Chapter 53: The Godson
As soon as Gao Yongfang and Wang Xiumei left, Zheng Xianghong asked Gao Jiazhi, "Jiazhi, what do you think of Teacher Wang?"
"What does Mom think?" asked Gao Jiazhi. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info
Zheng Xianghong shook his head, "How do I know, the key is what you think, if you like it, your mother will follow you, if you don't like it, don't pay attention to your third sister in the future, my mother is so heartbroken to see her like that now, and good people have become like this in a few years after they have been in the city." ”
"I don't know. Gao Jiazhi also shook his head, "Anyway, if my mother likes it, I will think about it, the main thing is that the Gu family can be filial to my mother." Gao Jiazhi doesn't know what kind of wife he is looking for, but at least he has to find a good-tempered and filial one.
Her mother has a good personality, and she has been bullied by her grandmother for so many years, and Gao Jiazhi is unwilling to find a powerful and noisy daughter-in-law, and bully her mother when the time comes.
Zheng Xianghong glared, "Look at what you said, it's not your mother and I who marry a daughter-in-law, this daughter-in-law has to live with you for the rest of her life, and you have to choose it yourself, otherwise your mother just likes it, you don't like it, or what is the point of barely living a life." ”
"Mom, I'm still young, what's the hurry. Gao Jiazhi shook his head.
"You are young, you are going to be twenty, now you have to think about your daughter-in-law, otherwise your good daughter-in-law will be picked away. "The girls in the village are all married early, Zheng Xianghong hopes that his son can find a good daughter-in-law to live a good life.
"You can look at the girls in the production team, but forget about the young people, the girls in the city can't stay in the countryside. Zheng Xianghong is not optimistic about the daughter-in-law of the educated youth, these girls in the city are not bad, but the countryside is not as good as the city, where can the girls in the city stay here.
If they have the opportunity to return to the city in the future, who knows what they will choose when the time comes, in case they leave their sons and grandsons to return to the city, these are all things that Zheng Xianghong is not happy to see.
"Educated youth, why can't it. Gao Jiaxing responded.
"yes. Gao Jiazhi also responded, if there is no comparison of these female educated youths, the girls in the village will naturally be good, but these young people are compared, and the girls in the village are not enough.
First, the village generally values sons over daughters, and basically rarely spends money to send their daughters to study, so the girls in the village are very few educated, and their temperament is not as good as the girls in the city, but compared with the girls in the city, the girls in the village are simple and down-to-earth.
Zheng Xianghong said: "What is it like in the city, what is it like in the countryside, not to mention anything else, look at Xia Xiao's dormitory, Wang Zhiqing and Yang Zhiqing are from the capital, Xia Xiao and Sun Zhiqing are from S City, which is the most prosperous city in the country except for the capital, as well as Feng Zhiqing and Dong Zhiqing, they are all from big cities, if they have the opportunity to return to the city in the future, how can they stay." ”
Gao Jiazhi and Gao Jiaxing were silent, and Gao Jiaxing said for a while: "Maybe the national policy will change, and by that time the educated youth can return to the city, and we can't stay in the village for the rest of our lives." ”
Gao Jiazhi also nodded, the brothers are both ambitious people, they both want to get ahead, and they are unwilling to farm in the village all their lives.
"Who knows what will happen in the future, Mom only looks at the present. Zheng Xianghong said this, and when he saw that his two sons were silent, he said again: "Alas, I don't care about you anyway, after all, you marry a wife and live with you for a lifetime, and your mother won't stop you, if you really want to find educated youth, your mother won't stop you, but you just treat people well, don't run away when the time comes, see what you do?"
"I haven't seen how good Dad is to you, and you're not dead set on talking to Dad. Gao Jiazhi said.
Zheng Xianghong said: "Look at the men in the village, your father is very good to me." ”
"A man must be kind to his wife, so that she will be willing to have a relationship with him. Zheng Xianghong said again.
Gao Jiaxing pouted, "The cousin of the Red Army treats Li Shengmei badly, but when the ancestors have been offering for so many years, look at what Li Shengmei has become, and he doesn't do any work at home, so he almost doesn't deliver the food to his mouth, looking like the eldest in the production team and the second in the ground." ”
"It's just that I didn't see that as soon as the cousin of the Red Army cleaned up, Li Shengmei was honest, and some women just didn't clean up. "Gao Jiazhi Road.
Zheng Xianghong was stunned and said: "Your cousin of the Red Army was not easy back then, he joined the army and fought in the war, and he made merit on the battlefield with his ability, and became an officer, but he was injured and ruined his face, and the girl who was married ruined his marriage. Li Shengmei was a flower in the village back then, like your cousin, many women were unwilling to marry him, Li Shengmei was willing to marry, and gave birth to three sons for your cousin, so she was naturally offered. ”
"Mom asked you to treat your wives well and fulfill your responsibilities as a husband, not to let you provide for your wives in the future, husband and wife will have to live for a lifetime in the future, not livestock, even if it is livestock, you have to love it, otherwise you will be injured and die, and you will lose yourself. And your wife is a human being, the mother of your children, and she will accompany you for a lifetime. Compare your heart to your heart, if you are good to her, she can be good to you. But there is a limit to being a man, and being a husband must also have a pole in his heart, knowing that he can't do it.
If you spoil your wife, that's your business. Teaching children in front of people, teaching wives behind their backs, and the wife is not good, that is because you have not taught it well. But you can't beat and scold at will, this is not right, some women are cowardly and will accept their fate, but some women may not. Especially the women in the city, they have grown up in the city since they were young, and they have received education in the city, and if the men beat and scolded, they will not be able to keep them one day. And whether it is a country girl or a city girl, the wife can't beat and scold at will, otherwise if there is a better head, how can they stay, how can they still live with you in a down-to-earth manner. ”
Zheng Xianghong said a long sentence, and sighed earnestly, "Mom doesn't read much and doesn't have much culture, but she has lived for most of her life, and she still knows the truth of being a man." ”
Gao Jiazhi and Gao Jiaxing nodded, looking teachable.
"Mom, don't worry, I will marry a good daughter-in-law and be filial to you. "Gao Jiazhi Road.
Zheng Xianghong smiled slightly, "It doesn't matter if I'm filial or not, as long as it's good to you." ”
Speaking of this, Zheng Xianghong looked at Gao Jiazhi uncomfortably and said: "Jiazhi, my mother knows that you have had a good relationship with Yongfang since you were a child, but Yongfang's unreasonable request that you don't have to pay attention to her, her life is her choice, and she can't blame others for her good or bad life." ”
Zheng Xianghong is not optimistic about this family business, but Gao Jiazhi and Gao Yongfang have a good relationship, Zheng Xianghong is afraid that Gao Yongfang will ask Gao Jiazhi here, and Gao Jiazhi will agree if he is soft-hearted.
"Mom, don't worry, I don't like that Teacher Wang. "Gao Jiazhi Road.
Zheng Xianghong said: "People are still good, but they are divorced, and they are still a few years older than you." ”
Gao Jiazhi shook his head, "Teacher Wang looks shrewd and calculating, and he thinks a lot, I don't like it." ”