"Teacher Jiang. ”

Jiang Yue was frightened, suddenly raised her head and saw that it was Su Cheng, and after being stunned for two seconds, she immediately lowered her head and wiped her tears.

"Teacher Jiang, you don't have to deliberately hold back. Su Cheng hurriedly said, "I understand that the teacher doesn't want to show embarrassment in front of the students, but I just want the teacher to hide nothing from me now, and I can also speak more transparently." I overheard the teacher's family affairs today, I should have sneaked away and buried it in my heart, this is the respect for the teacher, but there are really a few words in my heart that don't vomit and don't feel unhappy, I'm afraid that I will suffocate to death, so I hope Teacher Jiang won't be angry with me. ”

Jiang Yue looked at Su Cheng, still instinctively controlling her emotions.

Su Cheng glanced at Jiang Yue and continued to speak, "In the teacher's heart, students are like their own children, so they always feel that students are naïve and should be protected and educated by themselves. But I have to admit that people's hearts are related to the environment, some people carry a family at the age of twelve or thirteen, and are well versed in the vicissitudes of the world, and some people are still like a child at the age of forty, and they don't know how to say well, but the teacher took me for a year, and must have an understanding of my character and family, I am not a reckless person. ”

Jiang Yue looked at Su Cheng and thought in her heart.

I don't know your character...

I don't know...

You confessed to Xiao Xuening that day, it was quite reckless...

Well, fortunately, Jiang Yue didn't say these words, Su Cheng still felt good about himself, "Let's get down to business, I heard what the teacher said just now, I think the teacher should understand a truth first, men are possessive, this is nature." Just as a male lion does not allow creatures to invade his territory, so for a man, his own woman is also untouchable.

Another point is that men understand men, and men know that men are lustful, so there is such a saying, when a man looks at his girlfriend, he always feels that men all over the world want to rape her. If a woman wants to have a good relationship, she must first understand this psychology of men. ”

"You mean I should understand him and accept his request for me?" Jiang Yue struggled for a moment and then spoke, although it felt strange to talk to the students about this topic.

"No, no, no, I just hope you're mentally prepared, and if you're with me, I'll take care of you. ”

"What did you say?"

"Oh, I mean, of course I, as an outsider, have to analyze your problem more objectively, without any partiality. Men do have possessiveness, but when people's desires increase, there must always be a degree to everything. The so-called degree, on the one hand, is self-knowledge, and the other is respect. ”

Jiang Yue tilted his head and motioned for Su Cheng to continue.

"Self-knowledge means whether you have the ability to ask for what you want, for example, if you have a monthly salary of 1,000 yuan, but you want to eat a big meal of 200 yuan a day, can you afford to eat? Similarly, if you are a man who wants a woman to serve you to heaven at home, then you are qualified? If you are an ancient imperial relative, you can indeed have three wives and four concubines, but the question is you?

Respect, on the other hand, complements self-knowledge. Because people have self-knowledge, they will still have desires, but if you can't control or balance your desires at this time, it is disrespectful.

Just like a man, he is not willing to give anything, but he asks his wife to serve him like an ancient concubine serving the emperor, which is disrespectful to his wife. And a person who does not know how to respect is not worthy of respect by others. ”

Jiang Yue lowered her head thoughtfully.

"Teacher Jiang, there is a sentence that is actually very cruel, but it is very realistic. Most of the love in this world is the same, living with similar people, living a similar life, that kind of singing and crying love is a dream after all, so it will be praised by the world.

This is almost the degree, this is like the pH of the human blood, the PH value cannot be a definite value, as long as it is within a certain range, it is normal and healthy, but beyond this range there is a problem.

When two people are together, there is no absolute fairness, there is always one party who pays more, but as long as it is within a degree, it is not a big problem for the two to run in more, but if one party sacrifices too much, then the broken relationship is obviously pathological. ”

Jiang Yue continued to be silent.

"Mr. Jiang, let me take the liberty of asking, deep down in your heart, do you feel that you are old. ”

Jiang Yue raised her head and looked at Su Cheng fiercely, her eyes full of surprise.

"Do you think it's good for a 30-year-old woman in a small county town to have someone to ask for? Is it the displeasure of your parents and the condemnation of your relatives that make you unwilling to disobey them? Do you see that your friends around you are all parents, and your heart is panicking. ”

"Is there something wrong with this kind of thinking?" Jiang Yue regretted a little as soon as she opened her mouth, she didn't know how she really discussed this topic with this student.

"Teacher, life is like drinking water, and you know your own warmth and coldness. Everyone likes to judge people from their own standpoint, and if you are not married at the age of 30, those relatives will talk about you. But when you get married, when your relationship is bad in the future, will they stand up and say a word for you? Of course not.

They only speak and never think to be responsible for what they say. As for parents, because marriage is a major event in their children's lives, of course they will worry about it, but they urge it because they are afraid that you will have no one to take care of you in the future, not for you to find someone to be wronged.

And about your thirty years old, like I said before, most love is about the same. It's really not difficult to find a similar gentleman, because people in this world are almost the same. The key is whether you will run love yourself. I believe that teachers must have a big problem, that is, because of the inferiority of age, it is always habitually regressive. In fact, it is simple and simple to say between people, it is nothing more than that if you take a step back, others will take a step forward. The more you retreat, the more others will enter. Sometimes other people's gains come from your step-by-step concessions. ”

Jiang Yue looked at Su Cheng, and her eyes began to change.

"Teacher Jiang, what kind of girls do you think men like?"

"Young and pretty?"

"Wrong, it's pretty. As long as you look good, there will be people chasing you at the age of 2,000. Thirty is a ball. ”

"That's not going to be a king. ”

"Yo, the teacher knows it's a joke. ”

Jiang Yue was stunned for a moment, then smiled.

"Actually, you understand a lot of what I said, but no one has pulled you on the side, but they are pushing you into the water, right? Okay, I've said enough today, I believe the teacher will figure it out, in fact, in life, the most important thing is to be happy, it's dinner time, or don't go to my house, I'll give you something to eat." ”

"Below?"

"Yes, below. ”