Chapter 326: The War Between Men and Women (I)
I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, thirty and stand, forty and not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven, sixty and obedient, seventy and do what I want, do not exceed the rules.
Although Li Jiaming's appearance is still in his prime, his psychology has already gone through half a century, how can he not listen to contrary words?
Li Jiaming, who locked himself in the apartment and sulked all night, and when the anger subsided, he sorted things out, and thought through people's hearts, it was easy to see the strangeness. The so-called easy to change the nature of the country is difficult to change, Sasha is a proud person, and it is a good face or even hypocrisy to say that it is ugly. When she first got married, she was afraid that others would say that she would stain her own light, so she deliberately wore clothes for hundreds of dollars, drove a luxury car with a bag of hundreds of dollars, and flaunted in disguise that she didn't care about money, and there would be such a big change after giving birth to a new one?
is just trying to provoke herself, first, to show her status and voice in the family; The second is that she was too weak in front of herself when she was a child, and she seized the opportunity to be strong; The third is that it may be that he spends the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain, even if their little sisters are very close, Sasha still has a sense of territory. Maybe she warned Manmei and Xiaomei in this way that they should not get involved in themselves and her family affairs in the future.
Li Jiaming felt funny for his wife's child, but he had to admit that she was very smart and good at seizing opportunities to maintain her independence.
Whether you admit it or not, all marriages are actually a war, or they are constantly fighting each other, and in the end both sides are defeated; Either the winner is divided, the winner assimilates the loser, and one becomes a vassal of the other; In the end, there is no distinction between victory and defeat, and after a tug-of-war, they influence each other, and finally move towards the same pace.
Since this is the case, then cooperate with one or two.
Early the next morning, Li Jiaming called Yang Fenhua, and after squeaking twice and hanging up, he went to class. After class, I made a phone call when I returned to the office, saying that I wanted to talk to Xinxin.
Yang Fenhua, who deliberately embarrassed him, naturally didn't admit it, but after she hung up the phone, she let her old Guo Zhengse say: "Fenhua, everything must be moderate." ”
"Lao Guo, what do you mean?"
Do unto others as you would have them do to you. Lao Guo, who has already packed his briefcase and is about to go to class, will not think about people's hearts, otherwise he will not be able to get out of the school, but he will push himself and others.
"Sasha, you have never been in charge of Jiaming's career before, and suddenly you have a sideways shot, although you have your reasons, but does Jiaming also have grievances? Explanations and apologies are all there, and you don't relentlessly turn over old accounts, even turning over the things you did when you were a child, isn't it a bit unforgiving? ”
Yang Fenhua, who was pulling the shelf, was immediately unhappy, but Lao Guo, who had always let her, disagree, continued: "Sasha, marriage shouldn't be a war, but you have to treat it as a war, even if it's a war game, it will become a real war sooner or later." ”
Yang Fenhua, who just wanted to reason with her husband, was stunned, she just likes to take advantage of her tongue, why is she not a smart person? Yang Fenhua is smart, Liu Shasha is smarter than her, and she immediately realized that her best friend also has marital conflicts, and they are much more serious than her own.
My best friend's mouth is very poisonous, and she just seized the opportunity to provoke Jiaming, she has nothing to do to stab people. If the old Guo Xiangjia has a successful career, it is nothing more than a quarrel; But Lao Guo has achieved nothing, and even the work is arranged by Jiaming, can there be no pressure in the long run? If it weren't for Lao Guo being very mature and the two of them having children again, maybe, maybe, Liu Shasha didn't dare to think about it, and hurriedly stopped her best friend's unpleasant words that were about to come out.
"Okay, okay, Lao Guo, I'm afraid of you. Fenhua, you send me back, Wenwen has called, it is estimated that the house has already called. Hehehehe, with you and Lao Guo at my place, my mother shouldn't scold me for being too fierce. ”
Liu Shasha is not wrong, Lao Guo is indeed tired of his wife's poisonous tongue. Especially when he achieved nothing, even a position as a teaching assistant was obtained by Li Jiaming, and she won the teaching position with her strength.
"Let's go, I have a class in the afternoon".
"I'm not going, Yingying still has to learn the piano."
It's okay, Liu Shasha is not reluctant, "Xinxin, we are going home."
Xinxin, who was watching cartoons with the young lady, was reluctant, but her mother frowned a little and got up obediently. She is also repeating Liu Shasha's days when she was a child, it was her mother who disciplined her, and Li Jiaming's father was only responsible for playing with her, and she always said that children should play more.
Liu Shasha took her daughter by the hand, Lao Guo became a servant, and went out with her briefcase and a friend's suitcase. The three of them took the elevator down and out of the apartment building, Lao Guo helped put the boxes away, and when he wanted to get his car, Liu Shasha handed her keys.
"Let's go".
OK.
The three of them got into the car, Liu Shasha helped Xinxin fasten the child lock, gave her an iPad and headphones, and sat in the passenger cab by herself. Seeing this, Lao Guo couldn't help but add a few beats to his heartbeat, although he was not optimistic about his wife's plan, but he understood what that plan meant. With the relationship between his wife and Liu Shasha, even if she doesn't agree with Li Jiaming's actions, she will fund her husband and wife like she subsidized Li Jiade.
guessed correctly, Liu Shasha was just looking for an opportunity to discuss this matter with him, she didn't care as much about her reputation as Li Jiaming, but Yang Fenhua was her sister for nearly 20 years, and it was impossible not to help if she was in trouble. She can also see Yang Fenhua's selfishness, but so what?
Who isn't a little selfish? For the sake of the cause, seek the support of friends, and if friends have that ability, what is it? However, things have to end here, and it can't be left to Jiaming's temperament.
Therefore, Liu Shasha chatted with Lao Guo, who was driving, about the past, and talked about 'It takes a strong man to save himse1f, and a greatest man to save another' that she saw in Li Jiaming's study.
"When I was in junior high school, I finally saw the video of "Shawshank" at my master's place, and it was from then on that I fell in love with Jia Ming, brave, strong, mature, but I just liked flattering people too much. You haven't seen him with those officials before, this uncle and that uncle, I don't know how affectionate he is.
It wasn't until I entered Harvard, where my nose and face were swollen from the professor's and boss's face, that I realized how wise Jiaming was back then. ”
Lao Guo, who knew well, echoed and smiled, with Liu Shasha's appearance, even if she is arrogant in China, there are a lot of men holding her, plus her family background and emotional intelligence are not difficult to go smoothly; But in the United States, where aesthetics and values are completely different, it is difficult not to hit a wall.
It's good to be able to laugh, Liu Shasha, who was going around the bend, was suddenly very grateful to her husband, she was sent to Harvard by her husband in this way, and she would rather be misunderstood and disgusted by herself than hurt her poor self-esteem.
"Lao Guo, you are not Fenhua, you are not as hypocritical as her. People live a lifetime of grass and trees, they always have to do something, I have that ability with Jiaming, you don't have to shirk, what do you think? ”
Forty-year-olds, how can there be so much hypocrisy? The overjoyed old Guo laughed and thanked: "Sasha, thank you." If there is a result, the patent belongs to you, and we only get a salary. ”
Liu Shasha, who was also laughing, shook her head and vetoed: "Jiaming won't agree, he has rules in everything he does, and he just does it according to your school's system." ”
"Okay".
"There's one more thing to trouble you"
"Say".
Knowing a husband is like a wife, Li Jiaming's paranoid personality can't be stopped, but Liu Shasha has a way to stop it in disguise.
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