read_content_up();

Si Lu "Ke Siluke" info update the fastest, no pop-ups!

Seeing that the students who applied for the job listened so attentively, Mr. Yang said: "The style of this kind of language art is characterized by subtle emotions and not exposed, plain and simple words and sentences, and does not use many decorative techniques, but just calmly and honestly narrates the facts, explains the scenery, and analyzes the facts. ”

After Mr. Yang talked about the characteristics of the style, he then began to explain the matriarchal society: the Mosuo people are a branch of the Naxi people. In the matrilineal clan society of the Mosuo people, the matrilineal line is the master of the family and society, and the family property is inherited by the woman, "the child knows his mother, but not his father." People don't get married, they don't care about husbands and wives, they just "friends" or "cohabitants." There is no word for "love" in their language, so there is no such thing as "lover". These visiting "Ah Zhu" were men, and although they were engaged in building houses, farming, taking care of children, and taking care of household chores like the women, they were only in a subordinate position in the home. They are members of the family, but they usually do not live in the house. No matter where a man or woman meets, as long as both parties agree, they can become "Ah Zhu". After finishing the day's work during the day, he would spend the night at Ah Zhu's house, and in the dead of night, the man would go to the woman's house, knock on the door or throw a pebble on the roof of the woman's house in a pre-arranged way. When the woman heard this, she quietly opened the door and led the man to her house. The next day, before dawn, he had to leave quietly. Early in the morning, if you wake up early, you can see the men hurrying back to their homes in the mountains or lanes of the Mosuo Village Race. It's the way to go on short-term appointments. There is no need to be so sneaky for a long time. When going to the house of the long-term woman Ah Zhu, the man can calmly and narrowly go to the main room of her house to chat with her brother and uncle. At night, when the brothers and uncles of the female Ah Zhu gradually left home to find their own Ah Zhu, they went to the kitchen of the female Ah Zhu to sleep together. For a long time, Ah Zhu has the habit of exchanging gifts, and some men help their female Ah Zhu family to engage in production labor, and some have a better relationship with Ah Zhu for a long time. Finally, it can be developed into the establishment of marriage and family. Young men who did not have a note for a while, they went in groups of twos or in groups or alone, and went to the homes of women who had not yet gone out or had not yet gone out, and when they came across speculation, they stayed there that night. When the man couldn't find him, he went to the stables or cattle pens of other people's houses to stay there. Because the daughter and sister or niece of his own family came to spend the night, he did not live at home and had to avoid it.

When Mosuo boys and girls reach the age of 13, they hold the "Coming-of-Age Day" on the morning of the first day of the first lunar month every year. On "Coming-of-Age Day", girls wear skirts, boys wear trousers, skirts are held on the right side of the fire pit, and trousers are held on the left, and young men and women traditionally step on pig fat and a bag of grain, and wear new skirts or trousers with the help of specially selected adults. This ritual signifies that the child has grown up. Can participate in social activities; Pig fat and grain mean that she or he will not have to worry about food and clothing in the future life. For those of you here, the heavenly theory is that guests or family members should give them gifts and blessings, and they will also go around looking for the elderly to kowtow in order to live a long life.

The establishment of 阿注關xì is very simple, that is, there is "a good old sight", there are also friends who help each other or mothers who find a note or a matchmaker for their daughter, and the dissolution of a note guan xì is also very simple, as long as either man or woman is unwilling to yì. You can cut off the off. The woman may refuse by not opening the door or not seeing the man when he visits, while the man only needs not to visit the woman's house. Causes of the rupture of the off-kì. This is usually due to a note from both parties or one of the parties.

There is no limit to the amount of Azhu that the Mosuo people have in their lifetime, as few as two or three, and as many as seventy or eighty. The long-term note is relatively few, and the most is the short-term note, which refers to the note that does not serve the master for a long time, generally not more than one year. The short ones are even only a day or two. There are so many anotes for each man and woman, and the children born to them recognize only their mothers and not their fathers. In this case, it is natural that there will be half-brothers and sisters because of the matter of Ah Zhu. Everyone said that this kind of thing was inevitable and allowed by tradition. It makes sense. Today, such examples are hard to find. As for the uncle and niece as Ah Zhu, and the brother and sister of the same mother as Ah Zhu, this more primitive marriage is considered inappropriate, but it still exists in real life, and this kind of behavior is criticized behind the scenes, but it is not publicly and severely condemned.

