I'm still young, it's been a few years when I grow up, you're too anxious, I look at the plug and have no problem, according to my father's words, as long as the flower root is not rotten, this flower is good how it grows, the key is that the root is fine, if the character is not good, it won't work, I also look at this principle when I make friends." ”
"Well, that's right, that's what Grandpa Li told me."
Soon the two arrived home, put down their things and went to see Xiuya, and they were still learning the rules from Mama Zhou seriously.
With Xiuya's family rules from the age of three, but young will not be too demanding, now that the age is getting older, you need to start to require the norms and standards of etiquette rules, as well as the elegance of posture, etc., which determines the face of the Li family when you go out in the future, and it is also a necessary skill for the daughter of the official family in this era, which is indispensable.
"Mama, it's rare that the weather is good today, we want to take Xiuya out shopping, can you take it easy?" Qiao Lan respects Mama Zhou very much, and she has to ask about such things.
Mama Zhou glanced at Xiuya, and saw that Xiuya's expression was calm and calm, and she nodded slightly approvingly in her heart, "Yes, you will be allowed to take a half-day off today, and Ming'er will continue to recognize medicinal materials and not be lazy." The rules still have to be practiced, the more skilled the better, this is the face of your Li family. ”
"Yes, thank you, Mama."
"Well, let's go change your clothes." Mama Zhou nodded slightly.
Xiuya went to the house to change her clothes by herself, and dressing up is also a skill that the daughters must learn, which is not just for beauty, because there are requirements and taboos for the daughters of the official family to dress up.
According to the title and official position of your parents' family, choose what kind of clothes and fabrics you can wear, what style of jewelry to wear, and what style of jewelry to wear in line with your identity. For example, the wife of a third-rank official must not wear the jewelry of a first-rank lady, which is a crime of violation.
Therefore, a girl like Xiuya must memorize these things by heart since she was a child, so that she will never make a mistake, not once.
After a while, Xiuya came out, wearing a peacock feather forged narrow sleeve skirt with entwined branch lotus, a light pink pleated skirt on the lower body, only a ruby butterfly hairpin with gold tired silk on her head, a pair of pearl earrings, and an old pit jade with excellent water on her wrist, a simple and decent and dignified body, and it will not make people feel shabby because of too little jewelry.
Mama Zhou nodded with satisfaction after looking at it, "Yes, very good, let's go play." ”
"Thank you, Auntie, where are we going to play." Xiuya jumped up and looked cheerful.
Qiao Lan suddenly smiled, "Don't jump, the big girl must be steady, otherwise your grandma will talk about you again, let's go shopping, go to eat snacks, your sister-in-law Wenwen hasn't turned around much, let's go with her for a walk." ”
"Okay, I'm familiar, I'll take you to play." Suya held her head high happily, and her big pretty eyes shone brightly.
"Okay, shall we go buy a few more books?" Qiaolan's biggest hobby is buying books, and reading books and drinking a cup of tea in her spare time is the best relaxation and leisure for her.
"Okay, I really like the travelogues that my aunt bought, it's interesting." Xiuya likes to read regional chronicles and travelogues.
"Hehehe! I also like to watch it. Qiao Lan also regretted that she couldn't go too far, and it was comforting to look at the travelogue more.