Chapter 52: Concerns
Li Mei was almost stunned by the news that she was going to get married immediately, and when Huang Guihua knew that the army had deliberately taken a holiday to let Zhao Yuanchao come back to marry Li Mei, her wrinkled face was about to burst into laughter. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 After hearing the news, the others were also happy for Li Mei. But who of them knew that she was really bitter in her heart.
"I originally wanted to ask the matchmaker to come over and discuss it with my uncle and aunt, but then I knew that I was coming over today, so let me talk about it first. Zhao Yuanchao explained. After all, the marriage still has to be discussed by the man, who invites the matchmaker to come over to discuss, which is more formal. Although today advocates free love, freedom of marriage. But this marriage event basically relies on the introduction of matchmakers. Even if it is free to love, when you get married, you have to ask a matchmaker to help with things.
Today, Zhao Yuanchao mentioned this matter to the Li family first, which can be regarded as a greeting first.
In this regard, Li Qianghua and his wife naturally have no opinion. "On the day you get married, let your parents find someone to see. ”
Li Qianghua said that he was looking for someone to see, hoping to find someone who knows how to do it and choose an auspicious day for them.
The country is breaking the four olds, and you still want to find someone to watch the life, which is purely an act of looking for death. Therefore, Li Qianghua did not directly say that he asked his family to find someone to watch the day, only said that he was looking for someone to take a look.
Although Li Qianghua didn't say it thoroughly, Zhao Yuanchao still understood. Zhao Yuanchao has been a soldier for more than ten years, and he doesn't believe in ghosts and gods at all. If it was his soldiers who did this in front of him, he would definitely not have said a word and directly criticized education.
But now the person in front of him is his future father-in-law, his elder, even if he has anything wrong, he can't say anything as a junior.
What's more, he also grew up in the countryside, so he naturally knows that they are old-fashioned. Not to mention that there is no reminder from the future father-in-law, maybe his father has already found someone to see the days today.
is their son and son-in-law, can they still be brought to criticize and educate, even if they know, they can only pretend to be deaf and dumb.
Therefore, for Li Qianghua's proposal, Zhao Yuanchao did not nod or shake his head, which can be regarded as a tacit acquiescence.
"It's still uncertain when the date will be chosen, do you have to take the time to get this marriage certificate? "This time, Zhao Yuanchao came back to get married, and now it is not like when the Zhao family mentioned applying for a marriage certificate, but urged them to get the marriage certificate first.
As for the marriage certificate, in the countryside, I don't really like it very much. As long as you hold a banquet and marry the girl into the family, you will be considered married. At the beginning, the eldest couple did not apply for a marriage certificate, and directly engaged to get married. The reason why they got a marriage certificate was because of the second child.
At that time, Li Jianguo taught the Li family a lesson about the marriage certificate, like them in the countryside, they only hold banquets and do not pull the certificate, which is not considered marriage at all, but can only be regarded as illegal cohabitation, and illegal cohabitation is a crime.
They didn't understand illegal cohabitation, but when they heard the word "breaking the law", they didn't scare Huang Guihua enough, so they asked Li Jianjun and his wife to pull off the marriage certificate. They are good members, but they can't do illegal things.
Meimei and Zhao Yuanchao are married, but they are a military marriage. With a marriage certificate, it can be regarded as a guarantee for Meimei. Therefore, Huang Guihua urged them to apply for a marriage certificate.
Zhao Yuanchao has no opinion on this matter. He and Li Mei have reached the age, and there is no problem in getting a marriage certificate. And he can't wait to rip off the marriage certificate today, and he will have sex with Li Meidong at night.
If Li Mei knew that Zhao Yuanchao was thinking about such an unserious person with a serious face, she would definitely smack him immediately. looks serious, but in fact, he is an old rascal.
"Otherwise, tomorrow we will go and get the marriage certificate. Zhao Yuanchao looked at Li Mei a little breathlessly and said. Although Li Mei didn't say anything, he still knew that Li Mei was unhappy. Is it because of his family's affairs? I feel that he has not handled them well? That's why he is so unhappy? When he thinks of the things that his own mother has done, how can Zhao Yuanchao not be weak-hearted? How can he not be short of breath.
"Okay, I'll do it tomorrow. "There is no need for Li Mei to agree, Huang Guihua directly made the decision for Li Mei.
After discussing the matter, Huang Guihua drove the two of them aside to get along.
"Comrade Li Mei, do you have any dissatisfaction with our marriage? If you have any dissatisfaction, you can directly raise it. Zhao Yuanchao couldn't hold back his words in his heart, and saw that Li Mei had been silent since he mentioned the marriage between the two of them. asked Li Mei directly, wanting to know what Li Mei was thinking.
Li Mei looked up at Zhao Yuanchao, and saw that his eyes were firm, and he looked like he would not give up until he got the answer, so she sighed and said, "You also know that your mother has a big opinion of me, and I am afraid that after marrying into your family, you will not be at home, and you will be bullied by your mother when the time comes." ”
This feels a bit like giving eye drops to her future mother-in-law before she marries into the Zhao family. Of course, this is only one of the reasons, but the most important reason is that Li Mei can't mention.
Hearing Li Mei say this, Zhao Yuanchao looked like he knew. "Don't worry, I already talked to my parents last night, and she won't embarrass you anymore in the future. Zhao Yuanchao paused for a while and continued, "Even if my mother really doesn't like you, you don't have to worry too much, when we get married, I can make an application report, and then you will directly join the army, so you don't have to get along with my mother and them." ”
This is actually the best way, so that the two mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law who can't get along don't live together, and this contradiction will naturally be less. I learned this from others. What's more, his father also talked to him honestly last night, saying that he would take care of his mother in the future and not let his mother mess around. In this way, Li Mei's worries are a bit superfluous.
Li Mei saw that Zhao Yuanchao had thought everything through, so she could only smile at him. As for the sorrow in her heart, she can only worry about herself, and others know her worries, her worries......