Chapter 321: Turning the Face
When I was in my hometown, there were my parents, and my grandfather helped take care of the children, and in the county, there were Zhou Pinzheng and Aunt Zhou, who had nothing to do at home, all of them were rushing to take care of the baby.
Chengcheng has been healthy since he was a child, and he has almost never been sick, except for the occasional little cold, which is very good to feed, and basically no one has to worry about it. But when I arrived at Puhai, no one took the child and didn't say anything, and the child was always sick.
Maybe it's because of the water and soil, either a cold, diarrhea, or thrush, and it hasn't stopped for a few days. The day before yesterday, my mother-in-law specially cooked the braised pork that he liked to eat...... As a result, I had diarrhea!
Yang Xiaobei couldn't cry or laugh, this can't be blamed on the mother-in-law, the braised pork itself is a thick oil red sauce, relatively greasy, the baby loves to eat and doesn't know moderation, and the stomach can't stand it if he eats too much in one breath, and he begins to have diarrhea at night. It happened that Zhou Pinzheng was not at home again, and Yang Xiaobei carried the child to the hospital alone in the middle of the night, tossing enough.
The next day, the mother-in-law knew what was going on, and she didn't blame her, so she began to blame herself, "It's all my fault, oh, I should have watched the point and not let the child eat so much, poor Laixi, I didn't eat a good ...... in the field"
Yang Xiaobei...... Mother-in-law always has the ability to say good things that are particularly unpleasant, how can I call it that I haven't eaten well in other places? All of them are all natural, pollution-free, and pure wild good things, okay? It's just that soy sauce is never used in cooking in my hometown, and I don't use as much oil when cooking, and the main thing is the difference in taste and completely different cooking techniques.
I can't tell the old man, the child's stomach is delicate, and he is not used to dishes with thick oil and red sauce, and he eats too much and slips the intestines, it's that simple. It's not a big problem, but the child suffers a lot of sin, and anyone who has had a stomach knows that it's not comfortable.
Only one night later, Chengcheng changed from a lively tiger to a little Yan'er chicken, and his grandmother was so distressed that he couldn't stop calling his baby. It's just that it's not good and can only eat light, the more unhappy it becomes, and it's rare to start a little temper and shed a few tears.
Yang Xiaobei, who has always been a "strict mother", had to coax the child for the first time, and took another day off to let Chengcheng rest at home for a day, which made him feel better and went to school today. The child is sick and painful, but the parents are hard, distressed, and tired. The mother-in-law can not have any other use except to add to the chaos, the night before yesterday I stayed up all night, the next day the child was a little better and just wanted to take a nap, but found that the mother-in-law wanted to give the child pig's feet soup......
Yang Xiaobei is tired! Obviously she has eaten too greasy and diarrhea, and she also gave the child such a thick broth, she looked at the milky white soup with oil stars and had a stomachache, but her mother-in-law also said vigorously, "Didn't the doctor say that you should eat light, I specially made a soup for the baby to make up for him!"
Alas, it doesn't make sense, and she won't listen to your reasoning, and in the end, her face came down, and her mother-in-law unhappily packed up the soup and left. That's it, I don't know what I want to sue my son later, and I have to complain to the neighbors that my daughter-in-law is finally revealed......
Different regions, there is a huge age difference, resulting in a world of difference in parenting concepts between them. The partial-born mother-in-law is a hard-headed mother-in-law, and Yang Xiaobei can't convince her at all. Just as the son couldn't convince her to accept her daughter-in-law at that time, once the mother-in-law recognized something, no one could shake her mind - it was said that the father-in-law who had never met could suppress him, but unfortunately this only person was long gone, and there was no one in the world who could control the mother-in-law.
It's embarrassing. If Zhou Pinzheng is in the situation, if there is a conflict, Yang Xiaobei will be very smart to let her husband out. He couldn't convince the old lady, but he could order her to do what she said - it would be enough to deal with such a brainless old woman. But once Zhou Pinzheng is not there, when the main contradiction cannot be reconciled, it can only be ...... If you say turn your face, you turn your face.
"Boom" left her mother-in-law, she was angry and didn't come over today, it seems that she won't see anyone for a few days, Yang Xiaobei is exhausted when she thinks about it. It's such an unreliable elder, what can she do? She is also desperate!
But apart from the mother-in-law, there is no second person to help take care of the children. Don't think about it, although the assets in the family can now live the life of a little nanny, but Yang Xiaobei and Zhou Pinzheng are the same, they are still promoted to the small people in their bones, they have not learned how to become an upper-class person elegantly, and they are not used to strangers intervening in their lives.
Not to mention so many terrifying "nanny incidents" in later generations, what "toxic nanny", "nanny arson case", etc., are simply creepy. Yang Xiaobei felt that there was nothing housework that he couldn't do at home, and he didn't have to ask a nanny to help take care of the children, so he didn't think about it at all.
Then there is no other option. is unwilling to hire someone, her mother-in-law is unreliable, and the child is always in trouble, according to the current situation, Yang Xiaobei can only be a full-time wife at home honestly. In fact, her dedication is not so strong, especially when her family is rich and there is no pressure, who doesn't want to live a good life?
The problem Yang Xiaobei is facing now is not that he can't go out to work, but that he has no motivation to go to work. I used to work hard to prove that I didn't come back in vain. It's also to help more people, which will make her feel very fulfilling. And in this strange city, yes, a completely foreign place, she couldn't think of what she was going to do.
In my last life, although I stayed in Puhai for more than ten years, I was just working at that time, working for the sake of work, what ideals, and the future ...... Like many outsiders who work hard in this international metropolis, they may have had it at the beginning, and they thought of achieving a goal and worked hard to achieve it. But after a long time, you will find that your dreams will never be out of reach, and we will only struggle with repetitive and numb work.
What did you think about at that time? Rent, utilities, living expenses, telephone, transportation...... In addition to these, I also have to buy clothes and shoes, go out for dinner, and occasionally a few people make an appointment to go out for a walk, and I don't dare to go far away, just in Jiangsu and Zhejiang...... In this way, every month's salary will be calculated and spent, and by the way, a part of the emergency will be set aside to go back to my hometown and give it to my parents......
Busy, year after year, no savings, no love, wearing clothes on Taobao, eating take-out lunches, I don't know what I am insisting on, and what I am insisting on...... Until I crashed back to my hometown decades ago.
At that time, she swore in her heart that this time she must make up for the regrets of her previous life, and also make her parents happy and her family healthy. She has been working hard for this all along, and so far, the results are very obvious.
And the biggest gain is not those, it is the most important person in her life - Zhou Pinzheng, and her own baby Chengcheng, they are the greatest reward given to her by God, and the most beautiful encounter she has when she comes back to this time and space.