Chapter 1396 Human Instinct Is That
Xiao Qian black line.
"Don't you just find out, don't you think you're not good when you see her, there is a degree of fear, your reaction is obviously many times more than a normal person, and it looks like it is deliberately ended by others, and only you will be stupid to bite the hook. ”
"When I first bought my first car, she came to me and inexplicably ran over a litter of kittens, and I still have a shadow. ”
"Driving and killing cats and dogs happens from time to time, although it will be uncomfortable, but it will never be sad for many years, you are also a secret agent, how can you have such a big shadow on this matter?"
As soon as Xiao Qian said this, Aka instantly understood, could it be that everything before was-
That's right, she carefully set a trap for you, and you will step on it step by step for several years. ”
"Why would she do this, I don't understand at all... We're twins, what's in it for her to do this?"
Xiaoqian didn't answer, just looked out the car window.
There are activities going on in the commercial street not far away, and a large plaque says please donate money to the children in the mountainous area.
"Stop, let's go down and walk. ”
The two of them got out of the car and walked towards that side, this activity is quite big, many college students are volunteering, and some citizens are volunteering.
Xiaoqian also saw the freshman year, who was also wearing volunteer clothes and was busy with the work.
"Mr. Qian!" the eldest pair beckoned to Xiao Qian, and Xiao Qian led Aka over.
"What are you doing here?"
"Do you want to donate some for the activities done in the city?" shook the box, Xiao Qian took out a few large tickets from her pocket and threw them in, and waved her hand to refuse to leave her name, which was a trivial matter.
"Where's the son?"
The freshman year compared, Xiao Qian took the opportunity to look over, Pan Pan was leading Xiao Yiyang to stand on the side, accompanied by the nanny at home, Pan Pan also had a volunteer mark on his body, and was seriously talking to a child about the mountains who was about his age.
Xiao Qianle was happy, "You started from a doll?"
"Their school watched a movie today and left school early, so I brought it over to feel it and cultivate love early. "Freshmen are still more concerned about their children's education.
"Will you come to my house when you're done in a while?"
"I'm going to do an internship in the afternoon-" Before the freshman finished speaking, she felt two expectant glances around her, and she looked sideways to see Pan Pan's eyes shining.
"Actually, Mom, I have time, I have a holiday in the afternoon..."Panpan missed Sister Xiaowei a little, and looked at her mother pitifully.
"Then Panpan and Yiyang will come with me, and you will pick you up at my house after your internship. Xiao Qian understands his heart.
After turning around, there were two more little followers.
Aka helped hug Xiao Yiyang, and Xiao Qian wanted to lead Panpan but was rejected by Panpan shamefully.
"Auntie, I'm grown up now, so I don't need to take it. ”
Xiao Qian was amused by him.
"Okay, you're a little man, respect the wishes of the little man. ”
A mother who took the child's hand and had just finished donating money, and took the opportunity to educate the child.
"When you grow up, study hard, don't study hard, you are the same as these children in the mountains, have you seen those photos, those children don't even have new clothes!"
Panpan frowned slightly when she heard this, and Xiao Qian asked him.
"What's wrong?"
"Nothing. "Panpan is still young, but he is very introverted, and his personality is to the second brother, but he doesn't want to say what he understands in his heart.
Xiao Qian got used to his precociousness, and reached out to touch his head, "You don't like that aunt's words, do you?"
"Hmm... Background or something, you can't choose. ”
Aka was a little surprised when he heard this, "How the hell does your family educate children?"
It's amazing that you can say such profound words at such a point!
It seems that it is too superficial to just talk to the parent with the child.
Xiao Qian smiled, "Actually, what the parents represent is just human nature." The mood of schadenfreude exists in everyone's heart, and those who are as big-minded as we are Panpan are, after all, a minority. ”
"You say, that mother was gloating just now? No, how can it be schadenfreude if it is kindness to donate money with children?"
Xiao Qian looked at the donors in front of her and smiled slightly.
"Other people's misery may happen to be the inexplicable happiness of some people, or maybe I will tell a cruel fact, what is self? Self is schadenfreude, we will feel inexplicable joy at the misery of others, but we will feel a trace of dissatisfaction with the happiness of others, this is the truest nature of human beings, and what my mother shows is not a negative thing. ”
Schadenfreude is the ugly human nature that exists in everyone's soul, some people will infinitely amplify this instinct, and eventually become people like Acatnango, and some people will gradually dilute their instincts under the influence of family education, such as Panpan.
"In people's instinct, there is a very important one, that is, comparison, everyone in the subconscious constantly compare themselves with others, compare grades when they go to school, compare work when they grow up, compare this emotion if it is used in the right place, it will form a more positive meaning, human civilization is also in the continuous comparison of progress, this kind of thinking is uncontrollable, just like you can't control the child bedwetting. ”
It's instinct.
Xiaoqian looked at the mother and son in the distance, there is one item in people's self, that is, they are unwilling to accept that they will lose.
Therefore, when you see someone who is not as good as yourself, there will be a small sense of satisfaction that is not enough for outsiders, but the sense of morality of human beings will suppress such a mood and not let it manifest itself on the bright side.
"I kind of understand..."Aka was guided by Xiao Qian, and thought of some words from the magazines she often reads.
When you're not doing well, think about those who are not as good as you - isn't this what Qian always said, and it's human instinct to compare?
"Do you really understand?" Xiao Qian glanced at Aka meaningfully.
Akaton, could it be that Mr. Qian's words still have a deep meaning?
Back at Mr. Qian's house, Aka parked the car downstairs, and Xiaoqian led the child out of the car.
"Sister-in-law!"
Xiaoqian stopped, and the twin sister Liu Min, who had helped before, led the child and stood at the door of her house with a basket of eggs.
"I was looking for you at your house, but I happened to meet it, this is for you. ”
"You're welcome, you can keep it for dinner, I still have it at home. ”
"Last time my sister came, I caused you a lot of trouble, this is brought by my mother-in-law, they are all our own little stupid eggs, you make some egg custard for the child to eat, it's not expensive, and I also gave it to other sisters-in-law." ”
Xiaoqian is not easy to shirk, and she accepts things to express her gratitude to Liu Min, and it is also unavoidable for people to move around this neighborhood.
When he went upstairs, Panpan immediately rushed to Xiao Wei, and Xiao Wei smiled like a flower when he saw his little brother coming.
Aka felt a chill arise from her arms, and Xiao Yiyang, who she was holding, watched her brother play with Xiao Wei with her mouth open, and her face wrinkled into buns.
Finally, Xiao Yiyang sank into the dantian and let out a loud cry.
"Ahh
Xiao Qian put Yiyang down, Pan Pan turned around and beckoned to his younger brother, Xiao Yiyang broke into tears and smiled, and moved in the direction of his brother and Xiao Wei.
"The instinct of man is most evident in children. Xiao Qian looked at the three children and smiled with satisfaction.