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"Jin Yu, you can't say that, what kind of blessing is shallow? Some things are earned by ourselves. Jiang Jinping said.

Jin Yu shook his head again, "Alas......" sighed and said, "Jiang Jinping, some things can be obtained through one's own efforts, and some things cannot be fought for. A long time ago, that is, a few years ago, a pure, innocent little girl fell in love with her boss, and her boss was surrounded by a group of beautiful women, and what was even worse was that the boss already had a heart, the little girl could only look at her boss silently, and could not even say a word of confession, not even a day alone, the little girl decided to bury her love deep in her heart, watch the spring flowers bloom and fall, listen to the autumn rain and autumn wind, and sigh the snowflakes in winter.......

However, the more the little girl suppressed this feeling, the stronger this feeling became in her heart, like a seed sown in spring. The flowers in her heart are about to bloom, and the little girl is desperate to try it, however, the boss accepts the love of brother and sister, and never mentions the love of the little girl, and puts it on the shelf......

The little girl was extremely sad, however, the little girl had no choice, after a period of pain, the little girl finally understood, she could not disturb the happiness of her loved ones, she decided to leave her boss far away, she went to the leader of the company, the leader of the company quietly transferred the little girl to another place, however, after arriving at a distance, the little girl found that she was wrong, her thoughts were even stronger, she was thinking about the boss all the time, the little girl came back with an excuse, returned to the place where she used to work, she had a meal with her boss, she tried to confess, and was separated by her boss for an excuse……

The little girl was a little disappointed, but she got the promise of a daily WeChat chat with her boss, and after that, they chatted for a while, and the little girl found that her boss didn't take her to heart at all, maybe the boss was very busy, and indeed he was busy, and the boss often forgot to chat with the little girl on WeChat.

The little girl's thoughts are even greater, she can't control herself, she wants to see her boss every day......

When Jin Yu said this, Jiang Jinping smiled lightly and said, "Jin Yu, that's why you're here!"

"Ahh said: "Jiang Jinping, the little girl has begun to calm down now, as long as the little girl can look at him, it is enough, the little girl decided not to disturb him in the future, he is happy, the little girl will be happy." ”

Jiang Jinping may have guessed who the boss and the little girl were that Jin Yu said, but she didn't say it, Jiang Jinping said: "Jin Yu, the little girl's feelings are sincere and beautiful, the little girl's final decision is a noble sentiment, to be honest, if I were the little girl, I don't know if I can make the final decision like the little girl." ”

"Jiang Jinping, to make such a decision, it really takes strong perseverance, but then again, such a decision is the most beautiful. Jin Yu said.

Jiang Jinping said: "Jin Yu, for the sake of the noble sentiment of the little girl, I have a proposal, I don't know if you agree with it or not?"

"Jiang Jinping, I think, the little girl doesn't have any noble sentiments, I have no choice, who doesn't want to be with the person she loves. Alas, forget it, Jiang Jinping, let's not talk about that little girl, if you have any proposals, you can say it!" Jin Yu said.

"Jin Yu, it's auspicious, I want to have a friendship with you? Jiang Jinping said.

"Jiang Jinping, in the past, what did the boys do, what kind of friendship did we do?" Jin Yu said.

"Jin Yu, what do we do, don't be able to do it, we girls can do it. Jiang Jinping said.

Jin Yu smiled and said, "Jiang Jinping, do you know which eight friends these eight worships are?"

"Jin Yu, do you want to test me, then I will tell you carefully, the friendship of the eight worships refers to the 'friendship of Guan Zhong and Uncle Bao', the 'friendship of Bo Ya', the 'friendship of the neck' of Lian Po Xiang, the 'friendship of the neck' of Chen Chonglei Yi, the 'friendship of the chicken' of Yuan Bo Juqing, the 'friendship of sacrificing his life' of Jiao Ai Botao, the 'friendship of life and death' of Liu Bei, Zhang Fei and Guan Yu, and the 'friendship of forgetting the year' of Kong Rong and You Heng. Jiang Jinping said.

Jin Yu listened to Jiang Jinping's introduction, laughed again and said, "Jiang Jinping, it seems that you know so much about the ancient friendship of the Eight Worships, are you prepared?"

"Jin Yu, forget it, who is ready for this? I think it was a whim to bow to you. Jiang Jinping said.

"Jiang Jinping, you are so familiar with these eight worships, can you tell me more about it?" Jin Yu said with a smile.

Jiang Jin said without hesitation: "Jin Yu, okay, I'll tell you about them one by one." Let's talk about the 'bosom friend' between Guan Bao first. Guan Zhong and Uncle Bao's 'Guan Bao Friendship' comes from Sima Qian's "Historical Records: Guan Zhong's Biography": "The parents who gave birth to me, and Bao Zi, who knows me."

