When the girl got married, she sang "Crying Wedding Song", pouring out the kindness of her parents, the brotherhood and sisterhood, and her attachment to her hometown. When the pen and fun www.biquge.info were crying and getting married, the woman's sisters, sisters-in-law, mothers, relatives and friends cried together. After the newlyweds visit the church, the groom carries the bride into the cave house, which is called 'back kissing'. The newlyweds should go back to their parents' house three days later to kowtow to the ancestral tablet, and greet their fathers and mothers, and after dinner, the bride and groom return three days later, which is called 'returning to the door'.

"The crying of the Tujia girl when she gets married is novel in style, which is a unique and unique custom of the Tujia family. The length of the crying words is long and short, some have been passed down from generation to generation, and some are improvised, most of which are full of poetry and musicality. Its words are ingenious and the meaning is profound. The content includes criticism of the old system, ridicule of matchmakers, expression of old feelings, nostalgia for mountains and rivers, praise of women, and longing for the future. For example, the following "Crying Daddy":

"Three years in my mother's arms,

The head plays white with many roots.

The green cloth skirt comes to the white waist,

I have carried over several mountains and passes.

Cloth skirts from long back to short,

Turn from one mountain to another.

I'm afraid that my daughter won't have enough to eat,

I was afraid that my daughter would suffer from the cold.

Broken heart for the dowry,

It's just because her daughter was born wrong.

Crying dad came to cut the gall,

Crying mom came to pierce the heart.

Only the parents sit together,

Who knew that he would be separated today. ”

Uncle Luo hummed as he spoke, and the tall man next to him was unhappy and said, "Man, when did you learn this?"

"Right guest, what do you say when I learned it, I would have been. Uncle Luo replied.

Luo Sisi said on the side: "Dad, Mom, don't go far, Dad, you go on, and my brother will go to his master's house to learn mountain folk songs later!"

Uncle Luo didn't say anything anymore, he said: "The content of this "Crying Wedding Song" is too rich, when the girl got married, in the past, the big families would cry for ten days and a half months, even in the 50s and 60s of the last century, it is said that they would have to cry for two or three days, and how much content should be cried out if they cried for two or three days! Okay, you listen to the following song "Persuading Women":

"Don't shed tears, don't be cold,

My daughter was sad and died,

My mother's house is not a place to stay for a long time,

Sooner or later, you have to go out,

It's the same for women all over the world,

You're not alone in the world,

The emperor's adopted daughter recruited a horse,

The official lady is married,

Start a family and do the world,

The ancient rites of the dynasty are so prosperous,

For my mother to walk this way,

The daughter will step on her feet and realize,

Some didn't go along with their daughter's heart,

Be generous and tolerant.

Filial piety in front of in-laws,

Shout loudly and respond in a low voice.

Brothers and sisters-in-law should be reconciled,

Neighbors are closer.

Mother's words to keep in mind,

Thousands of rest assured, thousands of rest assured. ”

After Uncle Luo hummed "Persuading the Girl", he began to hum another "Scolding Matchmaker Song":

"The daughter is married off by another family,

I am not convinced to marry today.

A hateful matchmaker's heart scrapes poison,

When you open your mouth, you just want to eat fish.

The black-haired owl cries every day,

People do not call death insufficient.

The second complains that my father and mother are too coarse-hearted,

Listen to the matchmaker talk about the benefits.

My daughter loves it and doesn't send it,

Don't look at the house.

Three grievances brother does not call the shots,

Regardless of his sister's flesh and blood.

There are flowers that are not planted to the sun,

Monoculture sandstone shady soil. ”

Uncle Luo hummed "Scolding the Matchmaker Song" and then hummed "Crying Brother and Sister-in-law":

"My brother, my sister-in-law,

Your sister's life is not good,

Father and mother grew up in front of the country,

Today we are going to separate.

I threw away my father,

You can carry the heavy burden.

My sister became a stranger,

If you want to get it, you can't do it,

If your father and mother are sick and in pain,

It's all up to my brother and sister-in-law to take care of it,

Say hello in the morning and say hello in the evening,

I want to do more for my sister,

There is wood on the mountain to cut for my sister,

There is water in the well for my sister to pick,

Laundry for my sister on a cold day,

Make tea during the day and burn it for my sister. ”

Gao Xiaoxiao listened to Uncle Luo's humming, maybe he was infected, maybe he felt that Tian Limai and Jiang Wenwen listened to it with relish, Uncle Luo's humming was really useful to Tian Limai and Jiang Wenwen, and they also had some interest, Gao Xiaoxiao said: "We also heard others cry when we were children, and our friends together also went to learn "Crying Wedding Song", "Crying Daddy" There are many versions, Tian Limai, Sister Wenwen, if you are really useful, I can read a few songs with you, but I can't sing, my heart is tense when I sing, those words are really too scene!"

Uncle Luo saw that Gao Xiaoxiao was interested, and said to Tian Limai and Jiang Wenwen with a smile: "Tian Limai, she Sister Wenwen, it's rare for you to have such elegance, she doesn't like others to sing mountain folk songs, in the past, when the old man Qin Laosan sang, she was eager to take cotton and plug Sisi and her own ears. ”

"What do the old people sometimes sing? Gao Xiaoxiao may have been about to say "that old thing", but when he saw Tian Limai here, he changed his words.

