Chapter 28: The First Feast of the Guest (5)
When the people heard this, they talked about it. An Zixi said that if it is beautiful, it will go, and if it is ugly, it will not go, so as not to scare people away. Li Xin said that if she is not beautiful, she will go by herself and will not bring her friends. Yang Fangyu was straightforward and fast-talking, and urged Li Shukuai to talk about what is the best choice?
So Li Shu said: "If both of them are beautiful, they should choose to go alone, because when the other party evaluates her alone, they will compare her with other girls they see every day, so that the beautiful ones have more advantages, and if you bring the same beautiful friends together, the other party will compare and contrast between the two, and maybe you will find their relative shortcomings." But if both girls are ugly, then you have to choose to go together. Because if she goes alone, the other person will also compare her with the people in everyday life, and then she may be hopeless. And when both of them go, the other party is evaluating them, and maybe they will see the relative advantages between the two of them, at least it will increase the chance of success. ”
After he finished speaking, everyone felt justified. Ye Ziyu said with a smile: "I understand Li Shu's theory, in a word, good friends are actually used to cushion their backs, aren't they?"
The crowd laughed. Li Shu said embarrassedly: "No, no, I just saw a question in this magazine that said this." ”
Lan Jingxue said: "So, Ye Ziyu, when those individuals in your bedroom go on a blind date next time, you must all go to the raw melons and eggs, so that the protagonist will have a comparative advantage." The crowd laughed and laughed.
Jian Yi took over the topic and said, "I have also seen a similar topic in the book, tell everyone about it?" So everyone's eyes focused on him again.
"It's called 'The Prisoner of Love.'" Love is also a game, who can skillfully control the rules of the game of love, who can become the winner of love. If both parties change their hearts, the ending is not bad, because each goes his own way, and no one owes anyone, but if one of the two people changes his heart and finds a new love, the other party is still stupidly loyal. Then, the party who is looking for a new love is the happiest, happier than both of them not changing their hearts, because this one party has found a better lover, and the one who is abandoned is the unlucky, even more unfortunate than both of them changing their minds, because the pressure he or she bears comes from both the happiness of the other party and his own unhappiness. So, the question is: when you face love, how do you ensure that you are a winner in love?"
As soon as he finished speaking, Ye Ziyu smiled again: "I also understand what Jian Yi meant, and the same sentence can be summarized: If you fall in love, you have to dump others, and others can't dump yourself, right?"
The crowd laughed again. After laughing, it caused contemplation. After a while, Li Xin said: "This topic is too realistic, I don't think there should be a winner in love." Lovers in life are hopeful, no one wants to turn back, many literary and artistic works have described, the party in love is not dead after being abandoned. We've probably all tried to make the person we like believe that we can die and get their loyalty. But can vows be eternal? If you must guarantee to be a winner in love, just like lovers on different sides of the world, when you don't know whether the other party can stay in love, the best choice is not to keep your promise, then this is terrible! I don't want my love to have a winner. ”
Ye Ziyu glanced at his girlfriend in surprise, and was a little happy to see her say this, just as he wanted to speak, An Zixi had already smiled and said, "Ye Ziyu, Xin'er is confessing to you, why don't you hurry up and lie down?"
Yang Fangyu said: "Don't interrupt, Jian Yi hurriedly said, is this the best choice to become a winner?"
Jian Yi said: "The principle of obtaining happy love is enumerated in the book: victory belongs to those lovers who are kind, tolerant, tough, and simple and clear. This means that happy lovers may not be loyal, and certainly not strange. The key to a happy life is to be tolerant of each other. Be tolerant of each other's shortcomings and occasionally be unfaithful. Treat lovers harshly, and don't tolerate each other's mistakes at all, and it's difficult to be happy. ”
Yang Fangyu asked again: "Then what do you mean by being tough and simple?"
Jian Yi said: "To be tough is to be able to afford to put it down in the end." If the other party has no love, he can't be too weak and blindly try. And simple and clear, as Li Xin just said, love should be very pure, you can't always think about being a winner, the love and hate of both parties should be clear, and don't let the other party guess and cause misunderstandings, leading to the love tragedy of breaking up due to misunderstanding. ”
After hearing this, everyone felt justified, and they all applauded Jian Yi and raised their wine glasses together. Ye Ziyu said with emotion: "It seems that if love is really a game, then the most proud choice for lovers is to find a new love, the most beautiful choice is to last forever, the most rational choice is to part ways, and the most unsuccessful choice is to be ruthlessly abandoned after the other party has another new love." I don't think we'd do that kind of multiple-choice question. ”
Li Shu said: "What you said summed up quite well. Everyone laughed again.
In this way, laughter continued throughout the whole process, and everyone was very happy. By the end of the feast, it was getting late. The group walked back to the brightly lit campus, each with something pleasant on their minds. Jian Yi felt that in fact, Li Shu and Ye Ziyu were very easy to deal with. And several girls teased Yang Fangyu all the way, asking her to hurry up and become a pair.