Chapter 311: Men Can't Get Used to It

The main reason is that now everyone does not have many ingredients, and the food is simple, and now there are not as many recipes as in later generations, and there are many food recipes on the Internet, and there are even videos. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info

As long as you have a little interest, learn and try, it won't be difficult to think about, unless you are a kitchen killer.

This will be a meal, Xia Jing pulled Xia Xiao's sleeve, and the sisters went out for a walk.

"Sister, when do you think I'm going to get married?" Xia Jing asked.

Xia Xiaodao: "Although I have a good relationship with you Yan Hao, don't be in a hurry to get married, at least talk about it for two more years, if in these two years, your relationship is stable and you feel suitable for each other, then you can get married again." ”

"I think so too, today Yan Hao told me about getting married, although I also want to marry him, but now he has just come over, and I don't know what the situation is in his family, I didn't agree, I also want to be here for two years." Xia Jing said.

Xia Xiao nodded, "Then you also tell him, you are dealing with the object now, and you can tell the other party if you have anything, I will let you be in the production team for another two years, mainly considering that you are in the production team, after all, it is different from being in the city before." Here is to have the spirit of hardship and hard work, here is very experienced people, when people are in difficulty, it is easier to see the essence of a person. ”

Speaking of this, Xia Xiao said again: "I'm not saying that Yan Hao is bad, Yan Hao is very good, and his feelings for you are also very true, but he is not mature enough, you are still young, there is no need to get married so early." After all, there are many things to consider after getting married, so it's too early to mention marriage, and you also have to be prepared, and you can't hide from his family for the rest of your life. ”

Xia Jing nodded, "Got it, sister." ”

"Yan Hao is proposing to get married now, probably because of the situation of the production team, if you are married, you can apply for a dormitory alone, like Wang Aihua and Fang Yuejin, otherwise you can only live in the male dormitory like now, you live in the female dormitory, occasionally you may eat in the cafeteria, it is not very convenient to eat here with you, after all, you also have to consider the thoughts of the dormitory people, right?"

When Xia Xiao said this, Xia Jing said: "Yes, Yan Hao also told me the same today, saying that if we get married, we can apply for a dormitory, we can fire together, and everything is more convenient." Naturally, I wanted to marry him and be with him, but when I thought of his family and didn't know what his family's attitude was now, I was a little worried. ”

"His family, don't worry about it for the time being, you and Yan Hao are good, mainly on Yan Hao, he is willing to come here from H Province for you, this heart is precious, but don't be too moved and put your position low."

Xia Xiao reminded that what she didn't say was that Yan Hao came over a large part of it for Xia Jing, but maybe a small part of it was to rebel against the family.

After all, everyone has such a period of rebellion, some people are early, some people are late, who knows if the current Yan Hao came over after hardships because of the rebellious period, but from north to south, he can persist all the way like this, this heart, this love and even this perseverance and persistence are also admirable.

Xia Xiao didn't want Xia Jing to put her position low because of this move, and obey and give in in front of Yan Hao, so it was nothing at first, but after a long time, I knew that there would definitely be problems.

"I didn't put a low position, I was with Yan Hao." Xia Jing was a little puzzled.

Xia Xiao didn't know how to explain it, so he had to say:

"Xiao Jing, men can't get used to it, and they can't indulge. You can get along well with Yan Hao, but there are some things you can't do for him, he is now in the production team, you have to take him to integrate into this environment as soon as possible, but you can't do everything for him.

There's also the problem of eating, either the two of you go to the cafeteria to eat together, like today, you do it here, pack it and send it to him, you can't do it every day. Even if you live in a women's dormitory, you can also ask him to come over and cook for you, and then pack with him to find a quiet place or a grass to eat together, which is definitely better than you doing this. ”

When she was in college, she saw a lot of boys who cooked and delivered meals to girls, and also saw girls who cooked and delivered meals to boys.

Whether it is the elderly or adults and children, everyone is the same, they can't be too used to it, too indulgent, too much is not a good thing.

Although there is a new society, now men are still machismo in their minds and bones, and if they are too accustomed to men, they will only suffer themselves.

For those women who are wronged, men will not appreciate her difficulty, and will only take it for granted.

Yan Hao is a good one, but if Xia Jing takes care of Yan Hao in everything, it will be difficult to say what Yan Hao will become in the future.

"Sister, I understand what you mean, but I can't say it." Xia Jing said.

Xia Xiao said with a smile: "I'm just talking, watching you cook and pack and deliver food to Yan Hao, I just want to say, you have to learn to let Yan Hao take the initiative." A man can only really make you feel safe and secure when he learns to take care of you, do you like a man who takes care of you, or do you like a man who always asks you to take care of you? ”

"Definitely like a man who takes care of me." Xia Jing didn't think about it.

Xia Xiao said: "That's it, so you have to work hard yourself, but you can't do nothing, sometimes you also compare your heart to your heart, and many things are mutually protected." Let's take an example, when he was sick, you took care of him all the time, and usually took care of him, but when you got sick, he couldn't take care of you, and he couldn't even do anything for you, and he might not be able to go to the hospital to accompany you and take care of you. ”

Xia Jing shook her head and said with a smile: "Sister, I understand your worries. ”

"If only you understood." Xia Xiao smiled slightly, the sisters were also chatting casually, Xia Xiao was also thinking about it before suddenly reminding Xia Jing, I only hope that Xia Jing and Yan Hao will be fine in the future.

"What are you and your brother-in-law like, it must be good, right?" Xia Jing said.

Xia Xiao said: "Anyway, when I cook, your brother-in-law will take the initiative to help me wash the dishes and help me light the fire." ”

When it comes to her own affairs, Xia Xiao can't say anything, she and Gao Jiaxing get along very casually, and they won't do anything deliberately.

And Xia Xiao understands other people's affairs, but Xia Xiao may not be able to handle his own affairs.

Speaking of this, Xia Xiao said again: "You don't think about me, you just learn how to behave, how the two of you get along depends on yourself, anyway, you don't have to be too wronged by yourself." ”