Chapter 54 Gains and Losses
Ping Ping is only more than four months old, and he has already revealed the potential of bear children, especially capable of making trouble. Li Ran bought a larger stuffed teddy bear a long time ago has been strong once, and was ridden on it with a soak of urine, fortunately the stuffed animal absorbs water, but it didn't wet the carpet, but the bear is miserable, and it is still cold outside after washing. It's not easy to dry in the winter, and it's been hanging for ten days.
Of course, the sacrifice of the woolly bear was not in vain, it successfully aroused Li Ran's vigilance, and then put a diaper in advance when the two children played on the carpet. You can't wash the carpet when it's wet in winter, so you have to stay in this house for a winter. The smell of pee in children is generally not heavy, but after all, they have been playing on the carpet, and it is always good to be clean.
Li Ran hugged Ran Ran, who was a little sleepy, and looked at Pingping next to him. It's almost noon when the two little ones have to sleep, usually for more than an hour. The two children now sleep a little longer at night, and when they reach the white head, they can only take a nap at noon. After waking up at noon, I can play all afternoon after getting up and feeding, and I don't rest until eight or nine o'clock in the evening. Once a habit is formed, it can be difficult to change, especially for children. After getting used to taking a nap, I will want to rest at this point every day.
Just as Chen Hu came over from the backyard to do his daily task of bringing his sister, Li Ran beckoned Chen Hu and asked him to look at Pingping, and he carried An An back to the bedroom to rest.
Coaxing the child to sleep can't be shaken, this is what Li Ran asked from the doctor. At first, Li Ran was influenced by the TV series and thought that the correct way to put the child to sleep was to hold the child while shaking and filming, but when vaccinating the child for the second time, a female doctor told Li Ran that when the baby was sleeping, the external vibration amplitude was too large, or shaking, which would affect the baby's development. As a result, the baby will be frightened, nervous, and even shaken unconscious. At the end, he pointed at Li Ran's nose and scolded, men are not good things.
Li Ran was stunned by the doctor at that time, and after he came back, he didn't dare to coax the child to sleep when he held and shook. Usually coax to sleep either in the arms and do not move, or put it on the bed, he accompanies him to let him sleep by himself, not to mention that the child falls asleep faster, and the adult is also relaxed. Later, Li Ran learned that everyone in the family knew that it was an experience passed down by word of mouth, but the problem was that he didn't know! No one had ever told him what he could do? After being scolded for no reason, Li Ran had to thank the doctor, and he was also desperate!
Put An An on the bed, pillowed on the millet pillow sewn by the vanilla mother for the two children, covered it with a thin quilt, and Li Ran went out gently.
In the living room, Pingping was having fun with Chen Hu. This little guy is a self-acquaintance, anyone is willing to hug him, and he will be very happy to play with him, and it is easy for him to show you a big smile. But such a child still makes people feel very cute, and they can't help but want to tease him. Even a rough man like Chen Hu is not disgusted, and the two of them can still have a lot of fun. In fact, it is said that one big and one small are playing, but in fact, Chen Hu is holding a toy in front of him, and then taking it away, his stupid son will laugh out loud happily.
To be honest, Li Ran felt that if this continued, his son's IQ would decline, and he decided to ban this way of teasing children in the future.
Compared with Pingping, everyone is with her, An Anda is different, she only pesters Li Ran. The little girl can recognize people, and she has to be held and coaxed to sleep when she sleeps at night. Usually, when Li Ran hugged him, no one else could take it away, and he didn't even want to follow Vanilla, so he had to be his father.
I have to say that it's really a good girl! The girl is her father's intimate little padded jacket, and she knows that she is close to her father, how can she be like her stupid son, and whoever hugs him is the same. In the future, when he is older, he will have to pay attention to it, otherwise the traffickers will not even need to abduct him.
I picked up Ping Ping from the carpet and let him lie in his arms. The little guy is energetic, and if you don't put him to sleep, he won't sleep well. When I want him to be sleepy, he sleeps until three or four o'clock, and then at night he will make trouble and not sleep well. Therefore, Li Ran spends a lot of time coaxing Pingping to sleep every day after falling asleep peacefully, just because he is afraid that he will make trouble at night.
Holding it in his arms until he fell asleep, Li Ran put it on the bed, the same pillow, and the same small quilt of different colors were covered. Watching the two children sleep sweetly, I always feel that I can stand up even if the sky falls, and my heart is full of happiness.
The children are the most beautiful angels in the hearts of their parents, Pingping and An An are the gifts given to Li Ran by this world, and these two children have really contributed too much laughter to this small family.
He just woke up a few months ago and saw two small oil bottles and it was a real headache. After all, a big man has never raised a child in his previous life, so it can be said that he has no parenting experience at all, so he can only take care of the two children who have just reached the full moon.
But it turns out that people are forced. A person, if you don't push yourself, you don't know how good you are at all. Before the crossing, Li Ran never thought that he could still bring the baby alone, and he could bring two at a time.
Now he is really happy to see his two children grow up healthily, but he often thinks about the problems of his children in the future. Children in single-parent families have less maternal love than other children, it's okay if you don't understand when you're young, and what you want your mother to say when you grow up. Do you want to find a stepmother? What is the point of Li Ran getting names for his two children.
And it's not just the child's emotional problem, but also the future education is a rather tangled matter. Li Ran, the exam-oriented education in Huaxia, is not very cold, and it kills the nature of children early. In his previous life, when he was in college, he went to a primary school to volunteer, and he saw with his own eyes what kind of state a small child in a certain school in Yanjing was. A group of children are almost seven or eight years old, which is the age of fun, but after class, the discussion is not how to play, but who has taken the test and how many have been rewarded by the teacher, and who has taken the last test and been criticized by the teacher or something. Can a child be happy in such a state?
The essence of education in China is that primary school students sprint to key middle schools, and middle school students sprint to universities, and they are like soldiers in the line of fire, always ready to see the red with bayonets. They take a breather from the weight of heavy classes and assignments and work hard before all sorts of exams. They basically lack sleep every day, and even have various tutors such as Olympiad mathematics, English, art, and art on weekends. Only after the college entrance examination and the title of the gold list can you get out of the sea of bitterness and come to the bitterness.
For Li Ran, he didn't plan to let the child become any kind of person from the beginning, he just wanted the child to live carefree and happy. But it's really not easy to be in such a simple environment when it's so simple, sometimes Li Ran thinks about whether it would be better to simply send his child to the United States to study, but he doesn't want his child to become that kind of banana person.
The ideological concepts of the two countries are always different, and Li Ran agrees with the American educational philosophy, but it does not mean that he likes the American ideological concept. Occasionally, he would think about the future tutoring of his two children. He wants to give his children the best he can and pamper him as much as he can, but he is afraid that the child will not learn well and become a gentleman. In short, all kinds of entanglements and all kinds of troubles.
The child is actually still young, and it is too early to think about this. But as parents, they always want their children to live better than themselves, and they will inevitably suffer from gains and losses. Before having children, Li Ran felt that he was a decisive person, but after having children, once it was involved in children, he began to hesitate. Maybe that's the difficulty of being a parent!