Xiuya nodded seriously after hearing this, Auntie, I know what you said, but sometimes I always miss them very much, and I don't know if they see my portrait? Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

Of course you can, you can just change how your father and mother can recognize it at a glance, and you will never be wrong. I promise you that. When I'm free, I'll draw a few more portraits for you, draw your grandparents' and grandparents' into it, and write a few more letters when you send letters, your parents will be just as happy to see it, if you write more and draw more, your parents will know about your grandparents and your changes and growth, and they can also know more about you, so you can rest assured. ”

"Well, I will, I've always kept a diary, and I plan to show it to my parents so that they can know my thoughts and my growth and progress, and they will be happy, right?"

But she also knew that they went to such a dangerous place for their own future, she couldn't complain, she could only do something she could, so that her father and mother didn't worry about herself, she would be filial to her grandfather and grandmother, and not let the elders worry.

"The eldest sister sent a letter, saying that she had just married in the spring, and said that the affairs of the palace were not peaceful, and the son of the side concubine was also scrambling, but fortunately, her mother-in-law was a very shrewd and refreshing person, and she could still hold the power and initiative in the house, otherwise she didn't know how to live in the future. Suya laughed.

"This is also a helpless thing, I wrote to him to ask her to have a good relationship with her mother-in-law, there are many benefits for him to act in the palace in the future, after all, she and her mother-in-law and sister-in-law spend the most time, the fathers are all outside, and they are not too concerned about the things in the house, and the sister-in-law and mother-in-law have a good relationship, and he will suffer a lot less grievances in the future. Qiao Lan said sincerely.

"Yes, that's what my grandmother said. Xiuya sighed, feeling that it is not good for people to grow up, and there are always such and such troubles that plague them.

"Don't frown at a young age, like a little old lady, life is your own, Su Yuan is not a weak and incompetent, I believe she can live a good life, don't worry about it." Qiao Lan couldn't help but laugh.

"Well, I know, I just don't think it's good to grow up, looking at my sister like this, I don't know how enviable she is, in fact, she also has her troubles. It is said that the emperor mentioned the matter of the side concubine again, and this time I don't know if I can fool it. ”

"If you can't fool around, you can try to capture the hearts of your mother-in-law and grandfathers and fight for the initiative in the time before entering the door, which is also no way. It is best to give birth to a son and a half daughter before the side concubine enters the door, so that the mother-in-law can also look up and respect a little more, this is her dependence, after all, the mother-in-law's words are also very important to the masters. Qiao Lan also sighed leisurely.

Su Yuan looks beautiful, but in fact, she has to bear more grievances and responsibilities, this is what the high-ranking girl has to bear, enjoying the wealth is not in vain, there are more things waiting for you to bear later.

"Yes, that's what my aunt said. Xiuya nodded in agreement with Qiao Lan's words, which meant the same thing as what the elders said.

"I believe that Su Yuan is not a person who is only in love, we go through the world, not only love but also family and friendship, as well as the responsibilities that we must bear, we can't let go of our emotions just because you have a side concubine or concubine, don't forget that you still have parents and even children. My daughter's family has to be strong. Qiao Lan sighed, after becoming a mother, this experience is deeper.

Once upon a time, love was no longer the only thing she pursued, and there were many other more important things in life that they also needed to protect and manage.

Xiuya nodded, "Yes, my grandmother said the same thing." ”

"You'll understand when you're older, and it doesn't matter if you're still young and don't understand. Qiao Lan touched her head and smiled softly.

She won't teach Xiuya some words of love or not, and hopes that she can accept an independent personality and a strong character, which is the most important thing for girls living in this era, she has always thought that the upbringing of girls by high-ranking families is not all feudal and wrong.

On the contrary, there are many places worth thinking about, the elders actually do not recommend that girls put love first, more to be strong and brave, take responsibility and do their duty, even if they lose love, they still have relatives and children and the power of the family, which is actually a bit similar to the modern career is more independent.

"Well, my grandmother told me that although I see that my eldest sister likes Shizi, it is far from obsessive, I should learn from my eldest sister, always keep a clear head, I am fortunate to lose my life, I am not forced or persistent. "Xiao Xiuya has understood a lot of things, and the girls of this era are very precocious.

"Yes, if you have too high expectations, you will be disappointed, but if your expectations are low, you may have a surprise. When I married you Brother Huzi, I just thought that it was enough to have a safe and stable life, and it was good that husband and wife could respect each other, but I never thought that we got along very well, and I gradually had a deeper relationship. Although it is not as enthusiastic and desperate as the drawing book writes, we also have our sweet happiness, and the long days have passed longer. Qiao Lan said with a smile.

"Yes, I envy you so much, just like my father and mother, the corners of your eyebrows and eyes are full of happiness, it's good. Suya giggled.

"So, Xiuya has to learn the ability well, even if you have the ability, no matter how bad the mix is, we will have a foothold. Qiao Lan smiled and nodded.

"Well, I know, I will work hard to learn my skills, Mama Zhou is really good, very strong in all aspects, I have really learned a lot of things, I will study seriously, I can't embarrass my parents, I can't learn well to make people laugh, people will only say that my Li family didn't teach me well, I didn't have a good education, I can't let my elders be hung up with me. Xiuya held her head high and looked serious, she also had her own pride.

"That's right, Xiuya is amazing. Aunt Qiaolan praised her with a thumbs up, she was a girl with a heart.

"Auntie, will we eat fish-stuffed dumplings tomorrow, the fish-stuffed dumplings made by grandma last time were really delicious. "Xiuya came here to eat all kinds of fish-filled dumplings, and the taste is really different.

"Okay, I'll ask them to buy some fish intestines early tomorrow morning, let's eat leek fish intestine filling, okay?"

"Well, I like that taste, and I want the octopus. ”

"Okay, Peony, remember to remind me to buy some fish before noon, let's eat dumplings, I haven't eaten dumplings for a long time." Qiao Lan was also hungry for this.

"Okay, ma'am, I'll write it down, don't worry. Peony nodded.

In the afternoon, I ate seafood porridge and seafood pot, all kinds of fish and sea crabs and shrimp varieties, the taste is very delicious, and I also made a few light dishes, plus a big bun with a lot of skin filling, Wenwen and Xiuya are very satisfied and happy.