477 Treat yourself like an outsider
He Tingting also heard this for the first time, and listened silently at the moment.
However, after thinking about it for a while, she felt that it was good for her friend to come to Murong Shiyu, because the young women here in Shenjia Village, whether they marry out or marry in, are all pregnant quickly, and it is difficult to conceive without hearing any of them.
Chen Xiyan obviously thought of it with her, and said, "I don't know when I'm older, this girl from Shenjia Village has good news not long after she gets married, and she marries out very quickly, so it's really easy to conceive when she is young." β
As for the Xiangjiang side, she hasn't liked anyone in the past, she is all about pleasure all day long, and she never pays attention to whether women are easy to get pregnant, so she doesn't know.
Murong Shiyu saw that the two of them were a little off topic, so he looked at He Tingting, "I don't know if you are pregnant, you can keep it." I'll check it out again next month. It's still early, and I'm afraid I won't be able to check anything if I go, so don't go yet. β
He Tingting nodded after listening, the second sister-in-law is from the past, and her opinion is very valuable for reference.
At this time, Chen Xiyan suddenly exclaimed in a low voice, "Ah, if Tingting is pregnant, can't we go to Australia to play?" The Liu family must be reluctant to go out to play with He Tingting pregnant with the child, and Grandma He and the second grandmother love He Tingting, and they must also be unwilling.
He Tingting thought of the original plan and frowned, "It's okay, even if Brother Jun and I don't go, you can go with the third brother." Since you and my third brother got married, you haven't gone out to play, so this time you should go out to play. β
"That's right. Chen Xiyan nodded with a smile, and then the smile went down again, "If you and Liu Jun don't go, He Xuanlian doesn't know if he will go." He Xuan didn't even have a deep relationship with her, and he was afraid that he would not go out with her alone.
Thinking of this, I can't help but be a little discouraged, and I feel that the girl posted it is not confident enough. Thinking that if she has another child in the future and gives birth to a daughter, she must be taught to be more reserved. I just thought that if I met someone I liked and was reserved, I would be a fool, and I felt that I shouldn't be too reserved at the moment.
Because she thought about it too much, her face changed back and forth, like a chameleon.
He Tingting smiled beside him, "Don't worry, you have spoken, and the third brother is allowed to go." β
Chen Xiyan, who was a little discouraged, heard this, and her depression was suddenly swept away, and her face lit up, "What you said is true?"
"What did I lie to you, what about your perseverance in the past?" He Tingting asked rhetorically.
He Xuanlian may still have no love for Chen Xiyan now, but he is married and even has children, so he will naturally give Chen Xiyan the affection he deserves.
"Hahaha, maybe it's postpartum depression, so I'm not as optimistic as I used to be. But don't worry, I'll be fine soon. Chen Xiyan said happily.
The next day, Grandma He, the second grandmother and her uncle came back with a lot of local products from their hometown.
He Tingting and his two sisters-in-law were bored, and listened to Grandma He and the second grandmother tell about their hometown with relish, and heard that although the ancestral house was still there, it was full of moss, and the original patio or garden was overgrown with weeds, and it was decaying, and they couldn't help but sigh.
Murong Shiyu heard He Xuanqing say that the ancestors of the He family were very generous, and naturally knew that the ancestral house was much more generous than the Hakka walled house where he lived now, so he knew the current situation of the ancestral house, so he sighed, "In the old days, Wang Xie Tang Qianyan flew into the homes of ordinary people. β
He Tingting rolled his eyes and looked at Grandma He, "Grandma, the ancestral house is now public, or is it occupied?"
"Confiscated. Grandma He said, "But when I went back this time, I heard from the insiders in the town that several of your uncles had gone back, and they also wanted to pay attention to the big house." β
After the reform and opening up, the fields were divided into households, and no one lived in the ancestral house of the He family, and no one was registered with the household, and those who were not from the He family could not occupy it, so it was confiscated.
He Tingting listened and nodded, the ancestral house of the He family is the same as the Hakka walled house, it belongs to the landlord's house, and it is best to confiscate it.
Liu Jun asked, "Then what is the ancestral house of the family, why don't grandmothers buy it?" The confiscated house is obviously available for sale, and it only depends on the price.
"It's not like here, it was fine back then, but now the economy is poor, and there is hardly much development. But as for the house, it is expensive to sell, and it is not cost-effective to buy it. Grandma He said this casually, but her eyes were full of regret.
