The 13th family rules and family style heirlooms, true feelings and true meanings

The 13th family rules and family style heirlooms, true feelings, true intentions, true inheritance

The poem says: Only read poetry and books, do not be an official, and plough and read heirlooms from generation to generation.

Accumulate virtue and do good deeds for the township, and everything is safe and good for farming.

There are no surprises in the world, do you know why Wang Yuanwai told such a big lie? Wang Yuan went out and found a good friend, and that was a high increase. Wang Yuanwai told the ins and outs of the matter, and the senior monk calculated a hexagram for Wang Yuanwai. said that he should have this girl in his life, this girl was his own daughter in his previous life, and he wanted to repay his father in his previous life, and the fate of the two women arrived, so they women could meet. In order to successfully recognize this daughter, Wang Yuanwai lied.

Speaking of the Li family in Niuquan, after a grand ceremony of recognizing their ancestors and returning to their ancestors, and after a few days of celebratory feasts, the Li family of Niuquan Village bid farewell to the clansmen of Lijiayu Village and returned to Niuquan Village.

In the joy of everything going well, everyone's mood is like a clear blue sky, vast and profound. Mrs. Liu and Mrs. Wang were rare in their hearts, the old housekeeper Niu He was in a good mood, and the children in Niuquan Village were happy. Niuquan Village is full of joy, the people of Niuquan Village are happy, and the branches of the trees in Niuquan Village are full of magpies.

Mrs. Liu and Mrs. Wang are cow stewards who have tea together.

The atmosphere of chatting has never been more relaxed. They talk about the future, and depict a predictable tomorrow. As he spoke, he turned to the main topic.

Mrs. Liu said: "This time, we have completed two major things in three things. While it's hot, let's do the third thing. ”

Mrs. Wang said, "My sister is right, strike while the iron is hot, and finish him in one go." ”

Mrs. Liu continued: "Establish family rules, and find us in the past to find our Niuquan Village Li family to prosper. Let future generations be safe and smooth! Therefore, I think, the first is that our children and grandchildren only study, not become officials. Now, the Liao and Song Dynasty wars, lives are devastated, and the officialdom is deceitful, and being an official is the biggest risk. But you must read, be sensible, and have insight, so that you can have a far-sighted vision and settle down. ”

Mrs. Wang said: "To be an official, you have to participate in the imperial examination. In the current imperial examination system, we have to fill in the family tree and resume, and this is the first danger for people like us. Our family history is inconvenient for outsiders to know. In addition, the Khitans occupy the 16 states of He Yanyun, the city of Youzhou, and they have defended and defended the Han people, and entered the officialdom, on the one hand, the officialdom is competitive, and on the other hand, the Khitans look down on our Han people. Being an official is not comfortable being an official. Instead of being an official for grievances, it is better to be an upright person. Therefore, according to what my sister said, we decided that the descendants of our Li family in Niuquan Village will only study and not be officials. ”

Mrs. Liu said: "I think the second point is the most difficult to do, but it is crucial. We have settled here from thousands of miles away, relying on the support of the villagers, and we should be grateful. Therefore our children and grandchildren will not expand their family business. It sounds simple, but it's actually hard to do. Expanding the family business means buying a house and buying land, and if the year is good, you can't achieve the goal without means. If the year is not good, it will take advantage of people's danger. None of this is kindness. According to our current family business, it can be a wealthy and well-off family. The good thing is that children and grandchildren can enjoy it endlessly. If the family business is expanded through the fish and meat village, is it what we kind people want to see?"

Mrs. Wang also said solemnly: "My sister thinks long-term, and I raise my hands in favor." Only through honest labor, with our blood and sweat, can we truly enjoy the fruits of the harvest. And we must educate our children and grandchildren to always maintain a good heart and help the needy. Buddhism says that if you plant good causes, you will get good results. Our Li family accumulates virtue and does good, and lives in harmony with the villagers. Our children and grandchildren will continue to grow, and our Li family will prosper. If you are rich and unkind, the spitting stars of the villagers can also drown you and us. ”

The old housekeeper Niu He listened carefully to the conversation between the two ladies, secretly rejoicing in his heart, nodding frequently, with a happy smile on his face. Fu He: "Yes! yes—。 Wow!Wow!β€”"

Mrs. Wang continued: "In order not to lose one's heart and kindness, I propose that the third rule is not to engage in business. The children and grandchildren of our Li family only work in agriculture and do not do business. As the saying goes, no business is treacherous, in order to maximize profits, businessmen will do whatever it takes, and in the long run, they will lose their nature and no longer be kind. This is not the outcome we are after. Contrary to the purpose of our Li family. ”

Mrs. Liu said: "My sister thinks long-term, I agree!"

So, Mr. Hou was invited and the first family rules of the Li family in Niuquan Village were established.

The Li family rules of Niuquan Village

First, the descendants of the Li family only study and do not become officials.

Second, the descendants of the Li family should accumulate virtue and cultivate virtue, help the township, and not defeat the family business.

Third, the descendants of the Li family only work in agriculture and do not engage in business.

This family rule, which is both simple and practical, has a distinct color of the times, and has laid a solid foundation and institutional guarantee for the development of the Li family in Niuquan Village. Let your family in Niuquan Village spread out and your children and grandchildren will be healthy!

Exactly: there are many good things and many joys, and I went to the family tree to make family rules,

found his mother's family to continue the front edge, and the people were prosperous.

Everything went smoothly for the Li family in Niuquan Village, looking for their mother's family, continuing the family tree, and setting family rules, all under the planning of the two ladies, which was logical. What's the odd story? What's the good thing? Listen to the next breakdown.