Today, with the development of society, the life of the Mosuo people has undergone tremendous changes, the former Azhu marriage is gradually being replaced by the legal marriage of husband and wife, and the patrilineal family has become the main family form, but it should also be seen that the influence of the influence of the customary forces is still very great, and the thorough reform of the backward marriage of the Mosuo people is still a long-term and arduous work. (This explanation is excerpted from the "Matriarchal Society Tour Guide Introduction shào" by the National Excellent Tour Guide - Author's Note)

Mr. Yang's explanation won the warm applause of the trainees, and after the applause, Mr. Yang said: "This explanation is about the marriage customs of the Mosuo people, from beginning to end there are no adjectives to decorate, not even rhetorical techniques such as metaphors, the language is very calm, the words and sentences are also very real, not in a hurry, eloquently, just like describing a white painting without color, so that people do not feel boring, because it can satisfy the curiosity and desire of tourists. So the impression is also vivid and profound. “

Throughout the afternoon, time passed quickly. When Mr. Yang finished teaching, there was a long applause.

After Mr. Yang left the training room, the trainees who applied for training were also leaving the training room one after another, at this time, Minister Lei came to the training room, she saw Tian Limai and asked: "Tian Limai, have you filled out your form?" Fill it out, give it to me early. Tian Limai agreed: "I want it!"

Minister Lei called Wang Dagang, Feng Chengwei and Yang Cuo away, and when the three left, they all glanced at Tian Limai.

Tian Limai ignored their eyes. However, the eyes of the three people were directly looked at by Zheng Yun.

When he arrived in the dormitory, Zheng Yunzhi asked worriedly, "Brother Mai, did you report the matter of Wang Dagang, Feng Chengwei, and Yang Cuo?"

"yes, what's wrong?" Tian Limai looked at Zheng Yunzhi.

"Mai Di, I'm worried that in this way, the three of them will blame you and find you trouble?" Zheng Yunzhi looked a little worried.

"Brother Zheng, you should understand. I handled this matter like this for their good, because the three of them have no consequences now, maybe the scenic spot is just persuading and educating them, and will not do anything to them, Brother Zheng. You should be able to see that Wang Dagang will definitely find someone to take revenge on Feng Chengwei and Yang Cuo, if it comes to that time, not only will the scenic spot not let them apply, but they may also be invited to the police station. Feng Chengwei and Yang Cuo should thank me even more, if Wang Dagang called someone to come, the two of them would suffer a big loss!" Tian Limai explained.

"Brother Mai, I've also thought about it, this matter can only be handled like this. Maybe Feng Chengwei and Yang Cuo blame you for not talking about the morality of the rivers and lakes, but this kind of morality of the rivers and lakes can't be taught!" Zheng Yunzhi said.

"Brother Zheng, if Wang Dagang, Feng Chengwei, and Yang Cuo are still reasonable, especially Feng Chengwei and Yang Cuo, they should really thank me!" Tian Limai said.

When it was time for dinner, Wang Dagang, Feng Chengwei, and Yang Gang had not returned, and Tian Limai and Wang Dagang came to the cafeteria. didn't see Wang Dagang, Feng Chengwei, and Yang Gang, Tian Limai's heart was reluctant to have a trace of worry.

Tian Limai glanced at the line of "simple buffet" on the side of the administrative cafeteria. Minister Ray was found standing in the line. In this way, Tian Limai's heart is even more worried, Minister Lei is here, and what about Wang Dagang, Feng Chengwei, and Yang Cuo?

The girl named Wang Yin'e and her "Sister Zhu" sat at the same table with Tian Limai and Zheng Yunzhi. Wang Yin'e glanced at Tian Limai and said, "Tian Limai." How do you arrange it after dinner?"

"There is no special arrangement, it may just go to the scenic spot and walk around!" Tian Limai was a little absent-minded.

Seeing that Tian Limai was absent-minded, Wang Yin'e said: "Tian Limai, you have nothing to do, right?!" It's like I'm thinking of something else!"

"No, it's just that there are three brothers in our dormitory who haven't come to eat yet. How can they solve it when they wait for dinner? I'm thinking about this!" Tian Limai said.

While eating and talking, when Tian Limai was about to leave with Zheng Yunzhi after eating, Wu Xiaojun came here after eating their "simple buffet", Wu Xiaojun said to Tian Limai: "Go, go to me and sit!"