No matter where it is developed, no matter whether the house is cost-effective to buy, it is your own home, and it is good to buy it. But she's old, and she doesn't have a few years to live, so she can't use the family's large amount of money to buy a house of little value, right?
He Xuanqing was very direct, "Buy." I'll do it later. "Don't say it's a big house, don't say it's an antique, just say that this house is an ancestral house, it's worth selling.
"Yes, no matter what it's worth, it's our family's home, so we have to buy it. He Tingting hugged Grandma He's waist, "Grandma, don't be reluctant, Tingting has money in her hands, and she will also help give it to Second Brother Qian when the time comes." β
She didn't mean to be kind, she did have money in her hands, money for business dividends, money for books, money for perfumes, money for interior designβas for the relatively minimal money from selling bluegrass, it was no longer worth taking it out.
"You child, you should live your own life when you get married, don't always think about your mother's family. Grandma He touched He Tingting's face lovingly, and looked at He Xuanqing with a smile,
"Don't be impulsive yourself, go back with Shiyu to discuss whether it's worth buying, and your parents, your eldest brother and sister-in-law, and the third child, you also have to come and discuss it. Although the house is the ancestral home of the He family, it has not been lived in for many years, and the relationship is like that. β
looked at Chen Xiyan again, "Xiyan, you also go back and talk to the third child." β
He Xuanqing looked at Grandma He with a smile, "Grandma, I'll call to discuss." As you said, several uncles have also gone back to inquire, and they want to buy it, so our family can't drag it anymore. β
Murong Shiyu nodded in agreement, "Grandma, I like this old house the most, but I can't be snatched away by my uncle, we have to strike first." β
"A house bigger than ours here, I must buy it!" Chen Xiyan exclaimed excitedly, "I think it's best to discuss it today, buy a plane ticket and fly to settle this matter." β
In Xiangjiang, it is an inch of gold and every inch of land, and if you take 100 square meters of the mainland and put it in Xiangjiang, it will be considered a mansion. Like the Hakka house where the He family lives now, although the richest man in Xiangjiang can afford to live in it, he may not be able to find and buy it. The He family has an ancestral house to buy, and they must buy it first.
He Tingting nodded again and again, and then looked at his uncle, "Where is the ancestral house of my uncle and grandmother's family? Is it still there? If it is still there, we will also pool the money to buy it!"
Since she heard in her previous life that Pengcheng will have every inch of land in the future, she has a love for land that others do not have, and then she saw that the extremely prosperous Xiangjiang is really an inch of land, so she can't wait to buy more land and put it away, in order to make a fortune in the future.
The uncle was stunned and glanced at Grandma He, "We didn't have time to go back to the ancestral house this time." Check it out next time. β
If so, he wants to buy it. The ancestors of the family are so generous, but they should not decline like this. However, in terms of money, there is really a shortage, and if you want to buy it, it is estimated that you will have to borrow money.
"Then let's go back in a few days. Grandma He was a little more eager. The ancestral house of the He family, she lived for a few years, so she followed He Xun to pack up her things and go south, and there was really not much affection, but she spent her best days with He Xun there, and she just missed it when she remembered it.
And her mother's ancestral house is really where she grew up, where she spent her childhood, childhood, and adolescence, and lived the best days. It can be said that the memory there is the most unforgettable in her life.
When Chen Xiyan heard this, she couldn't help but be curious, "Grandma and uncle, why don't you go by this time? Is it because the two places are far apart?"
"It's far away. Grandma He nodded, "Originally, I was going to go, but your uncle received a lot of antiques, and I was afraid of losing them, so I came back first." β
Murong Shiyu and He Xuanqing's eyes suddenly lit up, and they looked at their uncle, "What good things did my uncle receive?"
My uncle smiled, "It's a good thing." I'm here this time, and I'm thinking of inviting you and my wife to see it later, so you wait. β
"Then I'll call my parents and my eldest brother first to discuss the purchase of the ancestral house, uncle, you sit, I'll come back as soon as possible." He Xuanqing said and hurriedly went.
When He Tingting saw it, he pursed his lips and pulled Liu Jun back to the room unhappily.
Liu Junxi was curious, "What's the matter, aren't you happy to be able to buy back the ancestral home?"
"Naturally, I was happy. He Tingting said, but there was a lot of gloom on his face,
"But do you see? Buying an ancestral house is such a big event, grandma asked the second brother to ask his brother and sister-in-law to discuss, and asked his parents to discuss, but she didn't mention me and you. And let me take care of my own family, don't think about them, isn't this when I am an outsider, afraid that I will interfere in my mother's family affairs?"
