Qiao Lan had a lot of fun at Mrs. Li's house, Mrs. Li had to keep her to eat together, it was also home-cooked but it was made with a bit of Beijing's characteristics, and the food was also very happy. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

"Sister Lanzi, what have you been busy with lately. Hui Lan peeled the shrimp and put it on her nephew's plate, considerate and careful.

"The Dashan family in our village, seeing that I got a recipe for my sister-in-law, did it well, and wanted me to do a favor, they planned to make a noodle shop to sell noodles and do some small business, so I helped to study a beef noodle soup, as well as decoration or something, and I was busy for a month to get it done. Qiao Lan explained with a smile and didn't hide it.

"You're so good, you still make this, is it delicious?" Hui Lan stared at with big eyes and was very curious.

"Actually, it's not difficult, I got braised beef for my sister-in-law, and the recipe is slightly different, but with that as a foundation, it will still be easier. The flavor should be slightly lighter, fragrant but not strong with the top to eat is very good, too strong is a bit of a steal flavor, the main thing is this, the taste is good before anyone comes to eat noodles. It's not easy for them to do this and dig out their families, I can help if I can, it's all from the same village. Qiao Lanmian smiled.

"Well, you're right. ”

If Hui Lan has realized, she is also learning how to deal with the villagers, there must be contacts after all, and it is also important to have a good sense of proportion.

Qiao Lan was very smart and knew what Hui Lan wanted to hear and what she wanted to know, so she smiled and said: "Actually, the villagers get along very well, they are all cool people, if you have something to say, don't hide it, it doesn't matter what you want to borrow or borrow." You can also scold those who are unkind, and no matter how bad they are, there are elders to help. Our village can be grouped. However, girls are less literate, in fact, they are willing to learn, but the family is not willing to pay, so it is good to let boys go to school. When I was in the village, they occasionally came to me, and they would let me teach me to recognize a few words or something, but I didn't have much time to embroider, but there were a few who had a good time, and now they are still in contact, but unfortunately they are all married, and it is true that there is not much time to meet. ”

"Can't you run a women's school? Let the female master teach it." Hui Lan asked, tilting her head.

Qiao Lan shook her head, "It doesn't work, there are those who want to learn, but there are also those who want to learn and can't wipe off their faces, and if they talk too much, they won't feel that they can't pull down their faces, and they will blame you, don't you just know a few words? ”

Huilan covered her mouth and smiled, seeing that Qiaolan was also distressed, she felt that Coke was very happy.

"In one, if you want to learn, you are not afraid of losing face, the time is also very tight, the old lady at home is going to scold if you come more times, you don't have much effort to do more work, embroider a few purses and sell them for money, what can you do if you learn that thing? The heart is higher than the sky, life is thinner than paper, and you have the ability to be the emperor's daughter, you have to accept your fate, and the scolding can be heard by the whole village, do you dare to come next time? There are also those who came to my house to point at Sang and scolded Huai, which means that I delayed the embroidery of others and sold it for money, but I am not happy. I'm not human inside or out, and all of these things are problems. You see the academy is being built, and it doesn't say that girls can't learn, and it's free, right, I tell you that no girls go, and they won't let them go to the house if they want to. Whoever dares to say that I want to go to school will definitely be beaten, your heart is higher than the sky, and you want to go to heaven!"

Qiao Lan also said that in the reality of the people in the village, they all envy themselves for making a lot of money, and they don't say less sour words, they envy themselves for living a relaxed life, and they can spend whatever they want with their money, almost no need to hesitate, at most they talk to Chuanhu, basically Shanghu has not hesitated to stumble, sometimes they don't listen carefully, buy what you want, don't tell me.

But they can't, even save some private money to hide everywhere, accidentally discovered, mother-in-law can't spare you, most of the village families are not separated, the old man in the life of don't want to split the family, partial you endure, not happy, get out! Don't come back if you have the ability.

The mother-in-law knows that she has to accompany her good words, and the woman will generally appear weaker in marriage, and the mother-in-law will treat her son-in-law very well after agreeing with her, and she will speak to her son-in-law with cold and warmth. But the mother-in-law has to be picky about her daughter-in-law, and she has to be trained when she enters the door, this is the difference, not to mention that this is a feudal society, and the status of women is quite low, and it is already a good day to her.

These are the facts of existence, and cannot be preserved as if he did not exist anymore. It's just that even if there are hardships and unsatisfactory places, we still have to live with an optimistic attitude and strive to live a wonderful, happy and positive life.

"It turns out that you also have unsatisfactory times, and I am very happy with this comparison. At least I can study no matter what, and I am blessed to have such a good grandmother to train me. Hui Lan lowered her head and saw something open, and she understood it thoroughly.

Qiao Lan smiled, "Actually, I envy you, you can be trained by the grandmother in the palace, your temperament is different, this is something that others can't ask for, different moods look at problems with different attitudes, and now you look at the past, you will have different ideas." Anyway, the skills that Mama taught you are genuine, and this is what you gain. ”

Huilan smiled and nodded, with a bright smile on her face, and there was no haze, which had a lot to do with the fact that she had already decided to marry someone she liked to admire, a happy life was coming, her heart was full of warmth and expectations for her future life, and her views on things became more rational and objective.

"Yes, I look back now, and I feel very glad that I didn't have a temper back then, and I learned the skills to come back, otherwise maybe I will regret it now. Sister Lanzi, if you don't dislike it, I'll teach you the rules. In fact, it's not that difficult, it must be standard, just practice more, I was already old and had my own habits when I was learning, so it was hard to break it, and it was a little hard, and it wouldn't be so painful if I was in elementary school. Hui Lan explained with a smile.

"Okay, you teach me, I'm willing to learn, how can I dislike it if I learn more. Qiao Lan is very willing to learn, this is the etiquette standard of this era, and she has learned to be able to treat people and things better and be respected, so why not do it.

Even if you teach your own children in the future, it is good, after all, if there are children who are different from yourself, they are serious ancients, and they need to integrate here, and they can't teach some deviant things, which will make the children isolated and excluded, wouldn't it harm the children?

"Okay, you will come often in the future, I will teach you a few simple movements first, after you remember the standard movements, go back and practice more, and I will check again, and then teach the next one when it meets the requirements, okay?" Hui Lan was also very happy to see that she was willing to learn.

"Cheng, you teach me little by little, especially eating, dressing, walking, sitting and lying, these can best see how a person's upbringing is, I want to learn. "Qiao Lan is a person who will never look back once she has made a decision.

"Okay, I'll be the judge, I'll decide. Mrs. Li also nodded appreciatively, and her recognition of Qiaolan in her heart was even higher, and she used every opportunity to enrich herself, making herself better and better, and getting more and more respect.