Chapter 304: Emotions
The experience of leaving Puhai was undoubtedly unpleasant, not so much because they left in a bad mood, but because they ran away. Yang Xiaobei didn't want to face the sharp contradiction between her mother-in-law, and Zhou Pinzheng also avoided making sandwich biscuits between her daughter-in-law and her mother, so she simply left.
When Chengcheng was born, her mother-in-law didn't say anything, Yang Xiaobei said that it was impossible to have no opinion in her heart, but she was also a reasonable person, no matter what the reason, they left Puhai, which was equivalent to abducting her son for Zhou's mother, and she was definitely not so easy to compromise because of the child born by her daughter-in-law who she didn't like.
Later, Chengcheng gradually grew up, and Zhou Pinzheng also went back 1-2 times a year, but everyone invariably avoided Yang Xiaobei and the child. Sometimes Yang Xiaobei even thinks that if he stays in ancient times, he is still the "outer room" that has not been recognized by his family!
Of course, I don't pay attention to this now, she and Zhou Pinzheng are also a legal couple who are getting a certificate to set up wine, but Zhou's mother stubbornly ignored it, so that she couldn't call the title "mother" anyway.
She has never been a person who endures humiliation and burden, and she cannot learn the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Characters like Liu Huifang were moved to tears in this era, but Yang Xiaobei hated the dispute and disagreed with it very much. In her mind, it is only because she is married to Zhou Pinzheng that she will respect and respect her. However, putting this aside, they are all independent personalities, and they will never have to lower their voices and endure humiliation because they want to marry Zhou Pinzheng, she can't do it.
Women have their own jobs and careers, they have the right to be independent, and they will not depend on men to live. However, in the traditional concept, it is always believed that women are born in a weak position to be led, and mother-in-law is an existence that must please and serve well.
Yang Xiaobei was most annoyed by others and said, "You daughters-in-law now, it's too unseemly, I think how stingy we were back then, balabala ...... "You have become a mother-in-law with your daughter-in-law, and now you are going to play prestige on your daughter-in-law and brush your sense of existence?" Who gave them faces?
To be respectful and filial to your mother-in-law is to be what your mother-in-law says...... Yang Xiaobei will never be able to do this. Zhou Pinzheng also knows very well, so he has never tried to persuade her to put down her posture and compromise first - after all, there is always someone who bows his head first.
As Chengcheng grew up, every time Zhou Pinzheng brought back the photos, Zhou's mother was a lot more relaxed, and she prepared a lot of food, clothes, etc., every time, and it can be seen that she also used her heart. Of course, she was looking forward to her grandson, but she couldn't open this mouth, so she turned around and turned to her brother and concubine for help.
Everyone thought that Yang Xiaobei had an opinion over there and was reluctant to go back to Puhai. Even Zhou Pinzheng didn't want to mention it to her directly, but always took a detour from the side, for fear of chilling Xiaobei's heart. In fact, they are all overly worried. The reason why she didn't go back was very simple, no one asked her to go back!
Zhou Pinzheng goes back every year to silently buy tickets and report to her. Secretary Zhou and the others occasionally went back, and they never invited her to accompany them. As for Zhou's mother, there is no need to talk about it, when she opened her mouth and said, "Bring your daughter-in-law back with you", then the sun will come out of the west, and at most she will complain, "Why didn't you bring Chengcheng back?"
So, did she take the initiative to say, "Oh, I haven't been to Puhai for a long time, can you buy an extra ticket and let's go back together?" Is there any mistake? You brought me back in the first place, and of course you want to take me back now. This is a matter of principle that should not be taken lightly.
As for being afraid that she would be angry, she looked down on Yang Xiaobei too much. Zhou Pin loves himself, in order to avoid those disturbances, he has stayed in Baiyun for so many years. Although he has his career here, he also planned to show off his fists and feet in Puhai to make a career. At that time, he had channels for importing goods and abundant funds, and planned to start an agency business for imported household appliances, which was a very good business opportunity in the context of such a shortage of goods in previous years.
He had even set the framework and started tentative sales – and the results were very good, and imported TVs, washing machines, etc., were in short supply, becoming the most unsellable commodity. But all this came to an abrupt end after he left Puhai in a hurry. In the end, a small opening was left to let Daping and his old brothers mix up their income.
After returning to Baiyun, Zhou Pinzheng worked hard in another field, and he can't say that he lost, but he was a little regretful. He also has his hometown and parents, but he has been staying here for so many years, Yang Xiaobei is not a dissatisfied person, not to mention that she knows that one day they will go back.
For the sake of the children, for the cause, or whatever it is. People have roots, and that is Zhou Pinzheng's roots. Besides, if you don't return to your hometown, you will not return to your hometown, but in the minds of the Chinese people, you have made such a great achievement, and it is simply unscientific not to return to your hometown!
It's okay now, Uncle Zhou has been transferred, and Chengcheng is going to school, which can be regarded as an opportunity, and it just happens to be a strong reason for people to have to go back. Therefore, Yang Xiaobei, who had already prepared in his heart, agreed happily, but Zhou Pinzheng was not calm.
On the way back, he peeked at Yang Xiaobei's face one by one. When I returned home, I didn't take my son to play like usual, and I didn't have the reserve and demeanor of a big business husband at all. Today he is a low-key person, cautious in doing things, he usually made "mistakes" to behave like this, even Chengcheng has long seen through this routine, and secretly said in his father's ear, "Dad, did you make mistakes again?"
Sincerely and seriously self-reflected, today he is very well-behaved, neither demolished the things in the house, nor did he have a whim, and he did not cause trouble at all......! I didn't listen to my mother's words just now and relied on my grandfather's lap for a while, shouldn't it?
So, it must have been my father who made my mother angry, right? He was very experienced like my father and said, "If you do something wrong, you have to admit it! As long as you take the initiative to admit your mistakes, your mother is very good and will forgive you!"
Although her mother is very fierce, she is the best mother in the world! She can cook a lot of delicious food, and she will also tell many beautiful stories to herself with a gentle voice. She also has the most fragrant embrace, as long as she is in her mother's arms, she is the happiest baby in the world!
In addition, my mother is the most beautiful mother in the world! This is still a "secret" that Chengcheng discovered after he went to kindergarten. The mothers of the classmates are not as beautiful as their own mothers, and they all envy themselves to death! So although sometimes my mother will get angry, my father is right, they must have done something wrong, as long as they have the courage to admit their mistakes, my mother will soon forgive them!
Zhou Pinzheng smiled bitterly, this is not as simple as doing something wrong! He said to his son very cooperatively, "Yes! Mom may be very angry, what if she loses her temper in the past? Otherwise, we will get up quietly in the middle of the night and apologize when Mom falls asleep, okay?"
Chengcheng thought of his mother's volcanic eruption, and couldn't help but tremble, and nodded like a chicken pecking rice, "Okay, okay, then let's wait until my mother falls asleep and then apologize secretly!"