Chapter 199: Blind Obedience and Accommodation [-45 more]
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Zhang Shanni waved her hand, and she sat on the chair peacefully, just the two children of the seventh and fourth children were not even ten years old, how could they hurt her. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
The sister-in-law was a little frightened when she saw her big belly...... Perhaps, I was frightened by Wang Xiaocui's miscarriage and had a psychological shadow?
Of course, Zhang Shanni would not ask such embarrassing and uncomfortable questions in front of so many people, but interacted with the two little cute babies.
"Come, little four, little seven, come over quickly, let the second aunt see if our little warrior and little princess have grown up?" Zhang Shanni beckoned to them gently, and the smile on her face did not change at all.
She found out that after being reminded by her sister-in-law, the two children suddenly turned from surprise to fright when they saw her, and looked at her defensively...... Belly?
It seems that the two children were frightened by Wang Xiaocui's biological mother!
"Second Uncle~~ Xiao Si and Xiao Qi miss you so much. ”
Xiao Si dragged Xiao Qi and slowly walked towards Zhang Shanni, the two of them seemed to have been reminded by the sister-in-law, the second aunt was different from the previous size, seeing Zhang Shanni's bulging belly like that mother, Xiao Si had an instinctive defense.
There is no natural sense of closeness when I first found Zhang Shanni before, but with a kind of hesitation that I want to get close to.
If it weren't for seeing Zhang Shanni smiling and waving to him and his sister all the time, that smile still made him feel safe, and he wouldn't dare to walk over with his sister.
In fact, Xiao Si only took Xiao Qi three steps in front of Zhang Shanni, and did not dare to approach Zhang Shanni's body.
He looked at Zhang Shanni with admiration and fear, and said softly, nodding his head unhappily with Xiao Qi.
Xiao Qi doesn't like women with big bellies anymore, seeing a woman of this shape, she also has the same fear full of red blood!
"What's the matter, Xiao Si and Xiao Qi don't remember the second uncle?" Zhang Shanni bent down and reached out to hold Xiao Qi to her lap, although her little belly is big, it is still possible to hold a child compared to a four-month pregnant woman.
"Yes. Xiao Qi was still young, and when he heard Zhang Shanni's words, he replied instinctively.
Although Xiao Qi is the youngest, but because she is not liked by her mother, she has a natural intuition about the good and evil of others.
Some time ago, I spent a lot of time with Zhang Shanni, and even Xie Jingzi couldn't compare to Zhang Shanni's status in the little girl's heart.
Although Xiao Qi answered, her small movements avoided Zhang Shanni's bulging abdomen, and she looked very scared.
"Xiao Qi is not afraid, there are Xiao Qi's younger brothers and sisters, they are now in the belly of the second uncle, they will come out in five months, say hello to Xiao Qi, and when they are older, they will definitely be able to play with you in the mud." ”
"Younger brothers and sisters?" Xiao Qi always thought that she was the youngest, it turned out that she would still have younger brothers and sisters?
In fact, the fourth family just gave birth to a boy, and Xiao Qi is not the youngest, but Xiao Qi has never seen it, if she is an adult, obviously she doesn't understand it very well now.
"That's right, Xiao Qi now has a little eight younger brother, and if you wait for five months, there will be a little nine and a little ten!"
Zhang Shanni said, while stroking her belly with Xiao Qixiao, she lured Xiao Si to interact with her.
Children, only when adults guard against him too much, will their hearts hurt. But when the adult doesn't care, or even encourages him, the bad feeling caused by the heart's concern will slowly disappear - maybe there will be some micro-imprints, but as long as the heart is not malicious, there is nothing to resist.
The most important thing is to guide the children to have more positive energy in their hearts than negative emotions, and strive to be upright.
As for making children's hearts as pure as angels? That's. Children have to grow up, they have to learn to survive, and they have to face all kinds of trials and trials, how can they be as pure as a blank sheet of paper?
