463 suddenly don't want to get married
He Tingting and Liu Jun couldn't bear to look away, and He Xuanlian, who didn't want to see the black face, put Chen Xiyan down.
When he heard He Xuanlian call his name, He Tingting pulled Liu Junxi and turned around and ran.
The two ran away from He Xuanlian and Chen Xiyan, wandered around the garden again, and then went back hand in hand.
The two elders have come out of the study, some are sitting in the living room and laughing, and some are visiting the Hakka walled house, and the Hakka walled house with heavy houses has become extremely lively.
When He Tingting and Liu Junxi went back, they happened to meet Liu Junxi's mother, Xie Wanqing, looking at the flowers.
Flowers are planted in the alleys, on the balconies, and even in the casual corners, making an old mansion antique, quite like the ancestral old mansions of large families in ancient times, which is both elegant and magnanimous.
Xie Wanqing is very petty bourgeois, so she is very satisfied with this big mansion, and when she learned that it was designed by He Tingting, her favorability towards He Tingting has also increased a lot.
However, thinking that she had shown He Tingting more than once, she felt that if she suddenly changed her attitude, she would lose her identity, so she still decided to treat He Tingting with a blank face.
But when He Tingting and Liu Junchu appeared in front of her, she was praising Lin Lingling's design here.
He Tingting looked at Xie Wanqing's suddenly sinking face, a little unclear, so he glanced at Liu Junxi.
Xie Wanqing's attitude towards her has changed, why is her face still so ugly? Fortunately, she doesn't care about Xie Wanqing's attitude, and she doesn't plan to care.
After saying hello to Lin Lingling and Xie Wanqing, He Tingting walked leisurely to the living room, without calling Liu Junxi.
The mother is here, and she called the person away, which may cause dissatisfaction again.
But even if she didn't scream, Liu Junchu still followed her, and soon stood shoulder to shoulder.
"Don't care, my mother wants to save face, and I guess I feel ashamed when I hear you praise you. Liu Jun knew his mother very well, and immediately comforted He Tingting.
He Tingting shook his head, "It's okay, I can't treat her as my mother anyway." ā
Back in the living room, He Tingting sat down and listened to He Xue chatting with Liu Junchu's father, Liu Dingjun.
Liu Dingjun is a serious-looking heroic man, as tall as Liu Junchu, extremely imposing, but he is very gentle when he speaks and has a close attitude.
Not long after He Tingting sat down, he spoke to her cordially and asked her if she was tired from teaching at the university, what activities she usually had, and when she would continue to publish books related to interior design.
He Tingting answered them one by one and chatted with him.
After this conversation, He Tingting had a good impression of Liu Dingjun. Compared with Xie Wanqing's nitpicking, Liu Dingjun is not much better, it is completely the gentle style of He Tingting's impression.
Because it was close to Chinese New Year's Eve, the Liu family stayed at He's house for two days and then hurriedly went north to return to Beijing.
He Tingting's side was also busy with the Spring Festival, and soon, this Spring Festival passed in a busy way.
After the New Year, and after leaving relatives, He Tingting learned from Grandma He that her and Liu Junchu's wedding was scheduled for this year, and as for the specific day, the two families had to discuss and set the date.
He Tingting listened to Grandma He's words with a hot face, and didn't know what to say, so he kept hanging his head.
Grandma He looked at it with pity, "In the blink of an eye, our pavilion is so big, time flies so fast." I remember in a trance, you cried in your grandmother's arms, it wasn't that far away. ā
"Milk, I haven't cried for a long time, you must be mistaken. He Tingting reluctantly hugged Grandma He.
She didn't understand why she was reluctant in her heart, she would obviously live with Liu Junchu in the south when the time came, and her life should be the same as in the past.
"Remember correctly...... At that time, Tingting was only so high, and he loved to be coquettish with his grandmother, but he didn't expect to get married in a blink of an eye. The more Grandma He said, the more uncomfortable she became, her granddaughter, who had loved her since she was a child, was going to marry out and become the daughter-in-law of someone else's family, and she didn't know if she would be tossed and set rules when she married.
He Tingting's eyes were moist, and he hugged Grandma He without speaking.
Lin Lingling stepped forward, "Mom, don't think so much, even if Tingting marries Junju, he will still live in our south at that time, and there is no difference from now." ā
"What do you mean don't think so much? Do you have a mother like you? You are also married, don't you know that being a daughter-in-law is not as good as being a daughter? Tingting has never suffered since she was a child, and when she marries into the Liu family, she has to adapt to the life of the Liu family, where can she be happy?" Grandma He was not satisfied with Lin Lingling's attitude towards her daughter, so she opened her mouth and reprimanded.
