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Before the Zhang family left, Yan Jinshu also divided two small pots of this good wine for Uncle Zhang to take back and taste it slowly.

When Uncle Zhang saw it, he was happy in his heart. This is Xiao Nizi who doesn't treat him as an outsider, and good wine will still enrich him, an old man, and he took his family home with a smile on his face.

Of course, Xie Jingwei was not at ease, and followed them all the way back and then returned home.

Compared with Uncle Zhang, they only brought two baskets of food, of course, it was not as heavy as the weight of the two pots of medicinal herb wine, which were only about five catties.

But what Yan Jinshu is grateful for is the heart of Uncle Zhang's family! Although they only brought coarse grains and other things, they are what Yan Jinshu is lacking in the current tense!

Even Xie Jingwei, who is a son, is not as well prepared as Grandpa Zhang~~ This carefulness is worthy of Yan Jinshu's generosity.

Because Xie Jingwei sent Uncle Zhang and them back, and it was not dark yet, Yan Jinshu could still rest assured.

After the people left, the family was also tired, and the whole family took turns to take a bath.

The most surprising thing is that Xu Xiaofen actually left without eating, but followed Zhou Xiuhua behind her, helping to tidy up the courtyard and wash dishes and chopsticks, so that Xie Jinghong had time to bathe a few children!

If Zhou Xiuhua didn't know that it was dark outside, she would have wanted to see if the sun was setting in the east.

Yan Jinshu was not tired, but her body was dirty, and after sending off the guests, she was sent back to the house directly by her mother-in-law.

Xiao Jiu and Xiao Shi at home don't take a bath again, and they will fall asleep when it's late.

Xiao Jiu and Xiao Shi are small, and Zhou Xiuhua generally asks Yan Jinshu to bathe the two cute treasures at about four o'clock.

Although it is only winter now, for the sake of safety, it is still necessary to bathe the young children before the sun sets, which is right.

After washing the little nine and ten, they drank milk at four o'clock, and when everyone ate at five o'clock, they accompanied them to eat mush, and now it is seven o'clock, and they have to drink milk again, and they can sleep until about twelve o'clock.

After twelve o'clock, the two Mengbao drank milk once, and by the way, they could sleep directly until about five or six o'clock the next day.

Zhou Xiuhua has brought up so many children and grandchildren, and it is best to bring the little nine and little eleven cute treasures.

Yan Jinshu took a bath and came out, and the two babies slept more soundly. While the children were asleep, she called her eldest sister and told her what she knew, so that she could know the bottom of her heart.

Everyone is a woman, and they have children for their husbands, if they don't really can't get by, who would really want a divorce?

Don't look at the eldest sister's words, she is also very calm, Yan Jinshu still understands from Xie Jinghong's stunned from time to time - Xie Jinghong still cares about his husband.

This is also a good sign. Husband and wife live together, and if the wife does not care about her husband at all, the days will be as plain as water, boiling frogs in warm water, and being ignorant.

Now Xie Jinghong and Fan Jiefang seem to care about each other very much, and Yan Jinshu is still happy for this eldest sister.

"Second sister, I heard that your brother-in-law's wife seems to have left the county with her children, and I heard that some of her relatives went to Hong Kong. ”

"Huh?" Xie Jinghong thought that the eldest brother and sister had something to help with, but she didn't expect that Yan Jinshu would directly rush to the topic.

"Don't, mosquitoes are going to fly into your mouth! Okay, let's get serious, I've already inquired, if you want to have a stepchild, it's your brother-in-law and your mother-in-law, your sister-in-law didn't want to hear it from the beginning. ”

"Well, that's what I know. Alas~" Xie Jinghong heard this, nodded and sighed.

Thinking that the eldest brother and sister were still so concerned about her marriage, she actually went to the town in the morning to inquire, and she could also hunt wild meat and come back, so she knew more about the ability of the eldest brother and sister.

"What, what's the matter?" Yan Jinshu didn't understand the thoughts of women in this era, and when she saw that her eldest sister didn't get better when she heard it, she still looked troubled, so she asked her directly.

