The embolus came back, Qiao Lan was very happy, pulled her son to ask long and short questions, and the embolus answered one by one patiently, and also helped Qiao Lan find very valuable medicinal materials.

"Where have you been and brought back the medicinal herbs?" Qiao Lan was quite surprised.

"Didn't I say that I went to the northwest, I followed my second uncle to the northeast, I was a guard for them, and I earned some pocket money, just when I had good things, I spent money to stay first, and brought them back to take care of your body, and I also need some medicinal materials as a dowry." "The plugs are all taken into account.

"Good boy, you are becoming more and more sensible, and my mother can rely on you in the future. Qiaolan is very happy, her son is like a man, he took the initiative to take care of everything in the family and began to think seriously, to take responsibility without being told by others, this feeling is a qualitative change.

The bolt was praised by his mother, grinning, and at this moment he looked like a child again.

"It's time to find a personal choice for the plug. Chuanhu turned his head and asked Qiaolan.

"Well, I'm thinking about this, but the bolt has no reputation, and it's not easy to find the right one, but it's really dangerous to go to the battlefield, and I'm still thinking about it. ”

"Mother, I'll talk about it when I come back from the northwest, what's the hurry, how stupid am I, I'll die if I go." The bolt couldn't cry or laugh, and felt that his father's worry was so strange.

"Are we worried about you? ”

"What is there to worry about, I have been with the Chief Soldier in the Northwest for a few months, and I have encountered several skirmishes, and the Chief Soldier has let me participate. The bolt smirked.

"Then are you adapting?" Qiaolan didn't ask anything else, as long as the child was happy.

"It was ok, it was a little uncomfortable at first, but soon it was fine. In fact, thanks to the early adaptation in the farm, so that I had a long period of acceptance of the process, this time to the northwest to adapt quickly, mainly very tired, fall asleep, father, you go back to help his son to make up for one or two, this time I am really grateful to the general soldier, I was not very comfortable in those days, the adults were afraid that I would collapse and arranged a lot of tasks for me, tired to the extreme, I couldn't think of anything, but adapted quickly, I am very grateful to the adults. The bolt told his father about it very seriously.

Chuanhu patted his son's shoulder with a look of relief, "Good boy, don't worry about this, I know what he wants, don't worry, leave it to me." ”

"Hmm. ”

"Plug, have you eaten, my mother will get you something delicious, what do you want to eat?"

"Not yet, I'm a little hungry, I want to eat fried noodles, I want to eat steamed fish. The bolt took his mother's hand and was coquettish, just like when he was a child.

"Okay, I'll get it for you. When Qiao Lan heard that her son was hungry, she immediately became anxious.

"Mother is not in a hurry, why didn't my brother come?"

"Oh, it's too small, his physical condition is not as strong as when you were young, your grandfather Zhang doesn't agree with me taking him to the road, you are not the same as ordinary children, Brother Yu is not as powerful as you, just an ordinary child, I am still a little worried, I just happened to be learning martial arts to lay a foundation, so I didn't bring it." Qiao Lan explained with a smile.

Back then, I dared to run around with the plug, because the bolt was as strong as a cow, so it was fine, and the size was not sick, but Brother Yu couldn't, the body was really a little stronger than an ordinary child, and Grandpa Zhang didn't agree to take the child, so Qiaolan didn't dare to take the risk.

"Oh, it's a pity that I can't see Brother Yu, I miss him and brought him a gift. ”

"It doesn't matter, my mother put it away for him, and I gave it to him when I went back. Qiao Lan said with a smile.

"Mother, I'll go with you to cook for my brother. Baa Baa felt sorry for my brother when he came back, and took the initiative to ask to cook a meal for my brother.

"Okay, you come and I'll teach you to make faces, you can show your hand when you learn to do it, and now you're married, I see that Zixuan is a good child, not so frivolous and understands the rules, you have to learn more about the kitchen." Qiao Lan pulled her daughter and chattered as she walked.

"Okay, I'll listen to my mother. "Baa pursed his lips and smiled, very dependent on his obedient mother.

Qiao Lan taught her how to use duck eggs and noodles, and the noodles made would be strong and delicious, and also told her how to run a home and where to focus on it.

"Don't rush to grab it after the housekeeper enters the door, just learn it behind your mother-in-law, as long as this thing can use people, there is no need to put all your energy into it if you are frank, it is too stupid." Remember not to reach out for oil and water when you are a housekeeper, you don't take money that doesn't belong to you, it's enough for you to hold your head up in the mansion, and your mother will give you enough makeup money and shop property, you don't need to rely on anyone to make money by any means.

You have to discuss everything with your husband, such as the housekeeper's business, you can get a sample for your husband first, so that it is simple and straightforward, and it can also show your ability, don't show a bunch of messy things to your husband and mother-in-law, no one will have the patience to get it for you, prove that you can't do it. If you discuss it with your husband and mother-in-law in advance, your mother-in-law will be happy, and mutual respect is the long-term way. Don't decide things on your own lightly, discuss with your husband first, discuss with each other to build mutual trust, you have to have the courage to express your emotions, but you must also restrain your emotions and not be willful, do you know what I mean?"

Qiao Lan said a lot, and there were many obscure things.

"I understand my mother, I don't have those virtues, I will never give my husband to someone else, unless he doesn't have me in his heart. Baa looked at Qiao Lan's smile with pleasure.

"Well, the housekeeper director must learn to use people, otherwise you will bow to the family, then you are an errand boy, you are still tired, you should let go decisively, don't be nostalgic. "Qiao Lan doesn't have that much control over the housekeeper director at all.

"I know, don't worry. I know that the family is the first, and it is serious to manage my feelings first, and the housekeeper director is mine sooner or later, and he is the eldest son who is my housekeeper sooner or later, and it will not be wrong, so what I have to do is to get his heart in advance, and it is serious to have a good relationship with my mother-in-law, and I am not short of money and do not need to rush to the housekeeper director. Baa Baa can distinguish between priorities and priorities, these old ladies and Mrs. Li are imperceptibly teaching her bit by bit.

"Well, if you know it in your heart, I'll rest assured, I guess he may have a room, don't worry too much, everyone has two of them in such a family. But they still respect their wives. And don't deliberately humiliate the room, but make people sympathize with the weak. If you don't make trouble in the room, you don't need to pay attention to it at all, remember that you are a wife and she is a concubine, your status is naturally unequal, you fight with people who are weaker than you, you will lose your own people, what you should contact is the sister-in-law, and the lady outside, this is the reciprocal relationship. Qiaolan also hopes that her daughter will not be jealous of having sex with her because she has a room, which is not right, and the meaning of lowering her style.

"I remembered. He said he didn't have intercourse. Baa lowered her head and smiled embarrassedly.

"There is no best, don't be deliberately hypocritical with you, the newlywed Yan'er grasps his heart, and makes him fall in love with you without you, isn't it more stylish than tearing up with the concubine. Qiao Lan pointed out her daughter without any emotion.