"Qi has a pair of very good friends, one is called Guan Zhong, and the other is called Bao Shuya. When he was young, Guan Zhong's family was very poor, and he had to support his mother, so Uncle Bao knew about it, so he asked Guan Zhong to invest in business together.

"When doing business, because Guan Zhong had no money, almost all of the capital was invested by Uncle Bao, but when he made money, Guan Zhong took more than Uncle Bao, and Uncle Bao's servant saw it and said: 'This Guan Zhong is really strange, he takes less capital than our master, but when he divides the money, he takes more than our master!' But Bao Shuya said to the servant: 'You can't say that! Guan Zhong's family is poor, and he has to support his mother, so it doesn't matter if he takes a little more. ’

"Once, Guan Zhong and Uncle Bao went to fight together, and every time they attacked, Guan Zhong hid in the rear, and everyone scolded Guan Zhong and said, 'Guan Zhong is a person who is greedy for life and afraid of death!' Uncle Bao immediately spoke for Guan Zhong: 'You misunderstand Guan Zhong, he is not afraid of death, he has to keep his life to take care of his old mother!' After Guan Zhong heard this, he said: 'It was my parents who gave birth to me, and the person who understood me was Uncle Bao!'

Later, the king of Qi died, the eldest prince Zhu became the king, Zhu ate and drank every day and did not do anything, Bao Shuya had a premonition that there would be civil strife in Qi State, so he fled to Ju with the little prince Xiaobai, and Guan Zhong fled to Lu with another little prince.

"Soon after, the eldest prince Zhu was killed, there was really a civil strife in the Qi country, Guan Zhong wanted to kill Xiaobai, so that Jie could become the king smoothly, but unfortunately Guan Zhong shot the arrow when he was plotting against Xiaobai, Xiaobai did not die, and later, Bao Shuya and Xiaobai returned to Qi earlier than Guan Zhong and Jiao, and Xiaobai became the king of Qi.

"After Xiaobai became the king, he decided to appoint Uncle Bao as the prime minister, but Uncle Bao said to Xiao Bai: 'Guan Zhong is better than me in all aspects, and he should be invited to be the prime minister!' When Xiao Bai heard this: 'Guan Zhong wants to kill me, he is my enemy, and you actually asked me to invite him to be the prime minister!'" Uncle Bao said: 'You can't blame him, he did it to help his master rectify it!'

Xiaobai listened to Uncle Bao's words and asked Guan Zhong to come back as the prime minister, and Guan Zhong really helped Xiaobai govern the Qi country very well. Later generations, when people praised friends for having a good friendship, they would say that they were 'friends of Guan Bao'. ”

Jiang Jinping finished talking about "Guan Bao's Friendship" and asked Jin Yu: "How is it? Jin Yu, I'm not mistaken, right?"

"Jiang Jinping, you are not wrong at all, your memory is really good. Jin Yu said.

"Well, that's good, I'll continue to talk about Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi's 'bosom friend'. The story of 'Bosom Friends' comes from "Liezi Tangwen". The idiom 'high mountains and flowing water' also comes from this, which is a metaphor for confidants or bosom friends, and also metaphors for beautiful music.

"In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a man named Yu Boya in the State of Chu, who was proficient in music and rhythm, and had superb piano skills. But he always felt that he couldn't express his feelings about things in a way that was not yet expressive. After the teacher found out, he took him on a boat to Penglai Island in the East China Sea, so that he could enjoy the natural scenery and listen to the sound of the sea.

"Boya saw the waves raging, the waves splashing; Seabirds are flying and chirping; He couldn't help but take the piano and play, the sound turned at will, and the beauty of nature was integrated into the sound of the piano, but no one could understand his music, and he felt very lonely and lonely, and he was extremely distressed.

"One night, Berga boat trip. Facing the breeze and the bright moon, he had a lot of thoughts, he played the piano, the sound of the piano was melodious, suddenly he felt that someone was listening to his piano, Boya saw a woodcutter standing on the shore, that is, asked the woodcutter to get on the boat, Boya played the tune of praising the mountains, and the woodcutter said: 'Majestic and solemn, like the towering Mount Tai!' When he played the surging waves, the woodcutter said, 'Broad and immense, as if you saw the rolling water and the boundless sea.'" Later, after the early death of the sub-period, Yu Boya learned about it, and smoothed the last piece of his life in front of the grave of the Zhong Zi period, and then broke the strings and never played the piano again.

