When Yang Xiaobei arrived at the hospital, Yi Huifen had just eaten eight boiled eggs in sugar water, and her mother took out the stewed chicken soup for her to eat a little, "I said that I would go home tomorrow, stew an elbow at home, and crucian carp soup is good for milk!" ”。 Okay, this bowl after bowl is not enough, and it is inconvenient for her to show her skills in the hospital.

Yi Huifen felt that she was already very full, but she didn't have a lot of milk just now, so she ate a big bowl of chicken with meat and soup according to her mother's instructions, and she hiccuped until she was full. The room was full of people, and she was sweating again, and she looked red, like she had just given birth and suffered a sin.

Grandma Yi happily cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks and said, "Okay, good! That's how you want to eat! ”。 When a woman gives birth to a child, it is a blessing to be able to eat, those who are not happy, and those who are sick and can't eat, how do you know that only after eating well can the body recover well, and the baby's milk is enough, is this the time to do it? Not sensible at all!

The reason why she said this was actually because her second daughter-in-law was angry. Come to visit the patient with a straight face, who do you show it to? Her old woman is not weak-hearted, when the two daughters-in-law were confined, they were all treated equally and carefully, what happened? The eldest daughter-in-law can eat and sleep, and the two boys don't look too strong. What about the second daughter-in-law? I don't eat this, I don't love that, I'm very picky, but my little granddaughter doesn't have any milk, and I'm so hungry.

At that time, everyone was poor, so she looked for help everywhere, found a jar of malt milk essence, and added the finest rice cereal she had ground to the child to eat, so that the child was raised. The child has suffered a lot of crimes, not to mention, and is still a yellow-haired girl, what do you call it?

From this incident on, my grandmother didn't want to see her second daughter-in-law. It's good-looking, and the brain can calculate, but it doesn't have to be on the right path at all. Is this the time to stay in shape and gain pity? Just like Fenzi, eat hard! In addition, she later took over her mother as a demon, and her grandmother was completely cold-hearted, and she ignored it except for the matter of face.

But people are so strange, before her grandmother was kind to her with all her heart and lungs, and when she raised her little granddaughter by hand, the second aunt didn't think it, but now her mother-in-law doesn't pay attention to her, and she is psychologically unbalanced. I feel that adults are biased, and there is only the eldest daughter-in-law and the eldest daughter-in-law in my eyes. Look at! Who didn't have a baby at home? The Yang family also said that there was a powerful doctor, but they still went to the big hospital in the city to give birth, so she Yi Huifen was expensive?

Therefore, in the eyes of narrow-minded people, there is never fairness at all. The second aunt has been strong all her life, even if the second uncle obeyed her before, the family conditions were the best, but the second uncle died early, and the only daughter refused to get married. Compared with her, her parents have been miserable all her life, but the two live in harmony and beauty, and the happiness is self-evident.

Yang Qitai helped Yi Huifen wipe her sweat distressedly, and took out the clothes she brought with her and planned to wipe her body later, but she was so busy that she couldn't take care of eating. Yang Xiaobei took the towel in his hand and said, "Brother, I'll come, you go to dinner first, it's so late now." ”

Of course, Yang Qitai was relieved to have her, so he stood up and said, "Mom! Sister-in-law, you haven't eaten yet, have you? I will ask Xiao Zhou to help bring it to the guest house to eat a little, and I will have it! After all, the food provided by the hospital is limited, and he has to take care of his wife and children to make do, and he can't neglect the guests.

"What to waste that money for! We'll go back later, we have food at home, will we be hungry? Grandma complained, "Now that they are all people with children, they can't feed the whole family like before, and there will be more places to use money in the future!" Jane saves money and lives well! ”

The old man who came from the famine years was most unaccustomed to waste. In my grandmother's opinion, going to a restaurant is a luxury, so why spend that money on a good job? didn't treat Yang Qitai as an outsider, and his grandmother, who lived the most budget-conscious life, began to preach.

Yang Qitai said again and again that his mother-in-law was a person who had come over, and what she said was all about experience, and it was also for their good, of course he listened to it. Since he was a child, he didn't have his mother's care and love, and his father was a hot-tempered and gloomy character, and there was really no one to teach him these things so much, he thought, if his mother was still there, he would also educate him like this, right? How happy she would be to see her grandson!

Yang Qitai, who had never had the impression of a mother in his mind, suddenly remembered her. Yi Huifen sensitively noticed her husband's emotional changes, took his hand and said to her mother, "Mom! People also want to entertain you well, and you have said so much, don't you bother! ”

Grandma remembered that this was her son-in-law, not her own son, and she felt a little embarrassed, and said, "I'm just saying, you have protected it, and sure enough, the daughter who got married spilled the water!" As soon as the words were spoken, everyone burst into laughter.

At this time, the second uncle also came in with a large bag. He remembered that his mother-in-law had a bad appetite after giving birth, and the child was very sinful. He used to have no money, and he couldn't buy good things if he had money, and he felt very distressed when he looked at his hungry daughters, but he didn't have the ability to help them. Now, he sent his mother and them to the hospital, turned around and went to the city, and bought a lot of nutrition and food that he could buy.

The second aunt's veil tightened. But she finally knew the balance and didn't quarrel on this occasion. But her face was really ugly, and the eldest aunt thought about it and found an excuse to drag her out together. No one else paid attention to this episode, and Yi Huifen was disgusted, "Second brother, why did you bring so much again?" Xiao Zhou filled the cabinet with all the things, where can I eat so much! ”

"It's okay! If you can't eat slowly, you can always eat it all in a year! The second uncle waved his hand generously, now that he has money, will he still let his sister be wronged? Xiao Zhou took his heart, this is the care of his mother's family, it's different!

Everyone greeted each other for a while, and the grandmother and the others reluctantly went home. Yi Huifen was born smoothly and is in good condition, and she will be discharged from the hospital and go home tomorrow after one day of observation. Grandma, they will only come over next time when they send rice, and the mother-in-law's family is not empty, and the mother's family will be talked to by others in the past. Therefore, no matter how sorry the mother's family feels for their daughter, they can't mess with the rules, otherwise the reputation of the mother-in-law's family is not good, and the daughter-in-law will be harshly criticized before the mother's family comes to the door.

Of course, this custom disappeared later. After all of them became only children, even marriage was not so distinct, and many traditional rules could not be talked about. Therefore, family planning affects not only the composition of social personnel, but also many customs and traditions, which have been fatally affected. So much so that after the ideas that have been circulating for thousands of years have been subverted, it has brought about a lack of faith.

Moderation, integrity, contract, integrity...... It's all gone. People often ask, what's wrong with this society? The endless strange things in the news make people wonder, aren't we a country of etiquette that has been passed down for thousands of years? Why is this happening? In addition to the impact of rapid economic development, the biggest problem is actually the lack of tradition and faith, people are confused, indulgent, and what they have lost can never be recovered.