Chapter 358: The Grave
Shen Jingyuan raised the corners of his mouth happily when he heard this, "I said that you are suitable." Just because you don't want to hurt me, I know I'm not looking for the wrong person. ”
Yan Shunhua's expression paused slightly, and his voice suddenly spread slowly like a coolness in the air.
"Shen Jingyuan, I'm different from most of the girls here, you know. Even if you become a parent, even if you have a child, even if your mind is still the same as it was at the beginning, even if I still have a place in your heart, as long as there is an irreparable rift between me and ****, so big that I feel that it is not suitable to live together, then I will choose to leave.
I know that you, in your daily life, are actually a bit clean. And I'm the same, but it's more about spiritual communication. My vision for the other half is probably like this-
He can not be handsome and handsome, but he must be physically fit and above average;
He can have no power, but he can't be without the ability to resist and completely defuse or even counterattack the suppression from the power;
He may not have too much money, but he must be a valuable man, able to have enough knowledge or skills, to be self-sufficient at all times, and to support his parents, wife and children.
Whether it is before or after marriage, he doesn't need to be centered on me all the time, he doesn't need to be ready to solve all my problems for me anytime and anywhere, and he doesn't need to be perfect to be omnipotent like a god.
I wish I could be financially **, but that doesn't mean I'm stupid enough to think I don't need the other half of the money. When I use it, no matter whose money it is, as long as it is from the family, I will not have any pressure to spend it.
But making money is a pleasure for me. This kind of fun has long been ingrained in my old life. I enjoy it, and I'm not prepared to abandon it completely because of the difference in time and space.
I have a habit of being alone, so I need my own privacy. Whether it's reading or drawing, whether it's in a daze or going out to see the silent beauty. I can and would love to do it on my own.
Of course, this does not mean that I will be stuck in this kind of self all the time. If I get married, I will also try to manage a good life together, hoping that we can maintain a close and balanced relationship.
This last point in particular needs to be raised. Spiritually, I will have higher requirements for my spouse, or cleanliness.
I can't stand other women intervening between you and me, whether it's physical ** or mental hesitation. As soon as there is such a tangled entanglement, I will see it as a betrayal.
Your conditions, for me today, are actually too much exceeded, although I don't think I am worthy of you, but, in many ways objectively, the two of us are actually not compatible, this is the truth.
And, even if you want to. In the end, the family affair becomes a foregone conclusion, and there will still be huge differences between you and me. Although it is said that because of the common relationship between the five senses, we have spent a lot more time together than most men and women in this world.
But you must know that the real day and night get along is not like us.
Seriously, the world I used to live in was much easier and more convenient than connecting with each other because we shared all five senses. It doesn't matter if it's traffic or video. In terms of time and space, the conditions are much better than here, and men and women in love have a better time to communicate than us. There is only one way to do it.
But even with such favorable conditions, many loves wither directly after flowering, but very few bear fruit.
May there be ** families in the world, this is always a good wish.
Even if it does, when you actually live together, the beauty can easily disappear because of the disappearance of distance.
No matter how deep and sweet the relationship was in the past. Because people are different, there will always be bumps and bumps, and many problems cannot be solved if you want to. Those small entanglements that cannot be resolved will one day become a big problem or even a big disaster over time, which will directly make the physically and mentally tired people lose a piece of the joy of life, and even maintain a peaceful and peaceful marriage relationship. ”
Once it develops to that point, whether the man and the woman want it or not, they can only watch life tear off the disguise and reveal the bloody true face, and then continue to live together for whatever reason, or finally break up, each other may be hysterical, or insensitive, and finally physically and mentally exhausted.
Not only had she heard of such things, but she had also watched such a married life herself, and she couldn't help but have no doubts in her heart. With a soft sigh, she lowered her eyes slightly, hiding the gloom inside.
Shen Jingyuan was thoughtful, but this time he was silent for a long time.
"I know, I know. We've talked about it many times in the past, and we've always argued or stopped over where you and I come from. This is a problem that we have no way to solve today, and it may not be possible to solve it perfectly until the end of life. My insecurity and your regrets, these two feelings, there is no possibility of avoiding them in this life.
But Yan Shunhua, we can't stop going on a long journey just because we know that there are thorns in front of us. You love to see the thousands of scenery in this world, and I am not such a coward who does not have the courage and responsibility, and even if I do not have the ability to travel through time and space, I can answer most of the questions for you here.
You say that I am above the level of your mate selection, but in fact you really dislike me like that, no, or rather, not for me, but for the trouble I represent.
You are not a person who tends to be inflammatory, so naturally you don't envy the power that can turn your hands into clouds and rain with your hands, even if you marry me, you can get these things at your fingertips. You are not one of those people who can't get out of the eyes of money, and naturally you will not be insatiable for money, even if you don't hate the smell of copper, you still have the ability to be self-sufficient and even make a lot of money.
You don't yearn for power, you don't want fame or fortune. Although you are emotionally looking forward to a single-minded person, intellectually you do not force the white head to be separated. ”
He sighed in his heart, no wonder she was entangled in this, even if it was him, it was difficult to calm down after knowing her origin.
Until now, the thought that she might suddenly disappear, no matter how much they agreed to stay with each other, be loyal to each other, or be separated for unforeseen reasons, made him feel uneasy, and it is not an exaggeration to say that he was uneasy.
Their living backgrounds are really too different, and the middle is as insurmountable as a moat, even if they already have a tacit understanding, it is by no means something that can be completely ignored through hard work.
Especially, even if it wasn't for the uncontrollable reasons, she was used to leaving herself a way out. If it's not suitable, break up, this must be from the heart.
And his temperament will never let go. If that day really comes, he will go crazy, what if the jade is burned?
He didn't want to hurt her after all.
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