Lin Lingling took a deep breath, "Mom, I'm not afraid that you will be uncomfortable......" Since she was a child, because of her daughter's problems, she didn't know how many times she had been told by the old lady, and when she listened to it again, she was already numb.
"I'm at this age, how can I feel uncomfortable? Poor my Tingting is still so young, the future will be long, if I don't have a good time......" Grandma He said more and more sad, as if she had seen her granddaughter's bad life after her death.
He Tingting raised his head uncomfortably, and his eyes were full of tears, "Milk, or you can stay in Pengcheng, the third sister-in-law is about to give birth, and you can take care of it in Pengcheng." My dad is about to be transferred, and he has to run around, so you move with him, but I'm tired. Moreover, if you stay in Pengcheng, I can come back to accompany you when I am free. ā
"How can it be done, your grandmother is so old, where can she take care of Xiyan? Lin Lingling said hurriedly.
He Tingting listened to Lin Lingling's words and remained silent, only looking at Grandma He with tearful apricot eyes.
Grandma He was moved and looked at Lin Lingling, "Tingting is right, I'm old, and it's not a way to go around with you all the time...... I've lived in this village for so many years, and I'm used to it, so I'll stay here in the future. ā
"But everything is packed...... Mom, just follow us, I can take care of you. Tingting and the third child both have jobs, and you are alone in Pengcheng, and Ah Xue and I are not at ease. Lin Lingling hurriedly persuaded Grandma He while glaring at He Tingting.
But He Tingting also wanted Grandma He to stay in Pengcheng, so he didn't see her eyes.
At this time, He Xuanqing and Murong Shiyu came in from outside holding hands, and He Xuanqing spoke, "Mom, Shiyu and I also plan to develop in Pengcheng in the future, and grandma just stays and lives with us." In two days, Shi Yu and I went up to deal with the matter at hand, and then we went back to Pengcheng to take root. ā
"Really, when will you be able to get things done?" Lin Lingling asked.
He Xuanqing pondered for a long time, "About half a month." ā
"Then do it, I'll stay in Pengcheng. Grandma He finally made a decision.
Lin Lingling didn't speak, she planned to wait for He Xue to come back and discuss with He Xue.
He Tingting looked at He Xuanqing and Murong Shiyu, and happily hugged Grandma He, "Milk, you should have lived in Pengcheng and lived with us." ā
"It's not too late now...... "Grandma He is in a good mood, "When Xiyan's child is born, I will help her take care of the child, then Shiyu's, and finally yours...... Grandma's stay is very useful. ā
He Tingting hugged Grandma He's arm, "Grandma is very useful at any time." ā
After dinner in the evening, Grandma He announced that she would stay in Pengcheng in the future.
He Xuan and Chen Xiyan even glanced at each other, and they were very happy.
He Xuezao knew about it from Lin Lingling, and he didn't object, but just told He Tingting, He Xuanlian and He Xuanqing to take care of Grandma He. However, he was not at ease, and thought about finding a nanny to come back to take care of Grandma He.
Grandma He smiled and said, "If you really don't feel at ease, just hire a nanny." When it arrived, there were many children at home, and I couldn't keep myself busy. ā
So the matter was decided, and Lin Lingling also called the boss He Xuanbai and his wife to know.
He Xuanbai was very moved when he heard it, and he also came up with the idea of transferring back to the south.
It's a pity that he plans to show his strength, and if he wants to return to Pengcheng to develop, it is estimated that it will be difficult to rise, and Lu Lu's scope of activity is in the capital, and it is not good for them to separate their husband and wife, so in the end, they still hold it and decide to continue to work hard in the capital, and try to go back to the south to accompany Grandma He when they are free.
He Tingting looked at He Xuanqing alone, so he pulled him aside, "Second brother, why did you and your second sister-in-law suddenly plan to go back to Pengcheng to develop? Did you force your second sister-in-law?"
"No, you, have time to think more about what will happen after marriage, don't think nonsense. He Xuanqing nodded at He Tingting's head and said.
