Watching his father cherishing the red flower with the word "bride" pinned to his mother's chest, Yang Xiaobei's heart was mixed. There is not only a sense of absurdity in the fulfillment of wishes, but also the absurdity of watching the wedding of his parents, and the confusion that his parents can finally be together, will have children in the future, and no longer have the meaning of their own existence.

Children often tell jokes, why I don't know when my parents get married? Why don't they have me on their wedding photos? Does Yang Xiaobei want to comfort herself, how many children's long-cherished wishes have been fulfilled to go back to the past to witness their parents' wedding?

When the groom's official and the team to pick up the relatives arrived, they naturally would not let them go back on an empty stomach. In the morning, the woman also held a "wine with her aunt", and like the escort man, nine unmarried girls accompanied the bride at a table and accepted the respect of relatives and friends. Of course, in the later development, this number is not so particular, sometimes in order to join in the fun, or there are many unmarried men and women in the family, then the two tables are put together, in short, the more the better.

The groom and his entourage will not eat at the woman's house, because they have to take their relatives back to the man's house to eat. This time is particular, when to depart, how many minutes to arrive, all are optimistic about the auspicious time. Therefore, there are often funny scenes of being delayed on the road and desperately hurrying, and the distance between the two families is too close and desperately detouring. Therefore, in order to save time and express the hospitality of the woman's family, they all eat "egg tea".

In fact, it is a poached egg with brown sugar, lard, etc. It's sweet and greasy, but in the countryside it is considered the greatest sincerity of hospitality, and only the most honorable guests will do it. Waiting for the person receiving the kiss to eat egg tea and wipe his mouth is about the same. After Yang Qitai and Yi Huifen bid farewell to their father together, they were carried by the bride's brother and sent to the car and ready to leave.

At this time, the grandmother began to cry, this is not dissatisfied, but "crying marriage", Baiyun County does not want the bride to cry, the bride must laugh and get into the car, but the bride's mother and other relatives have to cry to express their reluctance to their daughter, and worry about the future life after marriage. There are also branches here that can cry and those who can't cry, and those who can cry have routines and corresponding songs. Later, there was nothing to pay attention to, and the mother tearfully urged her daughter to just say a few words.

This is to see my grandmother crying sadly at the door when she says goodbye - in fact, there are few mothers who don't cry, carefully pulling the eldest child, and once she goes out, she becomes someone else's daughter-in-law, and she will serve her in-laws in the future, and she will only go home to see it during the New Year's holidays. Will she be wronged when she arrives at someone else's house, will she not be adaptable, as a mother, the more she thinks about it, the more sad she becomes, and she will cry if she doesn't do it. Yi Huifen's eyes were also red, and she was about to shed tears.

There is now a couple and a matchmaker sitting in the car. Director Liao hurriedly took a handkerchief to wipe her eyes, "You can't cry, today is a happy event, and it will be unlucky to cry." "Unlike the Tujia family who have to cry when they get married, the emphasis in the hometown is that the newlyweds must be jubilant and can't shed tears.

Yang Qitai also hurriedly coaxed her with kind words, and deliberately said some interesting things at home, so that Yi Huifen diverted her attention. At this time, firecrackers are ringing again, drums are noisy, and with a bang, it marks the birth of a family!

The people who sent off their relatives also took two cars and set off in front of the main car. It wasn't until the lively convoy went away, crossed the reservoir, and disappeared into the mountains, that the grandmother, who was standing at the door and watching, sighed and went back with red eyes. The aunt cried for a while, and then persuaded again, "Don't be sad! Women have to go through this experience! What's more, you are not satisfied, such a good son-in-law, such a good in-law, Huifen is going to the nest of blessings!"

Grandma said wryly, "I also know that Qitai is good, and the Yang family is also good." But Huifen ...... It's the eldest girl in the family. The eldest brother joined the army that year, and the second brother was also running outside, and she dropped out of school after the eldest child was born. Originally, we also thought that it would be enough for the girl doll to go to junior high school. Who knew that now that I have found a college student, the child has low self-esteem, and I feel sorry for her. ”

Grandma is such a good and strong person, she has never said it. Although Yi Huifen never complained, she didn't think that it was her family that delayed her studies - because there were few girls in junior high school back then, she felt that she was already very good. But my grandmother didn't think so, she thought that with her daughter's intelligence, if she could go to high school, she wouldn't have to be talked about now.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world. My daughter is worried about marrying badly, but my daughter is marrying well, but she is heartbroken. When they took a fancy to Yang Qitai back then, although he was good, his family was extremely poor and had no long things, and the Yi family thought that he was still worthy of the other party. But then the Yang family suddenly developed, and Yang Qitai was also admitted to the university in one fell swoop, although the Yang family and son-in-law insisted on this marriage, but to be honest, it was impossible for the Yi family not to think too much.

"Oh, just the two of you think too much! Who is worse than our Yi family? The boss is now a cadre, and the second child's business is also doing well, so he won't be wronged Huifen!" said the second aunt of the old mother with a big grin. I really don't know the blessing in the blessing, I don't know that the people in these ten miles and eight towns are so envious that their eyes are blue, you are still hypocritical here!

There are two flowers, one on each branch. After walking over there for a while, Yi Huifen is not a sentimental person after all, and after a while, she forgot about her sadness and looked lively. The mountain road was winding, there were many people on board, and the convoy was moving very slowly. But the "huge" fleet of three cars cannot but be moved. As long as there are people on the side of the road, they all come out to see the excitement, not to mention those young people who stop on the road to enjoy candy.

Today's "roadblock robbery" can be said to be above board and reasonable. This is called "stopping the sedan chair", in order to please the mouth and please. So no matter how someone stops you, you have to stop after walking two steps, and the people in the car have to honestly come down to salute cigarettes, sprinkle sugar, and say a few auspicious words for others.

They are all from the same village, and they are very familiar to young people. The Yi family sent off the second uncle, the eldest aunt, the two aunts, etc., plus the people who picked up the relatives, and the truck was full. The people in and out of the car teased each other, interjecting and playing the department, so it was not lively. The newcomer can't move around, but watching others fight wits and courage is also interesting.

Even if the man's family prepared several large packs of candy and cigarettes, they couldn't stand the steady stream of people who got the news to "rob". At this time, it is necessary to fight wits and courage, if you are not resolute in blocking the road, you will break through, leaving a laugh and scolding. If you really lie down and don't leave, then you have to go down and bargain with others, and "pass" with as little price as possible. In short, what I want is a lively, laughter and laughter all the way, and this kiss is enough for everyone to talk about for several years.

After five levels and six generals, he finally arrived at the man's house at the agreed time. The family has long been waiting for the bride to start setting off firecrackers as soon as she arrives, which is the high tide of the whole wedding, and the host family is eager to pile up all the firecrackers and tell everyone that the bride has entered the door! The blowing team is also pulling their necks to take out the strength to feed, and the door is white, so noisy that they can't hear the words in their ears.