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Xie Jinghong studied very seriously, and in the past two days, when she was cooking big dishes, she had been learning from the side, and if she didn't understand, she asked more questions, and asked very carefully.

To make braised pork, she gets started quickly.

But when it comes to making this small snack, Xie Jinghong's reaction is a little slow.

It's not that hard to make cookies, but you have to work hard to knead the dough. Accompanied by condiments, add some brown sugar to color and be nutritious, if you want to eat fruity, you can also make your own juice to knead in.

Because she didn't know what the living standard and real environment were in the county, Yan Jinshu taught her eldest sister how to make biscuits and carefully taught her how to do business.

At this time, unlike their later generations, the business has been in contact since childhood, and if you see more, you will have instinct, and if you think about it, you will understand how to do business.

But not now, doing business is something that only bold people do! Businessmen who dare to drink the first soup will not talk about business gossip everywhere.

If Xie Jinghong hadn't heard about how her mother made money in business, she wouldn't have thought of this idea.

Or Yan Jinshu asked her rhetorically: If she really wants to stand up but step children, her husband can't stop the misfortune and really divorce, she has no skills, no source of income, what are she going to use to raise her three sons?

Raising a son is not the same as raising a daughter.

But if the daughter wants to get married, it is relatively easy. However, the son was going to 'marry' home.

If the male protagonist's family has no house, no house, and no gift money, who wants to marry in?

The most important thing is, is she going to make her three sons illiterate? Without money, she can't even go to school at the most basic level!

Before that, you have to feed them first!

These questions were asked one after another in Xie Jinghong's heart, which made her eyes red in an instant, and then she was speechless to refute Yan Jinshu's heart-piercing questions one after another, but studied seriously and humbly.

She doesn't know about the Fan family now, after she returned to her parents' house, a lot of things happened, she only knew that if she couldn't stand up by herself, she might as well accept her fate and let Xiaoxian go out!

Otherwise, she blindly only cares about the small ones, but lets the two big ones suffer together, how can she bear it?!

Thinking of this, Xie Jinghong pursed her mouth, and she didn't want to give in to death, Zhou Xiuhua saw the big girl like this, not to mention how sad she felt in her heart.

However, Yan Jinshu's words still sound correct.

A woman who can't have a place in her husband's family and can't protect herself and her children will really be pitiful and pathetic.

Xie Jinghong never wanted to be a woman who was pitied by others, she wanted to stand up!

After that, in fact, there is no need for Yan Jinshu to bother to solve the eldest sister's heart disease, she can figure it out by herself, as the so-called one know-how, all know-how!

As a woman, she doesn't understand many things, but she just doesn't want to accept the position of 'she is so incompetent'.

Yan Jinshu can understand, because back then, her grandmother was such a woman.

Her mother always mentioned her grandmother's many mistakes, and then taught her that if she really encountered this kind of thing, how to deal with it was the right one - let her understand since she was a child that a woman must cherish herself first, her husband will cherish herself, and her husband's family will value herself.

If you even look down on yourself, let others make things difficult, and let others rub them, what else do you have to blame others for despising you?

Learn to love yourself first, and then learn to love others.

Marriage is not just a 'compromise' that can be perfected.

A man will only ask for his wife and wronged his wife, and if he achieves superficial harmony in the family, then this man has no responsibility at all.

Xie Jinghong and Zhou Xiuhua also heard Yan Jinshu discuss the real human nature so deeply to dissect 'marriage' - her thoughts made them resonate in their hearts.

made the three women get along more harmoniously and friendly, and Zhou Xiuhua did not reject such thoughts because she was Yan Jinshu's mother-in-law, but was more understanding and sympathetic.

She herself came from a young daughter-in-law, and more than 30 years ago, being a daughter-in-law was much harsher than now.

Therefore, Zhou Xiuhua understands better that as a daughter-in-law, she really has to stand up by herself, so that her husband's family does not dare to be cheap to herself!

This kind of thing, only after you have experienced it, will you really understand!

Zhou Xiuhua sighed deeply, with a shrewd and righteous woman like Yan Jinshu by San'er's side, she can really rest assured about the future of San'er's family.

Over the past year, she is really most satisfied with Xiao Nizi, her daughter-in-law.

Yan Jinshu has been filial to her in-laws since she entered the Xie family, and she can say that she can help all the relatives of the Xie family, and she is definitely a helper, no matter whether she has benefited or suffered, she will look at things in the righteousness first.

Even at the beginning, she was so angry that she fell ill by Wang Xiaocui's bad things, and she was such a daughter-in-law, who dared to stand up for three months of pregnancy and take the train to the provincial capital to visit her!

She gave birth to four sons and two daughters, and the first to come to her was only Xiao Nizi, the daughter-in-law!

Of course, like the old man, she is grateful to Fan Jiefang, the eldest son-in-law.

That is, because Fan Jiefang handled that matter very properly, so, at this time, when the Fan family had a 'pass' incident, Xie Tiesheng and Zhou Xiuhua could still stand, thinking that Fan Jiefang was a good son-in-law, and people were not really stupid, and they would definitely not give up their wives and children easily!

Over the years, although Fan Jiefang has wronged his wife and children, he has not been better in his heart, especially once, Fan Jiefang drank with his father-in-law, and finally knelt in front of him and cried and pleaded guilt-

Men don't flick when they have tears, Daddy Xie used to have an eccentric old lady who had the best experience of this kind of thing, so he had a little revolutionary friendship with Fan Jiefang, the eldest son-in-law.

In addition, Fan Jiefang couldn't handle his mother, but he was filial to their parents-in-law, so that the old couple gradually let go of their prejudices against the Fan family.

It's just that the succession is really not a child's play, once the succession is passed, you must break off the grace and continue to raise the grace!

And her own eldest girl asserted her position. For this alone, it is impossible for Fan Jiefang to nod his head at will and let his youngest son really go out.

Besides, the younger brother of Fan Jiefang's family is not really without a child, at least his daughter is biological!

At this point, no matter who comes to be a lobbyist, Xie Tiesheng and his wife have made up their minds and will not support him to 'pass on'!

Now it's not the old society, you must have a daughter to continue the ancestral business!

Even in the Republic of China, there were still female households!

After the real liberation of the country, the status of women has suddenly been raised to a place of equality, and legally, having children and daughters also has the right to inherit. [At this point, I don't know much about the time when the law is in force, if it's wrong, please correct]

Xie Tiesheng and Zhou Xiuhua had just made up their minds, and the Fan family on the other side.

Li Xiaochun looked at the empty living room, and his heart was even more unhappy.

The eldest granddaughter is sick, and she is responsible for cooking and taking care of the younger son's family, meticulous and considerate.

But after the eldest granddaughter got better, the youngest son went back to the house with his wife and daughter, and he didn't think about it at all, leaving her alone as an old woman at home, and whether she would feel uncomfortable!

After the ugly affair of the youngest son was exposed, the youngest son went to be a grandson to entertain his mother-in-law's family!

Thinking that she had offended her eldest son's family miserably, and hearing that her eldest daughter-in-law had returned to her parents' house because of the succession, Li Xiaochun was a little restless-