"Xiao Nizi, you get along well with your mother, you won't know that it's not easy for us to be daughters-in-law. Even if he is liberated and can his mother, he can't convince his stepchild, and in the future, with my unobtrusive mother-in-law inserted in our husband and wife, life will still be a good life!"

"What's this, didn't your mother-in-law talk to your brother-in-law? You don't have to face her all the time. The time when they can be together is the New Year's holiday, she is an old lady, at most she doesn't like you, can she still embarrass his own grandson?"

"Isn't this—Isn't this enough?" I was embarrassed by myself, how could I say that after Yan Jinshu was inside, it didn't seem to matter?

"Hey, second sister, how can you be a good person? Change your mind, do you want your mother-in-law to treat you badly, or to treat your child badly?"

"I ......" doesn't have to be chosen at all. Whose mother-in-law doesn't like her grandson, but likes the daughter-in-law of an outsider?

Uh, seeing Yan Jinshu's fluorescent eyes, Xie Jinghong wanted to hold his forehead.

"That's it. We are not her own daughter, if she doesn't like us, she doesn't like us, and she doesn't have to live with her every day!

Besides, second sister, if you change your mind, you will be able to understand the idea of liberating my brother and her mother!"

"How, what?"

"It's easy to guess, how many years has his mother been a widow, and her son must be her life.

Don't say anything else, now that you see Xiao Xianzi as long as the fourth child, you yourself will be jealous! Not to mention that the old woman was widowed in her early years, and she had three children alone, and she couldn't see that the children were partial to others, so she was quite understandable. ”

Seeing that the eldest sister was overwhelmed by her words, Yan Jinshu changed her words, patted her shoulder comfortingly, and continued:

"As long as you are a mother-in-law, you don't have any opinions about the grandchildren and abuse anything, but you just put on a face to show your daughter-in-law, what's there to worry about? If she wants to be angry, she is stupid, and if you want to be angry, then you can't see it.

At the end of the day, you and she are two individuals. What does she do, that's her business, the most you can do is to bow your head and avoid her when facing her.

Brother Jiefang is not a wood, he must also know what kind of virtue his wife is, but when he saw that her mother was just putting on a face and not doing anything out of the ordinary, he ignored it.

If the old lady just puts on a black face, he has to discipline his wife like this, then he is unfilial.

As for saying that you see that she doesn't like to put on a face for you, that's simpler, she can put on a face for you, and you won't put on a face in front of her Brother Jiefang?

Although she will definitely get angry when she sees that you are not good to her son at the beginning, the old lady is in a panic, and when she sees that you are not good to her son, her heart may be smooth, but she will see you pleasing to the eye...... Of course, this varies from person to person, and I said this because my mother-in-law is a widow. ”

"Can it really work?" Xie Jinghong was very skeptical when he heard this alternative conclusion.

"Theoretically, it works. Because you first have to find out the reason why the two don't get along well. You have given birth to three sons for Brother Jiefang, and no matter how much the old lady goes too far, she will not let her grandson lose her own mother! After all, how many stepmothers are kind-hearted?"

Seeing Xie Jinghong nodding, Yan Jinshu continued:

"If the relationship between the son and the daughter-in-law is not good, she will feel that her son is not very good to the daughter-in-law, and she will feel in her heart that the son is still her son.

But she cares about her grandson, so she can't let her son and daughter-in-law quarrel every day, right, which is not good for the family. Then when she is a mother-in-law, she must be kind enough to persuade her daughter-in-law not to go too far.

As for persuading her son, the old lady would rather wronged herself than want to wronged her son. ”

"Also, don't keep thinking about letting Brother Jiefang protect you in front of his mother, this will only make the old woman look at you more and more wronged! When appropriate, you have to show that you are wronged, so that your mother-in-law has a little 'mastery' of the feeling of her son, so that the old woman will not want to stir up trouble from time to time. ”

"This ...... Will it work?"

"Hey, second sister, you have to verify this yourself. To be honest, I don't know!Who let me meet a good mother-in-law~" As she spoke, Yan Jinshu smiled proudly.

Xie Jinghong: "......" really wants to beat her smug smile, what should I do?!