Chapter 37: What Spell Fell into (Ask for Collection)
"Understand, understand. ”
When the love is strong, this is normal, Lin Yuan expressed his understanding.
But Lin Yuan knew very well that Ding Wei deliberately indifferent to the other party because she refused to get close to her boyfriend.
These are all childhood experiences, which have caused trauma and fear in her psyche.
And she can come to him for consultation today, which is enough to show that her heart is eager to be with her boyfriend Zheng Chenhao for a long time.
In fact, her heart has always longed, longed to repair the wounds in her heart, but she didn't realize it herself.
What Lin Yuan has to do is to strengthen this resource in the process of this consultation, enhance her motivation to change, and then let her become conscious of what is in her subconscious through free association, so that the old pattern will slowly change.
"But ......"
"Every time they want to be closer to me, I am very repulsed, and even have some disgust......"
Ding Wei didn't know why she felt this way, which was what she had been bothered by.
She is always looking for someone who can save her.
Maybe Lin Yuan is the one who can save her, she pins this hope on Lin Yuan.
"In other words, at this time, you ......" Lin Yuan's slender finger pointed at her, and said in an undoubted tone: "You have begun to change, becoming cold to them, even rejecting them, not wanting them to touch you, and even wanting to get out of this relationship as soon as possible." ”
"Well......" Ding Wei nodded, and said in a calm tone: "It's not just cold rejection, I don't want to be close to them, I don't want to be close to them, you are right, I don't want them to touch me, and I really want to get out of this relationship as soon as possible, so, my previous relationship will not last more than half a year, you say, did I fall under some spell?"
She teased herself, and her originally slightly frowning eyebrows were relaxed.
It seems that her wariness of Lin Yuan has been completely lowered.
"Miss Ding is going to be joking, and that's a good start. The corners of Lin Yuan's mouth twitched, revealing a gentle smile.
An imperceptible smile appeared at the corner of Ding Wei's lips, like a ripple on her face, quickly crossing her face.
"Miss Ding, listening to your explanation just now, I can feel that you are afraid, you are afraid of entering a certain stage of intimacy with your boyfriend, do you think that when you get too close to them, their relationship is ......" Lin Yuan's eyes looked at her.
Ding Wei felt as if he had seen through her, and the eyes that looked at him couldn't help but feel a little worried.
But she was even more curious about what Lin Yuan would say, and her eyes immediately showed curiosity.
"Their feelings will consume you. Lin Yuan said it clearly word by word, his eyes were full of doubt.
Ding Wei's beautiful eyes widened like copper bells all of a sudden.
Surprise had already crawled all over her pretty face.
These words spoke completely to her heart.
"You...... How do you know?" Ding Wei looked at him as if he had seen a ghost, and her voice was obviously a little vibrato.
This feeling of being devoured, as if in this relationship, you yourself no longer exist, you are afraid of being devoured by the other party, so you will be cold to the other party, and even reject the other party, so each of your relationships will not last long. Lin Yuan did not explain, but continued to finish speaking.
"Yes, you're right! Not at all!" Ding Wei smiled instead.
Lin Yuan's words, she couldn't refute them, because every sentence was reasonable.
"Expert Lin, then why do I feel this way?" Ding Wei looked at him with a helping gaze.
She desperately needed an answer, one that would get her out of this predicament once and for all.
"I think you should get a good night's sleep, and the answer will be clear. Lin Yuan smiled slightly.
"Expert Lin, what do you mean to hypnotize me?"
Sure enough, he is a smart person, and he can understand it at one point!
But she still had some resistance in her heart.
Lin Yuan nodded.
He was indeed planning to hypnotize her as a way to awaken her long-lost memories.
With such awesome information in hand, why spend time and effort on hypnosis?
There is no way, according to Ding Wei's information, this childhood past was selectively forgotten by her.
If Lin Yuan said it so bluntly, there would definitely be something about her childhood, it would definitely seem very abrupt, and it would be difficult to convince her, this was her childhood, and all her current behaviors were caused by childhood trauma.
It's painful to remember, but I'm sorry he had to.
Of course!
He also saw that Ding Wei was resistant to hypnosis.
But Ding Wei has no problem doing hypnosis at all, she is a person who can reach the depth of the fifth stage of hypnosis, which is well prepared.
So there's nothing to worry about, and he's a professional, even more so.
"Miss Ding, if you really want to get out of the predicament completely, please believe me, I will definitely do my best to help you. Lin Yuan said sincerely.
"Okay! I accept your opinion. Ding Wei pursed her lips.
"Miss Ding, you can just lean on the sofa as you do now, and I'll take care of the rest. ”
Ding Wei nodded elegantly, but she could still see that she was nervous.
Her white hands fiddled with the corners of her skirt uneasily, trying to hide the tension in her heart.
"Miss Ding, relax...... You're too nervous right now. ”
"Now relax your body and adjust your body to the position that you feel most comfortable with. ”
Lin Yuan guided step by step.
When Ding Wei heard this, she adjusted her posture and felt that it was still not ideal, so she immediately adjusted her posture again.
Moments later!
She showed a gentle smile: "Expert Lin, I'm okay, you can start." ”
"It's good, that's it, keep the body in the most comfortable position. ”
"From now on, close your eyes gently, and as soon as you compare them, you will begin to relax. ”
Ding Wei followed his request and gently closed her big beautiful eyes.
"Very good...... Lin Yuan then waved his hands softly,
"Pay attention to your feelings, let your mind be like a scanner, slowly, scan it from head to toe, and wherever your mind scans, relax there. ”
"Now on, you find that your heart becomes very calm, as if you have entered another wonderful world, far away from the world, you will only hear my voice, and other external noises will not disturb you, and even if you hear sudden noise, you will not only not be disturbed, but will enter a deeper and more comfortable hypnotic state. ”
"Now, pay attention to your breathing, you have to take a deep, deep breath, take a deep breath regularly, slowly breathe in the air, and slowly exhale the air out......"
"Keep taking deep breaths, and every time you breathe, you'll feel more relaxed and comfortable......"
"I'm starting to pour dozens of ...... now"
Lin Yuan used a steady, deep tone to speak calmly.
As he spoke, he observed that the expression on Ding Wei's face became very serene, his breathing became relatively slight, and his arms, wrists, and fingers were very relaxed.
Under Lin Yuan's guidance, Ding Wei has entered a hypnotic state.