After entering the door, Roy was full of soft light tones, and the simple decoration embellished the small psychological counseling room like an open courtyard, and he unconsciously felt relaxed all over his body, and his heart had the urge to open it impatiently.

"That's right, Wenxing, this is where you usually work. ”

Wen Xing is similar to him in the outfit indoors, without the cap that has always covered his forehead, the clothes on his body have also been changed into light-colored casual suits, his half-length hair is combed smoothly, and his eyes are soft and kind, just like a psychiatrist.

"Welcome. ”

The only thing that hasn't changed is probably that there are still not many words.

"In the month of my last trip, under your deliberate arrangement, I really gained a lot, and I didn't look at the world so simply. Alas, I'd like to take a whole chunk out of my time and experience it again. ”

"Hmm. ”

"But now......" Roy found a chair to lie down, and said helplessly, "I have encountered another situation that I can't understand at all, and my heart is broken." ”

"Hmm. ”

"Debra, you know, we've traveled together before, and recently she's always out of shape at work, and I'm annoyed, but it's not the key, the point is that she admits her mistakes very well, and she is usually very well-behaved, so what do you tell her to do, she immediately supports it.

"You may find it hard to understand that I don't even know how to describe my inner breakdown. On the one hand, she feels very good, innocent and cute, and very likable, but on the other hand, she always doesn't know whether it is intentional or unintentional, and when there is a little problem at a critical moment, she instantly deviates from the rhythm.

"Of course, I also know that being a person should be tolerant, a person can't take advantage of all the advantages, pay more attention to the excellent side of the other party, and don't deliberately stare at the shortcomings of others. But, but ......

But she ...... I really can't bear it anymore, if this matter can't be solved, then let's get together and disperse, and go to her ......"

As Roy spoke, he couldn't hold back any longer, and continued to scold, venting his inner grievances.

Obviously, it was Debra Fan's mistake every time, and she criticized herself twice, her innocent blue eyes blinked with tears, and her aggrieved nose snorted, as if she had become a victim and a tyrant herself.

It's simply - rape a hundred times doesn't relieve hatred.

Roy's emotions were already a little out of control, he no longer wanted to care about the rationality of the rules, and continued to innocently defend himself: "She wasn't like this before, hasn't she always been very good......?

Wen Xing listened quietly on the side, taking a pen and jotting down a few key words on the paper from time to time.

After Roy was silent for a while, and he was almost done, Wen Xingcai said: "I have a counselor, because he himself is highly myopic and is afraid that his son will become like him, so he strictly requires his children not to eat candy and watch TV.

Under his strict demands, the child had to stop eating candy and watching TV in front of him. But when he was not with the child, the child immediately couldn't control himself, ate a lot of sugar, and watched TV all day long. ”

Roy was substituted into Wen Xing's story and wondered: "Because the child was rebellious in adolescence, did he do this on purpose?"

"I've seen this kid, in fact, the kid doesn't want to eat candy or watch TV in his heart, but he doesn't know why, so he wants to do it. ”

"Why?"

Wen Xing did not answer Roy's question, but continued to tell the next story: "My other female counselor is very beautiful and has excellent conditions, but she has found a husband with ordinary conditions. The lady is very controlling and her husband is very weak in this marriage.

"This lady loves to cook, and sometimes after she has prepared dinner carefully, her husband forgets about it, and when he comes back, he apologizes to her desperately, but when he apologizes, he inadvertently says that he has eaten a burger downstairs, and oh, this burger is simple, but it is really delicious. As a result, the lady was half angry. ”

Roy seems to have thought of something, isn't this a bit like a copy of him and Debra?

Wen Xing continued to give an example: "There is also a consultant, similar to your situation, he is the leader of a company, he has a female member under him, usually obedient to him, with an excellent attitude, but this female member always has some painless mistakes, which makes him distressed, criticize the female member, he feels that people are sincere and diligent, don't criticize, and it is very uncomfortable to hold it in his heart." ”

Roy was overjoyed, as if he had found a life-saving straw, "Then how did he solve it in the end?"

Wen Xing shook his head, "It's not easy to solve." However, it may be improved with a few techniques. ”

Roy's heart was cold, inexplicably sour, and the whole person was instantly bad. This is a prelude to breaking up with Debra.

Alas, to divide or not to divide, a little tangled.

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Roy held his cheek in his hand and stared out the window in a daze.

The skyscrapers outside the window are still majestic and obscuring the sky, the white clouds in the sky are still treacherous, and the sun and moon are still rising in the east and setting in the west on time. It's just that Roy is no longer yesterday's Roy.

He's been in this state for days.

Before he went to Wenxing for psychological counseling, he was just a little irritable, a little troubled, and he only had problems with Debra. The worst-case scenario is nothing more than a one-shot split.

Is it a cute assistant that is hard to find? Or is it an innocent assistant that is hard to find?

But after consulting Wen Xing, he looked at his relationship with the people around him, and he understood that the contradiction between him and Debra was only the tip of the iceberg of the crisis, and what he had to deal with now was his relationship with "this world".

According to Wen Xing's meaning, there is a competitive relationship between people, and everyone tries to "attack" each other to meet the shortcomings of **.

However, when the relationship between the two people is unequal, the weaker party cannot express his anger in an active way, so he will attack in a passive way and resist passively.

The passive way is the way to be uncooperative like Debra.

This passive attack is also known as the "weapon of the weak".

At this time, Alice walked in and reported with an excited expression: "Boss, a new sniper target has been prepared, Leona has confirmed the plan, and there will be new progress soon." ”

Roy didn't move, turned his head to observe Alice, a tailor-made black suit set off her heroic posture, a lace shirt as white as snow inside, a straight career line outlining an S-shaped figure, beautiful posture, glamorous, glamorous, coupled with her inner thunderous coolness, it really makes people can't help but tease.

Alice looked left and right, and hesitated, "What's wrong?

Roy thought to himself, according to the theory of "passive attack", if I condescendingly trade power and sex with Alice today, and xx her, after that, she will face me, a rich and powerful ruler, and she will not be able to do anything to me, but she may be tamed, but her subconscious will be unhappy, she will cause me all kinds of trouble by revealing my secrets, and she will also inadvertently leak trade secrets, causing a vicious public relations incident of the company.

This is the "weapon of the weak", she will vent her anger in other ways, and she does these things in the least good for herself.

According to Wen Xing, people who use passive aggression often don't know what they're doing, and most of them act unconsciously.

Therefore, Roy has the qualifications to point fingers, pick and choose, and vent, but he also has to bear the retaliation of the other party's passive attack.

Is it true that the wicked will not end well?

"Roy!" Alice had a little headache, her boss had been stupid for several days, what kind of nerves was she had!

"Oh, sorry, I just suddenly understood the answer to a question. ”

"What?"

"What kind of trouble might arise if I don't treat you with enough respect. ”

Alice wondered, "What?"

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