He Tingting brushed He Xuanqing's finger away, "But I haven't heard you say that you want to go back to the south before, why are you coming back this time?" ā
"There's nothing wrong with that. He Xuanqing said, glanced around, and lowered his voice, "One of your second sister-in-law's sisters-in-law said that our store was opened there to steal business with her family, and your second sister-in-law was very angry and planned to go back to the south." It's good that you know about it, but don't talk about it. ā
He Tingting nodded suddenly in realization, "So that's the case...... Second brother, second sister-in-law is in a bad mood, you usually accompany her more and relieve her. ā
"It's up to you to say that. He Xuanqing touched He Tingting's head, and asked her if she was about to get married, whether she was afraid, worried or not.
He Tingting shook his head, "I'm not afraid." Anyway, I will live in the south in the future, and if there is anything, you will definitely help me. ā
"Naturally, we're here to help you. He Xuanqing nodded and said, "However, Tingting, there are conflicts between husband and wife, and it is best to resolve them internally, because the husband and wife are going to live a lifetime, and they can't always wait for someone to help." Also, after getting married, unlike falling in love, marriage needs to be maintained by two people. ā
He Tingting didn't understand very well, but he still nodded.
After He Xuanqing went back, she thought about He Xuanqing's words, and when she thought about it, she felt sad in her heart.
The second brother said that he hoped that the conflict between her and Liu Junxi could be resolved internally after they got married, did he not want to care about her sister anymore?
Thinking like this, He Tingting thought that since she grew up, she had less and less time with her three brothers, and after the three brothers got married, the time they spent together had dropped below freezing.
Is it true that after everyone gets married, they will shift their focus to the other half, forgetting that their brothers and sisters have been together for more than ten or twenty years?
The more He Tingting thought about it, the more sad he became, and he went back to his bedroom dejectedly and sat on the sofa on the first floor to wipe his tears.
She still remembers that when she was a child, her three brothers were all very good, and she would always take care of her first if there was anything good, and she would not be allowed to do any heavy work. And now, they love their wife even more, and they have long forgotten her as a sister.
Suddenly, there was a knock on the door.
He Tingting wiped away his tears, covered his mouth, and did not make a sound.
He Xuanlian's voice came from outside, "Tingting, are you inside?" The third brother is coming in. ā
"IāI'm going to sleep......" He Tingting called in a hoarse voice.
But before she could finish speaking, the door was pushed open.
Then, with a click, the lights in the room came on.
He Tingting stretched out his hand to cover his face, on the one hand, he didn't want He Xuanlian to see his crying face, and on the other hand, the light was too dazzling.
He Xuan came to the door and walked straight to He Tingting's side and sat down, "Tell the third brother, what are you crying about?" Did Liu Junqi make you angry by saying something unpleasant on the phone?"
He Tingting shook his head, still covering his face and not speaking.
"Tingting, you say, otherwise I will call Liu Junchu and ask him. He Xuanlian said, taking out the big brother dial.
He Tingting was so frightened that he hurriedly let go of his hand and reached out to grab He Xuanlian's eldest brother, "Don't call him, it has nothing to do with him." ā
"Then you tell the third brother, what are you crying about?" He Xuanlian put the eldest brother aside, touched He Tingting's head and said.
He has been with He Tingting for so many years, and it is the first time he has seen her cry so sadly.
He Tingting's tears slipped down again, and he lowered his head and whispered, "Third brother, I suddenly don't want to get married......
"Is that kid Liu Junchu responsible for you?" He Xuanlian's tone was angry, "Don't worry, the third brother will help you get justice." ā
He Tingting hurriedly shook his head, "No...... I just, just ......" She hesitated for a moment, but still said what she thought in her heart, and finally asked, "Third brother, if I marry Liu Junchu and am bullied, won't you help me?"
"Fool, why do you think that?" He Xuanlian shook his head and patiently explained, "If you are bullied, we will all help." Your second brother is not what you think, he is the wisdom of life. If you want to live with Liu Junxi, you have to run in by yourself, and it is easy for others to help you. ā
He Tingting listened, silently thinking about He Xuanqing's words, guessing what he meant and whether there was any extraneous meaning.
He Xuan even saw her pondering, and hurriedly gave some examples to demonstrate, all of which explained her.
He Tingting listened for a while, slowly calmed down, and said to He Xuan embarrassedly, "Third brother, I think too much." Go back, I'll think about it slowly. ā
"Then don't be cranky, you're our sister, and you've been for the rest of your life. He Xuanlian said and stood up.
He Tingting looked at the back of him leaving, and suddenly remembered the hard previous life, remembered that He Xuanlian went to the sea to raise money for her treatment, and finally even divorced Yu Lian, and the tears that had just stopped suddenly fell down.