Chapter 1198 Chat
Qiao Lan pondered for a while after hearing this, and sighed, "Forget it, don't mention it, there's no point in talking about it now, it's not bad, Weizi said that the person chosen for Nini is actually very good, as long as Nini doesn't be a demon, people won't treat her badly in the face of your father and Weizi, after all, she should be fancy." ”
"Mother, don't worry if you're not in good health, take more time to hurt me, you gave all your thoughts to your sister but in the end you were very sad, why bother, I'm your daughter, okay?" Baa deliberately expressed her loss, and didn't want her mother to be sad for someone who didn't deserve it.
He can understand his mother's heart, and thinks that they are young, and they must be taken seriously about the major events that affect their lives, otherwise they will feel sorry for them, but in fact, there is no need at all. The road came out by himself, just like his father and uncle worked their own, even Sister Suyuan's current status as stable as Mount Tai was also made by herself, and her family background was just a small help, which could not decide everything.
"Okay, the most guilty thing I have over the years is you, most of the time your aunt is taking care of you and filial piety to you, I want to tell you to be filial to your aunt and uncle in the future, they have the grace to nurture you. Qiao Lan looked at Baa solemnly and said.
Mrs. Li and Boss Li really have nothing to say about Baba, when they teach like a daughter, Su Yuan is taught by their daughter-in-law, and when they are raised by a sect woman, Baa Baa is exactly the same upbringing, and there is absolutely no partiality. Qiao Lan is grateful to the Li family from the bottom of her heart, and is as filial to the old lady as her relatives.
Baa nodded seriously, "Don't worry, I'm not that person with no conscience, I just sent a letter to my aunt and sent some gifts." ”
"Well, if you write more letters, your aunt will be bored, and your children will not be in front of you, and you will inevitably be lonely. Qiao Lan patted her hand and repeated the advice again and again, it is very important to know how to be grateful.
"Well, I thought that when the marriage must come down, I will go back to Daqingshan with you for a few days, and accompany my aunt, besides, I miss you very much, and when my affairs are settled, there will not be many days to accompany you. "Baa Da knows that he is thinking about things, and he already has an account in his heart.
"I'm discussing with your father?" Qiao Lan didn't agree immediately, thinking that the family matter was decided, whether it would be more convenient for the children to meet and contact their feelings in the capital, and even considered that she should stay with her daughter and help her contact her future son-in-law.
"Okay, I'll go and ask my dad when I go back. ”
"Come, help me copy the sauce, put some diced meat, the diced meat should be fat, otherwise it won't be delicious." It would taste good with some meat skin. Qiao Lan chattered to her daughter while doing it.
"Mother, you're getting more and more beautiful. Baa Baa felt that her mother was also changing, becoming gentle and beautiful, her whole body was natural, as gentle as water, and people couldn't take their eyes off it, not because she looked so beautiful that she was amazing, but very comfortable and relaxed with her.
"Sweet mouth, you're getting older, and your mother and I'm starting to get old. Baa, my mother is not as knowledgeable and knowledgeable as your aunt, but I know one thing, women must be independent and self-reliant at all times, and it is self-improvement and independence in their hearts. To know how to advance and retreat, to be strong is not to blindly want a man's strength, you must step on the man on your feet to be considered powerful, no. But when you face difficulties alone, when no one helps you, you can still face and deal with everything calmly, decisive, wise, and keen, to be a woman who can move forward side by side with her husband, and getting her husband's love is much more important than a momentary favor, which is why I desperately want you to be the main room.
Because there is enough love, so I will try to give you respect, love without a name is not real love, real love must first give respect and trust to your partner, do you understand?" Qiao Lan told him this for the first time, and it was only a subtle mention before.
Baa looked at her mother, suddenly her eyes were red, her mother loved her very much, loved her very much, and wanted to give her the best, maybe she spent a lot less time with her than others, but she taught her the best things, so that she could be used endlessly in her life.
"Mother, I remember, no matter what time or difficulty, I will work hard to live and do my best to keep my heart. Baa wiped away her tears and nodded earnestly.
Qiao Lan looked at the woman and smiled with relief, "I can't guarantee that I will be defeated, but I will do my best, I want to give my daughter the best, and I want him to wear the most beautiful wedding dress." But there are always accidents, if I say that if you can't have both, I hope you can protect yourself, keep your heart, and never forget who you are, you are just the daughter of a farmer girl in Daqingshan, don't forget your heart!"
Turning his head, tears fell, and he didn't dare to imagine that if his daughter was really elected to the court, the position of the nobles might be a little dangerous, and now the new emperor has a queen, and they have shared hardships and hardships, so there is no need to mention it. The four concubines are full, and they all have children, so it's really too difficult to climb up.
He is really good for the two children, and he has carefully thought about and thought about the way he can go inside and out, so he resolutely disagrees with Nini's entry into the palace.
"Mother, don't worry, I will definitely be strong. Baa Baa kept her mother, her eyes were a little moist.
"Mother believes in you. Qiao Lan smiled softly and kissed her daughter's forehead, and in a blink of an eye, her daughter was so old, like a flower and jade, it was so good.
The mother and daughter started cooking again, chatting about their hearts while cooking, Baa Baa would also tell Qiaolan about their own hearts, and there were also other girlfriends' feelings of separation, and the older sisters who married badly collapsed all of a sudden, and the children had troubles when they were older.
"Hey, this is really a woman who wants to marry the right man, you can just say me, your father is so tolerant and loving to me, he can agree to whatever I do, and I don't think it matters, so I often go out to do something, help your sister-in-law get a shop, your father doesn't care about me, let me play as much as I want. But some people don't like women to show up outside, which is a deep-rooted idea and can't be changed. ”
"What you're talking about, my uncle, hahaha!" bleather.
"You listen to what your second uncle said, hehe! Your uncle has a little bit of this idea, in fact, it can't be said to be wrong, he also has his benefits, and it's good for his wife not to toss. Qiao Lan smiled.
Xuewen belongs to a down-to-earth person, but he really doesn't like his daughter-in-law to show his head outside, except for this, you don't toss him, he is single-minded to you, and he belongs to the kind of person who lives a life.
"Actually, my uncle lives a very down-to-earth life, and he is not wronged by him. "I've seen a lot of things, and I've understood some things.
"Yes, but you are not blessed with such a person. Qiao Lan smiled.
"It doesn't matter, I'm sure there will always be something that belongs to me. Baa said with a confident smile.