Second Brother Yi simply sat down and lit a cigarette - his daughter-in-law doesn't like the smell of smoke, he never dared to light a cigarette in front of his wife and children before, he would be nagged to death, and he had to go out to smoke a cigarette in the winter.

"Alain," he called his daughter-in-law's nickname, "we need to talk." Not to mention Dandan, those are what you think about a lot. But our conflict has not been resolved, what do you think? Do you have to do that? I can tell you clearly, impossible. ”

This is a rare time for Second Brother Yi to take a stand with his wife seriously. In the past, his wife often began to roll and splash without saying a few words, and he couldn't reason with others. For a moment now, he really wanted to say, "Forget it, let's stop arguing, let's go home!" but he thought about what his wife had said, and he still held back.

"I don't really have to be so ......," Alain said with tears in his eyes, "It's my mother who said that only when you have the money in the family can you manage a man, and she also said that you see a lot of flowers and flowers outside all day long, and sooner or later you will have to change ......your mind."

"Then you believe it? What kind of person I am, you still don't know? Since you don't believe me so much, how can we get by?" Second Brother Yi said angrily, "Besides, you will do whatever your mother says, what about me? I am your man, why don't you listen to me when I say that I want to honor my parents and care about my brothers and sisters?"

Alan said aggrievedly, "Your parents and they all look down on me...... I'm just not convinced, why are so many people in the family, the eldest brother or the cadre, all of them have to pay for our family?"

"My eldest brother is eldest brother, I am me. The eldest brother is a cadre, but the sister-in-law has not moved to the city until now, so she can only take care of the baby at home. The eldest brother is the only one in their family, and the salary itself is tight, I told you a long time ago. Second Brother Yi said helplessly, "Our family has money, of course, our family has to come." You don't have brothers or sisters, you always think that what is yours is your own, and you calculate and calculate. But there is no calculation between relatives. ”

Indeed, even if they are separated, they are still a family. Fellow relatives can only help and support each other. Your own money is right, and the place where you pay more money is naturally your own. The eldest brother is busy with work, but every time the sister-in-law comes back, she will take the initiative to take charge of the family's meals, and everyone's clothes in the family are also prepared by the sister-in-law. These daughters-in-law have never done it, and she only sees in her eyes that everyone likes her sister-in-law, but she doesn't know how much effort her sister-in-law has put into this family.

Second Brother Yi told his daughter-in-law all this again - he had said it countless times before, but he repeated it again, if Alan still couldn't listen to it, then ...... He really didn't know what to do. In the end, he said earnestly, "Anyway, that's the way it is, if you stick to your previous ideas, then we will have to separate." ”

Notice here that he is talking about "separated", not divorce at all. But the second sister-in-law was already frightened, and when she heard this, she hurriedly said, "I understand! I understand!" She tried her best to make herself appear sincere, "I was wrong before, I admit my mistake! Now I know, my father-in-law and mother-in-law are also parents, I will be filial to them in the future, and I have no opinion on spending money at home, really!"

Since she said so, Second Brother Yi, who didn't think about anything, naturally got off the donkey down the slope, and the two got back together. After such a fuss, the second sister-in-law finally reined in a lot, and it is no longer the practice of always being high above and treating the Yi family as relatives in later generations. No matter what she thinks in her heart, anyway, since she knew that her second brother had the idea of divorce, she didn't dare to make trouble anymore.

Sometimes she feels sorry for money, or when her mother can't help it, as long as she touches the scar on her hand, her brain will be clear in an instant. I remember that I was so embarrassed and helpless at that time, and I don't want to experience it again in my life. In fact, after the mentality was corrected, and as I got older, I realized how ridiculous my previous ideas were, and the relationship between the couple slowly got better again.

These are all afterwords, Yang Xiaobei didn't expect that the first thing Zhou Pinzheng did after coming back was not to engage in production, nor to study and study, but to be a mediator in his second uncle's house. In this regard, Zhou Pinzheng said vigorously, "Aren't I supporting your work? If there is a conflict in my employee's family, isn't it the Women's Federation that comes forward to mediate?"

It makes sense, Yang Xiaobei was speechless. In other words, in addition to the twice-a-year family planning tasks, the usual work of the women's director is really to take care of these trivial things. The east family quarreled, the women of the west family were beaten, and domestic violence is not a crime now, especially the countrymen have no sense of law, and in the eyes of many men, beating their wives is a matter of course.

Yang Xiaobei's job all day long is to run around and mediate family conflicts. Of course, she also takes care of being an "introducer", and there is a time when things are not transferred by will, although everyone thinks it is funny for her to be an introducer at such a young age, but when it comes to the end, she still has to go out, after all, it represents the "official"!

Now, for example, someone is coming to the door again. is still a relative of the Yang family, and as soon as she entered the door, the aunt warmly called her "aunt", and asked the young man who came with her to call her "aunt".

Forehead...... The Yang family has a very high level in the local area, and they don't know where to start fighting. You said that it is okay for a woman who is over half a hundred years old to call her aunt, but it is a big deal to agree to it, but it is too shameful to call her aunt and grandmother by a guy in his twenties, right? Yang Xiaobei hurriedly excused himself, but was said by his "niece" Zhengse, "The etiquette that should be talked about must be said, you are an elder, and you will be struck by lightning if you call him by his name!"

Well, the locals have a special reverence for Thor, which may be the reason why people are often struck by lightning to death, and everything makes Thor. If you don't pick up the rice that falls to the ground and step on it with your feet, you will be struck by lightning if you waste grain; if you are disrespectful to your elders, you will be struck by lightning if you call them by their names, and if you don't even respect your ancestors, the grain in the field will not be clean...... All of them are going to be struck by lightning, Lei Gong must be very busy, and it is estimated that he will have to work overtime all year round.

In fact, this argument is unmistakably unscientific and has a positive educational significance. The ancestors used the most simple "punishment" to tell the juniors to honor their parents and cherish food, otherwise they would not be worthy of being human. For example, Yang Xiaobei, who has never called his parents, parents and other elders by their names since he was a child, will be considered disrespectful. There is also a must also use honorific titles for elders, the local pronunciation is "two", which is actually "you".

moved out such a powerful reason, Yang Xiaobei could only touch his nose and admit it. This niece's surname is Zhu, and she came here this time to help her introduce her nephew.

"That's the case, this girl in my family has taken a fancy to a girl, but it was from the neighboring village Zeng Jiachong. The woman's house is far away, and she is a little uneasy, so she said that she wanted to find someone who had a good life to come forward as an introducer. I'm just here to trouble you!" Aunt Zhu said respectfully, offering a few gifts, nothing more than sugar, pastries and the like, which are indispensable for etiquette.