Tian Limai had no choice but to say to Zheng Yunzhi and Wang Yin'e and her "Sister Zhu" who were with him: "I'm sorry, you guys go for a walk, Secretary Wu has something to do with me, so I can't accompany me!"

Tian Limai could have said nothing, but with Wang Yin'e and her "Sister Zhu", Tian Limai had to say hello.

Tian Limai followed Wu Xiaojun to Wu Xiaojun's office, Wu Xiaojun said with a smile: "Brother Tian Limai, I'm sorry to disturb your good things, and the matter of accompanying the beauty for a walk is in the soup again!"

"Secretary Wu, I'm still duckweed on the water, how can I have the leisure to accompany the beauties? Secretary Wu, don't be kidding!" Tian Limai said.

"'The Huns have not been destroyed, what is the family', Brother Tian Limai, my favorite is the person with ambition, there is no pursuit in that life, the person who does nothing, I don't want to be friends with it!" Wu Xiaojun poured a glass of boiled water for Tian Limai as he spoke.

Tian Limai took Wu Xiaojun's water, and after listening to Wu Xiaojun's words, there was a faint pain in his heart: I, Tian Limai, am not a person without ideals and aspirations, I was originally a person who vowed to be admitted to a key high school and then to university, but now I choose to put qì, there is really no way to do it, it is arranged by God!

Wu Xiaojun saw that Tian Limai was stunned and didn't speak, so he said again: "Brother Tian Limai, as soon as I saw you, I felt that you were a person with great ambitions, I don't know if my feelings are wrong?"

Tian Limai's heart was shocked again: What lofty ambitions do I still talk about now? I didn't even go to high school or college, so what ambitions will people with low education accomplish? Nowadays, the most realistic thing for me is to apply for a scenic commentator, and use a little money to slowly pay off the medical expenses owed by my sister Tian Liyu in hospitalization, and then hòu save some money for my father and mother to provide for the elderly, so that my sister Tian Liyu can live a better life!

Tian Limai's reaction made Wu Xiaojun look at it, he was a little puzzled by Tian Limai's reaction, he didn't know what kind of person this handsome young man who came to apply for the job? Although he did feel that Tian Limai was good at first glance, it was a feeling after all.

"Secretary Wu, I'm ——, I——, I'm just here to apply for a scenic spot docent, and I don't have any pursuits and ideals!" Tian Limai's voice was a little bitter.

Wu Xiaojun looked at Tian Limai suspiciously, and said: "People's ideals and pursuits, it depends on how we look at it, for example, if you come to apply for a scenic spot commentator, this should be your first pursuit, of course, I never believe that after you come to apply for a scenic spot commentator, you will be willing to be a scenic spot commentator for the rest of your life, you will go to the silver medal, gold medal commentator, but hòu you will have a better idea, this is your ideal, if the ideal of people leaves the reality, to blindly go far, that is not an ideal, it is a fantasy, It's a castle in the air, just like a person who only has a primary school education shouts every day that he wants to be a physicist, it's a fool's dream. ”

Tian Limai looked at Wu Xiaojun, he didn't want to touch the nerve in his heart, he had no choice but to take the step of "letting go of his studies" today!

Tian Limai looked at Wu Xiaojun, and said clearly in his eyes: Secretary Wu, you shouldn't let me listen to this, right?

Wu Xiaojun seemed to understand Tian Limai's eyes, smiled and said: "Brother Tian Limai, it's far away, it's far away, it's like this, Minister Lei asked me to talk to you, she said that you seem to have some concerns, fill in the low academic qualifications, after she brought it up, do you still put the academic qualifications lower?" What's going on? “

Listening to Wu Xiaojun's words, Tian Limai smiled faintly, and there seemed to be a trace of bitterness in that smile.

"Secretary Wu, my academic qualifications are that academic qualifications, how can I lower my academic qualifications?" Tian Limai said.

"Brother Tian Limai, our President Wu also suspects that your academic qualifications have been deliberately depressed by you!" Wu Xiaojun said again.

In fact, people's academic qualifications can not be judged only by a certain aspect, when Tian Limai participated in the Quanzhou Middle School Student Essay Contest, he also specially conducted on-site composition training, it can be said that writing for Tian Limai, it is indeed possible to reach the level of a college student, perhaps in the field of composition, it really surpassed some college students.

"Secretary Wu, I really can't explain it, I'm just this education, please don't doubt my honesty!" Tian Limai said. (To be continued.) )

Thinking "Road" Ke Siluke ~ info update the fastest, no pop-ups!