Ding Wei looked at the ceiling quietly, without saying a word.

The memories that have been sealed for a long time just now are vivid, and even the scene and mood at that time are still fresh in my memory.

Memories are painful, especially when recalling the unbearable past!

Two lines of tears slowly slid down the corners of her eyes again, and the tears were already soaked on the sofa.

"How do you feel, do you remember everything?" Lin Yuan said softly.

"Hmmm......"

Ding Wei turned her face sideways, her beautiful eyes soaked with tears, looked at him, and answered in a choked tone.

Lin Yuan picked up a box of tissues, handed it to her with a gentle smile, and motioned for her to wipe her tears.

"Thank you!"

She pulled a tissue and wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes.

"You're welcome!"

In fact, this is what causes you to be afraid of entering a certain stage of intimacy with your boyfriend, afraid of getting too close to them and being swallowed up by their feelings. ”

Lin Yuan looked at her with affirmative eyes, and his tone was full of undoubtedness.

Ding Wei raised her eyes and glanced at him, without saying anything, just pursed her lips and smiled at him and nodded.

Lin Yuan's words were reasonable, and what she said to him did not mean anything different, and there was no need to refute it at all.

Except for approval or approval.

Her beautiful eyes looked at the ceiling again, and she looked at it quietly, adjusting her own state of mind.

Silence once again permeated the office.

Lin Yuan sat aside and didn't bother her, waiting patiently.

"Expert Lin, why don't I remember these memories before? If you hadn't hypnotized me, I wouldn't have remembered these things at all. Ding Wei pursed her lips and smiled bitterly.

Truly!

Childhood memories, as if they had never been archived in her mind, didn't even have vague memory fragments.

As for her parents' quarrel and how she felt, she couldn't be traced at all, as if nothing had ever happened.

And under Lin Yuan's hypnosis just now, the missing memories were clearly visible, as if they had just happened, re-enacting in front of her.

"It's not that you don't remember, it's that you choose to forget, you seal these memories in the depths of your mind, never touch them, and over time, this memory is erased by you. ”

"Because, these memories, you don't remember them, these memories make you feel miserable, and our bodily mechanisms are protecting us all the time, even in our conscious and subconscious realms. ”

"When these memories are too painful for us to remember, they will be suppressed by us, suppressed into our subconscious, so that we will not be able to remember them. ”

However, just because we can't remember it doesn't mean it doesn't exist, it's still there, influencing us through our actions. ”

That's why every relationship doesn't last more than half a year, and you're afraid of getting married, you're afraid of getting married, you're even resisting. ”

Lin Yuan slowly said word by word, and explained to her clearly.

"Expert Lin, you really hit the nail on the head! I feel that this is really the case, the reason why I don't want to have further development with my boyfriend is because I am afraid of marrying him, I am afraid of marriage, and my subconscious will make me choose to escape. Ding Wei's slightly pursed lips hooked up a smile.

It turned out that everything was due to an unfortunate childhood encounter.

Now she finally knows what the reason is, and hopefully everything is still in time.

"Your parents' marriage makes you feel pain and fear, so you don't want such a marriage, and you don't want your own children to be hurt like this in the future, which is understandable. ”

"Marriage is like a pair of shoes, only you know if it's suitable or not. ”

"If you refuse to wear shoes for fear of injury, you may have avoided blisters from wearing them because they didn't fit, but it's also possible that you've stepped on a nail because you walked barefoot. ”

At that point, you may realize that marriage is also a protection for love. ”

"A happy married life is the best way to treat "marital phobia". ”

The corners of Lin Yuan's lips pursed slightly, hiding his smile in a small arc.

"Expert Lin, what you said is indeed very reasonable, after meeting my current boyfriend, I really love him, and my heart is actually very eager to enter into marriage with my boyfriend, but when he put the marriage on the agenda, I was afraid to back down......"

"I know you're longing to be with your current boyfriend for a long time. The corners of Lin Yuan's mouth twitched, revealing a gentle arc, and his tone was soft.

"You know?"

Ding Wei's beautiful eyes couldn't help but reveal a hint of surprise.

She wondered how Lin Yuan knew, but she had never mentioned it to anyone, including her current boyfriend, and she remembered that after entering the office, she never revealed a word about this idea to Lin Yuan.

"The fact that you came to me for consultation is enough to illustrate this point. ”

"Then Expert Lin, what should I do?" Ding Wei sat up gracefully and looked at him with help.

"If you are worried that you are not suitable for your future life, before discussing marriage, you should often go to the other person's house to sit down and get to know his family, or talk to him more about his family, and directly or indirectly understand the living habits of future family members, etc., this process is also a process of psychological adaptation. ”

"When you have doubts and fears about the durability of your marriage, you should keep an open mind and communicate with the other person more often to dispel such doubts in your heart, remember, communicate more, and tell the other person what you feel in your heart. ”

Lin Yuan smiled slightly.

"Expert Lin, do you mean that I should ask my boyfriend out for a good talk......? Will he not want to see me?" Ding Wei's beautiful eyes lowered, and she was worried.

"No, it won't. Lin Yuan smiled confidently.

She frowned slightly, wondering why he was so sure.

"Then I'll try. Ding Wei showed a shallow smile, then picked up her handbag from the side of the sofa, and said with a smile: "Expert Lin, how much is the consultation fee for this time? I will give you the money, I really thank you this time." ”

"You're welcome!"

"You don't have to pay the consultation fee. Lin Yuan smiled slightly.

"What do you mean by that? It's the first time I've heard that you don't have to pay a consultation fee for a consultation. ”

Surprised, full of surprise.

"Because someone has already paid. He spread his hands.

Ding Wei shook her head and said she didn't understand.

"Your boyfriend has already looked for me in the morning, he came to me for you, and wants me to help him get you back, and the consultation fee just now is included in the plan, so you don't have to pay the consulting fee separately. He told the truth.

"He came to you for me?"

This moment!

Ding Wei felt warm in her heart, and there was an inexplicable touch.

"Yes!"

He said it in the utmost affirmative.

"Then how do you know it's me?" Ding Wei said in surprise.

"It's my job to find out what you're doing. Lin Yuan smiled slightly.

"Can I understand that you investigated me?"

"Yes. ”

"Okay, thank you, Expert Lin, then I'll go first. ”

Ding Wei thanked him, picked up her handbag, and walked to the door of the office.