"The story of the Boyazi period has been passed down through the ages, and the beautiful music of the mountains and rivers still lingers in people's hearts and ears, and the kind of bosom friend is hard to find, and the story of the hard to find is staged from generation to generation. ”

Jiang Jinping finished talking about 'bosom friends', and said with a sigh: "It is indeed difficult to find bosom friends in this world, and sometimes they can be met but not sought. ”

Then Jiang Jinping began to talk about several other intersections.

Lian Po and Lin Xiangru's "Neck-to-neck Friend" comes from "Historical Records: Lian Lin Xiangru Biography": "The pawn and the joy are the neck-to-neck friends." ”

During the Warring States Period, the eunuch of Zhao State ordered Yingxian's disciple Lin Xiangru, who was sent by King Zhao to envoy Qin with rare treasures and clans. With wisdom and courage, he returned to Zhao completely, was appreciated by King Zhao, and was named a doctor. Later, the king of Qin proposed to meet the king of Zhao at Mianchi, wanting to force the king of Zhao to submit. Lin Xiangru and Lian Po urged the king of Zhao to attend, and devised a clever plan, Lian Po put pressure on the king of Qin with his courage and skill, and Lin Xiangru saved the king of Zhao from humiliation and returned to Zhao safely with his incorruptible tongue and loyalty to the king of Zhao. In order to commend Lin Xiangru, King Zhao named him Shangqing, which was higher than the official position of General Lian Po.

This Lian is quite unhappy, he thinks that he is brave and good at fighting, fighting for the front line of Zhao State, and is the first hero, and Lin Xiangru only relies on a mouth, and he is actually above himself. Lian Po was very unconvinced, so he decided to humiliate him. When Lin Xiangru heard the news, he avoided meeting Lian Po everywhere. When it came to the days of the last dynasty, it was said that he was sick. Once, Lin Xiangru went out and met Lian Po. Lian Po ordered his subordinates to block Lin Xiangru's road by various means, and in the end Lin Xiangru had to order him to return home. Lian Po was even more proud, and publicized this matter everywhere.

When Lin Xiangru's doormen heard about it, they asked why, and they said: "We do things for you because we admire you as a truly noble gentleman, but now you are actually swallowing your anger at the arrogant Lian Po, we can't stand it?" When Lin Xiangru heard this, he laughed and asked: "Do you say that the King of Qin is powerful or General Lian Po is powerful? I am not even afraid of the King of Qin, so how can I be afraid of Lian Po? The Qin State does not dare to invade now, but it is only because I and General Lian are protecting the Zhao State with one article and one force, and as the right-hand man of the King of Zhao, how can I ignore the country's affairs because of a small personal grudge?"

When Lian Po heard about it, he was very ashamed, so he pleaded guilty to Lin Xiangru with his chest and back on his back. Since then, they have become good friends who share life and death and weal and woe, and work together to serve the country.

Jiao Wai and Bo Tao's "life-sacrificing friends" come from the allusion of "Yang Zuo". During the Warring States period, Zuo Botao and Yang Jiaoai met and went to Chu to see the king of Chu Zhuang together, but encountered heavy snow on the way, and the clothes they wore at that time were very thin, and the food they brought was not enough to eat. In order to fulfill his friends, Zuo Botao gave all his clothes and food to Yang Jiaoai, and he committed suicide by hiding in an empty tree. Later generations called their bosom friends with deep friendship "Yang Zuo".

Chen Chong and Lei Yi's "glue knee friendship". Chen Chong and Lei Yi were two gentlemen of noble character and self-sacrifice in Yuzhang County during the Eastern Han Dynasty. The two were close friends, and people praised them at the time: "The glue paint claims to be strong, not as good as Lei and Chen." This incident is recorded in the "Biography of the Later Han Dynasty". Then he used "Chen Lei glue paint" as a metaphor for their friendship with each other, which is extremely deep.

Chen Chong became close friends with Lei Yi of the same county when he was young, and both of them were well-educated. Taishou Zhang Yun heard the name of Chen Chong, praised his virtue and integrity, recommended him as filial piety, Chen important gave his fame to Lei Yi, and applied to Taishou more than ten times, but Zhang Yun did not approve. The following year, Lei Yi was also selected as filial piety, and the two went to the county government together. Among the colleagues, there was a small official's family that was changed, and he borrowed hundreds of thousands of debts with negative interest, and the creditors came to the door every day to ask for it, and the small officials knelt down and begged for a repercussion, but they still couldn't be accommodated, and wanted to resort to the government. The little official was grateful to Dade and came to thank him, and Chen Chong said casually: "This is not what I did, maybe someone with the same name as me repaid it on your behalf!"