Obviously, no one is as big as Zhang Shanni, and she dares to let the children play through the belly!
Even Zhou Xiuhua and Xie Tiesheng wanted to stop it when they saw it, but they were stopped by Zhang Shanni's gesture with a look.
Xie Jingyang has not seen the innocent little faces of his two children for a long time, and at this time he looked at Zhang Shanni with a grateful face, and he didn't expect that the belly of the pregnant woman was not touched indiscriminately.
Zhang Shanni doesn't have this kind of little thought, in her opinion, she is in good health, and the babies are not uncomfortable because they are touched. Those customs and habits are to make people be more careful in their behavior.
Touch it is not a ferocious snake, as long as the mother is healthy, be careful, but gently stroke, what damage can be caused to the baby?
Although some old people have something to listen to, she now feels that whether or not she can properly correct the fear of the two children's psychology is completely bad for their future mental development.
In Zhang Shanni's view, the two children are pure and simple in nature, and they are the nephews of their own men, and it is more important to teach them correctly than to blindly obey and accommodate.
"Little Nine Little Ten?" Xiao Si is a little older, and he knows that there is already a little eight born to the third uncle in the family, because the third uncle has been working and living in the town with her husband for many years, and the fourth is not very enthusiastic about this third uncle.
"That's right, Xiao Si is going to be an elder brother again, and in the future, with Xiao Jiu and Xiao Shi, it will be the same as with Xiao Qi, okay?
Xiao Si's eyes lit up when he heard Zhang Shanni's words, staring at her abdomen, touching it carefully, and seeing Zhang Shanni not stopping it at all, and even having encouraging eyes, he suddenly felt that he had grown up, and said happily "um", and said loudly: "Second uncle, I will be a good brother, and Xiao Qi can also be a sister!"
"Sister~~" When Xiao Qi heard her sister, she instantly thought of Xiao Wu, and then saw that her little brother was happy, and touched Zhang Shanni's sharp and round belly with little force, and she also touched it curiously and carefully.
It's such a coincidence, Zhang Shanni's belly moved smartly at this moment, as if she was communicating with Xiao Qi.
"Ahh
Xie Jingyang was so moved that he burst into tears. Xie Jingzi saw the fifth brother's gaffe, and gently patted his shoulder with his little hand.
Since the two children began to resist Wang Xiaocui's biological mother, Xie Jingyang was also punished for sitting together, fortunately, the two children were still young and not very good at holding grudges, after feeling Xie Jingyang's sincerity and kindness to them, the father-son, father-daughter affection gradually became stronger.
But in the end, they were forced to grow up, Xiao Si and Xiao Qi's closeness to Xie Jingyang is like a membrane, obviously it should be the closest relationship, but when it comes to getting along, it is better to be with relatives such as Xie Jingzi and Zhang Shanni.
Not to mention compared with Xie Tiesheng and Zhou Xiuhua's grandmothers.
Now because of Zhang Shanni's sincere contagion, Xiao Si and Xiao Qi have returned to their innocent and simple smiles, can Xie Jingyang not be moved?
Xie Tiesheng also knew that these days, Xiao Qi, the child, cried and slept almost every day, and no matter how much care Xiao Si had, he couldn't make up for her lost maternal love.
Only because Zhang Shanni is pregnant and has natural maternal love can she touch Xiao Qi's closed heart...... Especially what my brother said, it turned out that this was Xiao Jiu and Xiao Shi greeting her!
In the little Xiaoqi's heart, there is finally a feeling: she is no longer only her brother, she will also have a second uncle, a father, and a little nine and ten...... There is also a little fifth sister...... Those brothers and sisters and other relatives who she deliberately forgot finally poured into her little heart again......
Xiao Qi looked at the second aunt who was smiling happily, the smile was as warm as the sun, and she gently called 'mother' in her heart, this is the feeling of 'mother'.
Xiao Si was also very happy, seeing that his sister would finally smile, he smiled happier than anyone else!