The more I talked, the more aggrieved I felt, and the tears fell down the ground.
Liu Junchu was distressed, and while reaching out to help her wipe her tears, she coaxed,
"Look at you, why do you think so much. Grandma is afraid that it will be difficult for you to do, after all, you are married to me, and you have to take care of my family in everything. Like this ancestral house, it must be the He family if you buy it, and it has nothing to do with you, your grandmother is afraid that you will suffer a loss if you take out the money, and it will be said by my family, so I won't let you interfere. β
He Tingting wiped his tears, "Women are really hard, they finally grew up in one place, became familiar, and took root in one place, but because they got married, they had to move their nests, stay away from the places they were familiar with, and go to another place to get along with strangers for a lifetime." β
"You're different, I'm still living in a familiar place with you, don't cry, ah......" Liu Junci was heartbroken by her crying.
He Tingting raised his tearful apricot eyes to look at him, "I thought that I had a good life and could stay in a familiar place after I got married, but I didn't think that although I lived in an old place, everything had changed." I became a guest, an outsider, not a family member. β
She is obviously the daughter of the He family, and she is obviously the daughter of her parents who have loved her since she was a child, but now she is far inferior to the three sisters-in-law who married in.
"Tingting, this is a woman's inevitability, every woman comes over like this. Liu Jun hugged He Tingting and paused, "However, grandma and Uncle He and Aunt He are definitely not what you think, they still love you as much as they used to, but they are afraid that you will be said by my family, so I won't let you interfere in the family." β
He Tingting hugged Liu Junchu and cried, crying a few times, thinking of the words "Every woman comes over like this", he couldn't help but think of Liu Junya, who made him hateful, and his mind slowly cleared up.
Maybe Liu Junya also thinks the same way, feeling that she is the family member, and the sister-in-law she married in is inferior to herself. But as a sister-in-law who was married, she was naturally wronged.
Thinking about it, she stopped crying, "You're right, maybe every woman comes over like this. So, like I said, women are too hard. A man has a good life, he can be a member of the family for the rest of his life, grow up with familiar cousins and grow old together, and he doesn't have to go to an unfamiliar environment. β
"It's not good to get rich either. Liu Jun saw that He Tingting was not crying, so he made a joke.
He Tingting looked at him, "There are very few people who are rich, and most of them are incompetent, so they can't be compared." β
"Don't think about it, you can't change anything if you think about it too much. I'll stay here with you, you don't have to be sad. Liu Junshu said, "As for grandma and Uncle He and Aunt He, they must still love you, but when everyone is older and has a family, they have to distinguish it clearly, so it is just difficult for everyone to do it." β
He Tingting nodded, although he was at a loss in his heart, he also knew that this matter was what Liu Junzhu said.
As for her thoughts that "I got married, although I still live in my mother's house, I don't feel the same in the end", I guess I have to think about it slowly.
He Xuanqing estimated that he wanted to buy back the ancestral house, so he took a direct flight to the location of the ancestral house that night, intending to buy the ancestral house as soon as possible.
Murong Shiyu also wanted to see the He family's ancestral home, but unfortunately the child couldn't do without her, so she could only regretfully stay at home and take care of the child.
When He Xuanlian returned home, He Xuanqing was busy for two days and encountered a problem.
It turned out that the province where the He family's ancestral house is located is currently underdeveloped, and it urgently needs factories or enterprises to enter to stimulate the economy, so when the provincial leaders knew that He Xuanqing wanted to buy the He family's ancestral house, they proposed that the He family's ancestral house could be sold cheaply, but hoped that the He family could pull some big bosses to build factories in the local area.
The local provincial leader said that several other members of the He family also said that they wanted to buy back the old house, and the money they had in their hands was enough, but unfortunately they could not help the local government bring back one or two factories, so they were refused.
This is really a bit difficult, after all, the He family has no plans to open another factory at the moment.
It's just that the ancestral house can't help but buy, and finally a family meeting was held to discuss.
He Tingting pulled Liu Jun in to listen, but he didn't take the initiative to express his opinion, but looked at the need before saying a few words.
She has been thinking about it for the past few days, and feels that she has said too much, which is estimated to make several sisters-in-law unhappy, so she is slowly adjusting her mentality, hoping that she can treat herself as an outsider as soon as possible.