Chapter 182 sighs

Qiaolan herself is also a person who has suffered hardships, and her thoughts about the other half of the future are also more realistic, she understands that marriage is a matter of two families, and it is necessary to consider it comprehensively, if the in-laws are too difficult to deal with too many problems, even if they love deeply, they will break up and not marry, there will be many problems in the future, and almost all of them who suffer are women, her mother in her previous life was like this, she married for love, and in the end it was all herself who suffered. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info

The character is not good, you can make trouble with or without money, she married a little sister in the embroidery building early, and the mother-in-law didn't worry about buying a house with her husband to spend alone, and it was okay to pay more filial piety to the old people during the New Year's holidays.

didn't have children, and used this as an excuse to deduct money from them to subsidize the little uncle, thinking that they were a big amount of money blown by the wind, so they endured it, and they could get by by holding it tighter. But after giving birth to a daughter, my mother-in-law received a congratulatory message from a friend, and they asked, 'Congratulations on giving birth?' ''It's born, girl, it's okay.'' "Then I'll bring some tonic soup over, I boiled chicken soup for the child." "Don't be busy, her mother will come over in the afternoon, let her mother serve, she still wants me to serve when she gives birth to a daughter, there is no door." ’

It was nine o'clock in the morning when I called, and my mother could only come over in the afternoon, and I heard it really outside the ward, she was also there at the time, and I felt very cold, and his husband ran to see the child, and he didn't wait for her to come out of the delivery room, and the doctor pushed her back, and no one ran away, hehehe!

Qiaolan has seen a lot of such things, the conditions of the little sister's family are better than the man's family, and they are also the right people, they have all become like this, she is not unemotional.

So at the beginning, I was more satisfied with the conditions of Chuanhu, there was no mother-in-law, the ancient mother-in-law was a hundred times more powerful than the modern one, and the backmouth was unfilial, and it was really necessary to drink a pot. The fact that I don't have a mother-in-law really attracts me.

The Liu family is also not in the two rooms, there are few people, isolated and no one to help, Liu Chuanhu's own population is simple, but it is also two sons, the family is simple and simple, and it is okay to say that someone has a door.

After contact and communication, Chuanhu is more mature and stable than many modern people, and thinks about things more comprehensively, the important thing is that he has the constraints and bottom line of this era in his heart, and he is willing to treat him sincerely without spending women's money, which makes her gradually have feelings, such as a small stream flowing slowly but real.

Especially many of the concepts and values of life, the two are compatible, which makes Qiaolan very happy, and she has real expectations for this family affair in her heart and hope for her future life.

Qiao Lan was stunned, and heard Li's mother say: "Chuanhu is slightly older, but I think he is more stable than the younger one, although he won't say anything sweet, but he is really sincere to you, you see that he also posted money in your tea garden, and he didn't say a word about your dowry, and the shop was taken to do groceries, I asked Xuewen, this is all in your dowry, and it is difficult to find such a person." ”

Qiao Lan thinks it is true, many people can fight for this in modern engagement money, and it is not for nothing that they broke up, and there is a lot of engagement money that was deceived by their in-laws, which is still deeply touched.

There are very few people like Chuanhu, and modern people are even more calculating, so they won't give their things to their daughter-in-law as a dowry, and they can't wait to take them all out to count their mother-in-law's family, otherwise they have two hearts and calculations.

Thinking of this, Qiao Lan also felt very warm in her heart, "Mother, I know, I will cherish my blessings, and I will not make a fuss about living a good life." ”

Mother Li smiled with relief, "I know that you are a child with ideas, and when you marry someone in the future, you must discuss everything, and we can't drop the chain when we should be tough, but we can't be too strong when we should be soft, and life is lived by people." ”

"Well, I know, as the old saying goes, if you find a door that is too high, I will be married, and people will be a head taller than me, and there will be days of bullying, I understand. Qiao Lan smiled and nodded, agreeing with this sentence.

Life will teach us a lot of things, society will make people understand how skinny reality is, it will laugh at our innocence and stupidity, and let us learn to be round and square inside, and become stronger and braver inside.

"If only you could understand that. Dongtou Murakami, do you remember that there is a Sun family, the girl of his family is very beautiful and famous, do you remember?"

"Ah, I remember, my grandmother once mentioned her, saying that it was a pity, what's wrong. "Qiao Lan has never seen this person, but I have heard the elders mention it, saying that he has a good skin.

"It's so beautiful, I originally said that a peasant family is also wealthy, and I can't look down on it, but in the end I was taken by a landlord in the city, and I gave a lot of dowry and married people, so what is it called marrying! Thirteen years old everywhere to say kiss, in fact, I am afraid that there will be such a day, the child is so ambitious to destroy himself, a few days ago, when I was playing at the entrance of the village, I heard people say, lost two children, can not give birth. Let the eldest woman toss to death, now the health is not very good and still raising, I heard that the landlord is not so favored, and married a small room, more tender and delicate, hey!

"It's a disaster for the peasant family to be too beautiful. Qiao Lan also lowered her head and sighed.

"That's right, I'll learn from your father when I come back, and your father also said that you must be accompanied by someone when you go to the county in the future, and don't dress so well, it's almost enough, don't cause anything. Don't bring jewelry with you to the county. I thought that in the future, you should go out less and embroider the dowry at home, unless it is Chuanhu who takes you out. Mother Li was also uneasy and uncomfortable when she heard this.

"Well, I know, it's easy for me not to go out to buy things, but if I go to the county to buy things in the future, I'll let my sister-in-law bring them back for me, I won't go out. Qiaolan didn't want her mother to worry, Mother Li really loved her love without asking for anything in return, and she cherished this friendship very much.

"Hey, just wait until you get past the door. Mother Li felt that it would be good to get married.

"Auntie, do you think the dumplings I kneaded look good?" Li Suyuan went to the kitchen to play and pinched the dumplings with Sister-in-law Zhang.

"Well, it's good-looking, it's pinched here, like this...... You see, it's not pretty. Mother Li pointed to him.

"Mm-hmm, yes, I've learned how to make dumplings, go home and make them dumplings." Li Suyuan ran away happily again and continued to play with the dough.

At night, she made chicken stewed mushrooms, which was delicious, and made fish pot sticker cakes for Li Suyuan, which she especially likes to say that the taste is very full, and she mixed wild vegetables coldly, which is the fruit of her own labor.

That night, Li Suyuan and Qiao Lan slept together, and they said that they would have a good chat and whisper about it, but who knew that Li Suyuan would sleep on the pillow I don't know, and I was really tired after running for a day, Qiao Lan couldn't laugh and fell asleep.

A morning Li family sent a housekeeper to pick up people, and also sent some silk satin, knowing that her family had just moved to a new home, she definitely needed to arrange it, and sent some materials intimately. I also gave two sets of pen, ink, paper and inkstones, both of which are very good inkstones, and Qiao Lan likes them.

"Sister Qiaolan, I'm leaving, I'll come to see you in a few days, I have to come to my house to play. Li Suyuan got into the carriage and said goodbye to everyone.

"Don't worry, we'll definitely go when we're free. Qiao Lan sent him away with a smile, and brought her a lot of delicious and fun things, including the wild vegetables she picked herself, and the ugly dumplings she wrapped herself. It's also the first time to work, so I must show it to the old lady.