Chapter 1043 What is the aftermath of an affair What is a psychological problem
When the eldest brother threw the card, he walked on the phone, and went out directly before Feng Manman could say anything else.
Xiaoqian just gave the eldest brother a head, and the rest was played by the eldest brother himself, just enough for Feng Manman to believe and not let Feng Manman take advantage of a dime, in the original words of the eldest brother.
I think it's too much to give her a dime.
Xiaoqian was accompanying her sister-in-law to do a neck and shoulder massage in the hall, as if nothing had happened.
pressed almost, Xiaoqian waved her hand to let the technician out, and the sister-in-law lay on the bed sprinkled with petals, her eyes half-closed, and she couldn't see any emotional changes, even her eyebrows were stretched.
"I'll tell you a joke, sister-in-law, do you know that many beauticians in the future will graduate from my major, and if they can't find a suitable job after graduation, they will come to work in the beauty salon, and they will earn a lot of money a month. ”
"Oh?" the sister-in-law opened.
In fact, this is in line with the needs of society, most of the people who can come to this kind of place are high-income women with a very stable economy, and they also need to find someone to talk about the pressure in their hearts. ”
The fees charged by high-end women's clubs are not low, and the quality of the employees is also very different.
"What can I say to the beautician?" the sister-in-law didn't quite understand.
She does regular maintenance, but rarely talks about herself.
"High-income women don't want to talk about the company's affairs when they leave the unit, they want to find a place to talk about the short things in their parents, complain about their mother-in-law, talk about their children, or something. ”
"Well, I'm living too comfortably. The sister-in-law said sadly.
Compared with ordinary noblewomen, her life is too good.
Her in-laws are very good to her, and she is busy with work herself, and her parents rarely involve it. The two sons are excellent and she doesn't have anything to worry about, and she doesn't have a chance to complain about her family when she comes to this kind of place.
was born in sorrow and died in peace, just because it was too smooth, so Feng Manman's women took advantage of it.
"There's nothing wrong with comfort, and no matter how many people want it, they can't get it. ”
The sister-in-law closed her eyes again, she pretended not to understand the deep meaning of Xiao Qian's words, but moved her fingers, trying to change the topic.
"I don't know why, why do I feel a little numb in my hands today, and I'll have to let the technician press it for me for a while. ”
Xiao Qian squinted, has there been numbness in her hands?
It's worse than she expected...
This is also the purpose of her and sister-in-law's coming out this time, she wants to give her sister-in-law a psychological counseling.
At such a juncture, Mr. Qian's mobile phone rang.
"Narcissus, is there something wrong? Oh, someone wants to ask me for advice? What does she want to ask?"
The sister-in-law heard Xiaoqian talking on the phone, and when she heard that it was a professional matter, she got up and prepared to go out for a cup of coffee to leave the space for Xiaoqian.
But Xiaoqian's next sentence succeeded in keeping her sister-in-law.
"After-effects of an affair?"
When Xiaoqian said, she also glanced at her sister-in-law.
The sister-in-law also stopped.
At this juncture, such a topic is particularly sensitive.
"Oh, and after something happened, the counselor began to suspect that her husband was cheating even if there was no evidence, and she was insecure? Are you saying that she made several different pairs of underwear and checked every day if her husband was out and about?"
Xiaoqian said one item, just look at the sister-in-law.
Narcissus on the other end of the phone was puzzled, "Qian'er, what's wrong with you today, why do you repeat what I say?"
It seems to be deliberately said to others, usually there is such a situation as long as Narcissus says it once, Xiaoqian knows it, and then chooses not to answer.
"Speaking of the sequelae of an affair, this is a lack of trust caused by emotional insecurity, which may bring panic and anxiety and other emotions, and even insomnia, palpitations, numbness in the limbs, and some patients will also have physiological reactions such as flushing, and the damage caused by the affair is not only emotional, but also a lack of security. ”
"Who are you pitting here, say it, I'll listen to you, please start your performance Dr. Chen!" Narcissus seemed to understand something, so he simply handed over the time to Xiaoqian and listened patiently.
"Repair the scars caused by the affair and fill the sense of security, many people are comforting themselves and saying that there is nothing to do if they want to open something, so that women can either endure it or cut it in two, in fact, the first thing that comes to mind when encountering problems should be us professional doctors, and even the small things at work can be confided in a psychiatrist, why do you have to endure the major events of marriage?"
"Mmmm, you have big breasts, you are right about anything. "Narcissus, this will only cooperate with Xiaoqian.
"Mindfulness-based stress reduction therapy to improve mood can help manage emotions, when you encounter a problem that you can't overcome, ask for help from a professional, because many people don't pay attention to control the pain when it first occurs, and when it becomes a psychological problem in the later stage, it will be more troublesome to deal with it when they think of asking us for help. ”
"Okay, Dr. Chen, I've served you, I can trick people over the phone, should I ask you for a prop fee, are you using me as a prop to treat people?"
"If you don't want money, tell your patients that I took this case, and the price is still the same. ”
Xiaoqian hung up the phone and smiled at her sister-in-law, "Do you want to ask me for a fee?"
The conversation just now has made the sister-in-law understand something.
The sister-in-law raised her hand that she had been feeling numb, "This, is it a psychological problem?"
She just felt numb in her hands and wanted to find a technician to do another massage.
Xiao Qian bowed her head, she was afraid that her sister-in-law would react to this matter before she followed, the affair was a guillotine knife across the marriage, and the eldest brother's "affair" was just a conspiracy from Feng Manman, which was also an attempt.
The eldest brother kept the bottom line of marriage, but the whole thing caused a certain blow to the sister-in-law, she was so domineering on her face, but she was bound to be shocked in her heart, which was a normal reaction.
The sudden appearance of numbness in the hands is a physiological reaction caused by psychological injury.
For women, changing jobs at the age of 30 and getting divorced at the age of 40 are all major turning points in life, and of course the sister-in-law will not divorce, but this incident made her feel a sense of crisis.
The kind of psychological problem that Xiao Qian designed to make Feng Manman get is called AIDS phobia, and the state of the sister-in-law at this time, Xiao Qian feels that it can already be called a phobia.
Because he cares too much, he is afraid of losing, Feng Manman is afraid of losing his life and health, and his sister-in-law is afraid of losing her marriage and family.
Man is man, not God.
"Xiaoqian, am I very hypocritical like this? Obviously there is nothing, I always have so much, but because of this uncertainty makes me so sad, should I be stronger?"
Xiaoqian hugged her and patted her, "Would you tell your patients that they get sick because you don't pay attention and don't have a strong consciousness?"