Chapter 1289
Mrs. Mo's mind can't be hidden, there is no secret in your circle, and he is a little disdainful of the Liu family, which is not a secret, although it is not explicitly stated, but there will always be traces of speech and demeanor.
It's just forbearance for the sake of the child's happiness, not to mention that Mrs. Mo is also very decent and generous inside and outside for the sake of her family and son, and she takes Baa Baa to meet relatives and close friends to introduce each other, so that she can integrate into your circle, and all kinds of actions can be called generous.
But sometimes there will inevitably be a trace of disdain between words, a little I am also helpless, who let this be a pity that the marriage can not be changed, it is embarrassing and embarrassing, baa is a junior, can only bow his head and listen to the training, if it is just like this.
Mrs. Mo herself is not good at talking about concubines, but after being taught by the old lady last time, she inevitably felt a trace of grievance in her heart, and the relatives and elders in the family said that taking concubines, what does it have to do with her, she just watches the play, anyway, I didn't participate, but I will never defend it.
Such an attitude and cognitive development will inevitably be the confrontation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future, and it is precisely because of this that Qiaolan and other female elders can actually see it clearly.
The old lady held a flower banquet and invited a group of relatives and others to come to the house to play, including the princess and the lord of Duanhui, as well as the old aunt and the old prince and other characters who always had a lot of weight to be present.
Mrs. Mo was a little surprised, she didn't expect the old lady to invite them publicly, she had never done before.
The female relatives talked and laughed about the concubine, and the old lady spoke earnestly, "In fact, it is not certain for men to take concubines, you must know that concubines are useless except for women, can it be said that the concubines of large families can help men with their future? In fact, it is just an excuse for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to fight and men can't control their belts, and bullying other people's daughters is not afraid of ten years in Hexi and ten years in Hedong, of course, it doesn't matter if you don't have a daughter." ”
The princess sneered, "If you want to say that I have a good vision, I have picked Chuanwei, and I swore never to accept a concubine before I got married, Qiaolan also promised me that my daughter will never be allowed to suffer such grievances, and what concubine is virtuous is nothing more than bullying people." Some people are just strange, and they want their daughter-in-law's family background and connections to help their son, but they still dislike their daughter-in-law, which is not good, it is not appropriate, they want everything and don't want to give anything, and their faces are really big. ”
These words were particularly unkind, and Mrs. Mo's face darkened faintly.
Even the old aunt and grandmother nodded, "That's right, such a person really owes beating, and he thinks that he is a relative of the emperor, and he is arrogant before he can do anything." ”
Saying such things, Mrs. Mo couldn't sit still, and just sneered next to her, this mother-in-law is not a bad person, and she is also extremely protective of the family to the outside world, but it does not prevent him from having his own careful thoughts, marrying into a high family for many years, that little bit of thought and soft knife stew means are also perfect than anyone else, in front of outsiders, you will never find any fault with him, with his own various communication, all kinds of introductions, all kinds of praise, but when he returns home, Zixuan is not in the attitude but very cold, a little rejecting people thousands of miles away, you have to have a little eye Don't go up the pole to pick it up。
The shoes and clothes given to her have never been touched, and she has never seen her wear them once, but they are worn every day for her grandmother, and she has a little maintenance for herself, and the first person to stop her aunt from continuing to talk about the matchmaker is her grandmother, this mother-in-law is silent, and she laughs.
I have made up my mind about taking a concubine, I would rather my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law turn their faces than accept a concubine, if Zixuan bows her head, it will be completely over between them, she won't even give birth to a child, and she will go home to live a big deal, although she can't be separated, but she can divide her property for a long time, I want to see if the queen will kill herself because she is not virtuous enough.
Baa didn't say much during the whole process, Mrs. Mo frequently looked at Baa Baa and hoped that she would say a few words about the circle, but Baa Baa didn't look at her, and her attitude was very indifferent, which also made Mrs. Mo's angry face turn blue.
Old Lady Mo saw it clearly, sighed, and understood that this was a knot.
"Fortunately, our family Zixuan is stable, and he doesn't care about women, and he is dedicated to the future. Old Mrs. Mo seemed to be talking about Yuanchang, but she already had an idea in her heart to deal with it.
"Well, if you want to say anything else, the key is that you can stabilize yourself, let him come, I don't want you to do anything to me. The old lady held her head high and was very determined.
Everyone was very happy at this banquet, but Mrs. Mo's face was dark, and when she went back, she glared at her fiercely and sneered.
Baa's temperament is very hard, Qiaolan is soft on the outside and rigid on the inside, but Baa Baa has never been wronged by anyone and has not had any hard life, the old lady's temper has affected her somewhat, she is a character who would rather be broken than broken, the same as the old lady.
Mrs. Mo's cold treatment did not make Baa bow her head, she went back to the room angrily, thinking that Baa Baa would come to ask for sin, who knew that after she sent the old lady back, she didn't come and went back to her house to rest.
This made Mrs. Mo angry, she originally liked to baa a little bit, but now there is nothing left.
Baa Baa also saw that this mother-in-law will be a lifelong reason for her family background, and it is useless to please him, no wonder her mother said never to think that her mother-in-law is a mother, and she can use filial piety to influence and maintain the feelings of her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is actually a bit like a dream.
Now she realized that her mother had already seen through it.
Old Lady Mo waited for her eldest son to come and leave him behind, "I have something to tell you. ”
"If my mother has any orders, just say, my son will go and do it with you. Master Mo immediately saluted and nodded with a smile.
"Well, I haven't asked you anything over the years, the only thing I'm worried about is Zixuan, your daughter-in-law's temper is a little left, his family background is good and arrogant, he doesn't look down on Baba's family background, and I think that the Liu family is a farmer and a nouveau riche don't want to see it. Now this little bit of thought has been seen clearly, and today I went to express my dissatisfaction, sprayed us in the face, and I didn't want to give anything I wanted. Hey!"
The old lady sighed, in fact, people are not wrong, and they want the connections of the Xiangye and the princess clan, and they want to use other people's girls for you, how can there be such a good thing.
Master Mo also had a black face when he heard his mother mention his daughter-in-law, if he wanted to say that there was nothing wrong with his daughter-in-law, he was arrogant, the Yue family was a noble family, and his daughter-in-law had never suffered in her life, of course, she couldn't afford to look down on the Liu family who was born in a farmer's family.
But when she goes out, her daughter-in-law definitely puts the overall situation of the family first, and she will not lose face to her daughter-in-law outside, but she is a little cold at home.
"Mother means ....... ”
"If this continues, relatives will also become enemies, I mean let Zixuan go out, don't return to Beijing within ten years, and wait for ten years whether he is willing to stay in the capital, it depends on his own intentions, men still have to put the future first. Let them go outside, look at Li Yu and his wife, you look at what other people's in-laws do, there is no mother-in-law around the daughter-in-law, that is true love, you look at how the Yue family helps, but look at our family, isn't it because your daughter-in-law has a bad attitude?" The old lady didn't want to say anything to Mrs. Mo anymore, when she said one thing and did another, she cried a lot, and a few days later, outsiders laughed at her, even if it was on her daughter-in-law, this daughter-in-law was too face-saving to listen to a little ridicule.