Chapter 16 This is not kindness, but indifference
He Shen should be wondering that he or sister Ci is here at this moment and seems to be in good spirits, right? After all, when Song Ci left school last week, his state seemed to be quite poor......
That's right, at noon last Friday, Song Ci had seen this head teacher before leaving school - of course she didn't go to see him to ask for leave, in fact, at that time, the original body Song Ci, who had reached the limit of her spirit and was almost on the verge of collapse, still had the normal logic of "being in a bad mood - wanting to leave school - you need to ask for leave first", she went to ask for help. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć ļ½ļ½ļ½ļ½
The relationship between teacher and student is complex, both close and distant, simple and subtle.
Most of the time, students instinctively ask the teacher for help when they encounter a problem, but at the same time, they subconsciously think that "complaining to the teacher" is a cowardly and tasteless thing that will make them less attractive. Therefore, the vast majority of students will not seek help from teachers if they do not really encounter something unbearable.
Even though Song Ci has been at the edge of the class network, she clearly knows these conventional "rules", and even, she is more afraid of change than anyone else, and she pays more attention to abiding by them than anyone else. It can be seen from this that when she chose to ask He Shen for help, she had been forced to the point where her reason collapsed and only instinct remained.
You can imagine her despair.
At the same time, the deepest and darkest despair is also the most likely fertile ground for hope.
He Shen was the last straw she wanted to grasp.
If, at that time, He Shen had listened carefully to Song Ci's words and seriously solved what happened in the class, Song Ci's car of fate might have gone in another direction, and Song Ci might not appear here. Unfortunately, the cruelty of fate is that it never has an "if".
Therefore, Song Ci was finally buried in despair, and Song Ci also appeared here.
In all fairness, He Shen is not a bad teacher, and being able to teach in Yinghua is in itself an affirmation of his teaching level. Usually, he rarely scolds and punishes students, and when students make mistakes, he will try to turn a blind eye and let it go if he can, and when he can't let it go, the "board" is also raised high and gently fallen.
Sounds kind, right?
But hidden in this kindness is a deep indifference.
There is a saying that "love is deeply responsible", the more you love, the more you can't tolerate mistakes. Imagine if parents find out that their children have made mistakes at home, will they deal with it perfunctorily or simply ignore it? If the parents choose to ignore it, it only shows that they don't care about their children at all, and they don't care if this mistake will have an irreparable bad impact on his future and his life.
From here, it can be seen that He Shen actually doesn't care about what his students will become in the future. He is not a bad teacher, but he is by no means a good teacher, and he is not suitable to be a class teacher. In his opinion, as long as he goes to and from class normally and completes the study plan he has made, this is enough. Other things don't need to be taken care of, and they have nothing to do with him.
Therefore, when Song Ci, who was damp and embarrassed that he couldn't be embarrassed anymore, found him and tried to ask for help, he keenly discovered that it was a "trouble" and intelligently launched the "dodge" skill, used Tai Chi Dafa, and said with a serious appearance-
"Song Ci, you're not a kid anymore. You should be clear that two people have a bad relationship, and both parties have a reason. Before telling me that Ruan Tian bullied you, do you think about it first, did you do something wrong?"
Can Song Ci be explained?
She couldn't, she couldn't tell her about writing a love letter to Cheng Yang and being discovered by others, so she couldn't explain it.
And this silence has also become a clear proof that she "already knows what she has done wrong".
He Shen sighed slightly, with the same kind look on his face as always, and said gently: "High school students, it's all like this. When the teacher was studying, he also had conflicts with his classmates, and the worst one didn't even speak for a few months, but when he graduated, he thought back on these things and found that it was really not a big deal. When you go to college and then enter the society, and then think back to these small contradictions and quarrels now, you will only smile, and they are all good memories. ā
A bullying incident is thus condemned by Ho - it is not a big deal, it is just a small contradiction and a small quarrel, and it will only make people smile after a few years.
There will be no harm or harm, and it will not have any impact on her life at all, so ......
"So, don't always be careful. To be a man, you should be broad-minded, be psychologically bright, and face some unsatisfactory things with a smile. ā
If you can't do it, it's that your mind is not broad enough and your mind is not bright enough.
Persuaded here, He Shen felt that it was almost over, but he was worried that when Song Ci in this state returned to the class, he would continue to have any conflicts with Ruan Tian, which would be troublesome and very troublesome to deal with.
So he said thoughtfully, "Well, the teacher knows that it will take you a little time to figure it out, and that wet clothes are not good for your health." He noticed that it was not good for the body when the clothes were wet, but he deliberately ignored why it got wet and who made it, "That's good, I'll give you leave, you go back to change your clothes, rest and rest, and think about it carefully, okay? ā
Speaking of which, what else can Song Ci say?
In class, she was always silent and docile when facing teachers. So she signed her name on the fake note again silently and meekly, took the schoolbag that He Shen asked people to take from the class, and turned to leave. When I left, I didn't even forget to say "goodbye, teacher" or close the office door.
On the door, half a wet palm print was left, which dried after a long time, just like the tears that Song Ci shed for a long time before drying.
In this way, Song Ci left with her fake note.
He Shen also managed to solve a problem.
What the?
Will something happen to Song Ci after he leaves?
She didn't say goodbye without saying goodbye, and even if something really happened outside, there was a fake note, and his responsibility could be minimized -- the girls nowadays came to the teacher when they had a little conflict, and began to shed tears after saying a few words, and they refused to talk to the teacher at all, and she cried and cried and wanted to go home and rest on leave, could he still refuse?
Song Ci guessed that He Shen really didn't know about Song Ci being bullied, in fact, except for Ruan Tian's group, everyone else didn't know about it, after all, they put a sign of "Under Repair" at the door of the toilet at that time. And when they left, even if the others saw Song Ci in embarrassment when they came in, they guessed what was probably going on, but after all, there was no evidence, and they could completely refute that Song Ci wanted to beat someone, but he fell to the ground instead.
But at the same time, he knew very well that He Shen had completely noticed that Song Ci's mental state was not good at that time, otherwise he would not be surprised that he was here now and in good spirits.
He has respect for the profession of teaching, but he has no respect for such teachers.
Right now......
"Ruan Tian. ā
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"Ruan Tian!"
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He Shen raised his head and noticed that Ruan Tian's position was empty. He frowned slightly, and impatience floated in his heart, tsk, there was such a trouble on the morning of the big Monday, and the trouble could simply affect the work status of the next week.
Thinking like this, he asked, "What's the matter?"