"Mom, are you reading it quickly?!Brother and Sister Wenwen are waiting!" Luo Sisi urged.

Gao Xiaoxiao said: "When I read it, if I choke up, don't laugh at me!"

"Right guest, except for me laughing at you, who will laugh at you in three younger lives!" Uncle Luo said.

"Then I'll be ugly. Then Gao Xiaoxiao read:

"Crying Daddy" (1):

"Daddy, Mommy,

One foot five inches of the enemy,

Coiled up so big,

I can't serve my father and mother.

Pea horn bent green,

Someone else goes in and you go out.

Planted paulownia in the middle of the hall,

The room was empty.

Others plant flowers and pomegranates,

A room full of people.

When the orange is yellow, peel it,

When the children are older, they will be separated.

One orange with twelve petals,

Our mother is going to be torn apart.

Oranges are delicious and hard to cramp,

Our mother and daughter want to be separated.

Gardenia flowers with large leaves,

Your daughter will be married.

The sun came out three zhang high,

I stretched in the house,

From now on I will go to my mother-in-law's house,

The mud is up to the instep, and the water is waist-high.

If the in-laws don't speak,

Your son has feet and is afraid to walk;

If the in-laws don't open their mouths,

You don't dare to fly if you have wings. ”

Then Gao Xiaoxiao began to recite the second, third, and fourth crying words of "Crying Wedding Song".

"Crying Marriage" (2):

"My mother, my father,

Your lowly daughter,

Like the paper ash at the foot of the censer,

The wind flew in one after another.

Like a bird on a mountain,

Grow up and fly away from your mother.

Without a break,

Two have no nest to return,

When will I fly back today?

I shed tears,

Not because of poverty,

Not because there is no dowry,

I'm too young,

Can't do without my father. ”

"Crying Daddy" (3):

"My mother, my mother,

The moon bends and shines in the hall,

Leave Lao Tzu and leave his mother.

My mother, my mother,

Bitter for your enemies,

Pan's daughter only enjoys half of the blessings.

My father, my son,

Thy daughter kneels in the church,

Six relatives stood on both sides.

My father, my son,

A fire was burned in the middle of the hall,

I hope you will give it to me.

My mother, my mother,

The tears of the enemy have dried up,

In which year and month will we be reunited?"

"Crying Daddy" (4):

"Mr. Men's Reading Clothes,

The daughter left her mother and opened her voice,

A daughter must not be filial to her parents,

It's like a cabinet of duckweed.

Mother's adopted daughter is one foot five,

Move dry and sleep wet, and spend your mother's heart.

Wrapping feet and combing the hair lady hard,

Grow up and serve others.

The kindness of parents cannot be exhausted,

It's hard to repay your parents for a little kindness.

Big stars in the sky with small stars,

There are only parents in the world,

Don't blame your daughter for not being filial,

Go down to the foot of the big tree and be a man.

only blames her daughter for giving birth to the wrong life,

Do not repay your parents.

If I were a man's life,

The front and back are not separated from the left and right.

Pick up the family can be replaced,

It can also help parents.

It's a pity that it's a skirt girl,

I have to be able to say it, but I can't do it.

As the saying goes, my parents are young,

I must support my parents in old age.

It is often said that the father wants the son to become a dragon,

For the mother and the daughter, the phoenix will become.

The chickens and ducks don't admit it,

I don't know that I will be separated today.

The daughter is really embarrassed,

By my brother and sister-in-law.

New Year's worship to condolences,

You have to go a ride empty-handed.

The kindness of parents is indescribable,

Choked in the throat and cried inexplicably.

Mom, my mother,

My bitter old man......"

Gao Xiaoxiao ate and read several different "Crying Wedding Songs" of "Crying Daddy", Uncle Luo said with a smile: "Youke, I really didn't expect that you would have so many crying wedding lyrics?!"

Gao Xiaoxiao said: "Male guest, what I remembered when I was young is really not easy to forget, besides, I was also a literary and artistic activist when I was studying, and I went on stage to act!"

After listening to Gao Xiaonian's crying lyrics, Tian Limai said to Jiang Wenwen: "Wenwen, these crying lyrics exude a strong local flavor, we have to sort it out well and see how to integrate it into our project culture display." ”

"Mai, we have not come here in vain tonight, and we have benefited a lot. Jiang Wenwen said.

Gao Xiaoxiao listened to the conversation between Tian Limai and Jiang Wenwen, and said: "There are still mother and daughter crying, I will also read a song to you?"

"Yes, high scumbag. Tian Limai said.

Gao Xiaoxiao then recited:

"Woman: My father and my mother,

I am your daughter,

My parents have worked hard to raise me,

It's hard for me to repay my parents' kindness.

My father, my mother,

Salted radish lightly worried.

My empty heart,

The bears of my mother's plate.

The hen holds the duck egg by mistake,

The thrush is wrong to hug the yin finch,

Disc to grow up to fly separately,

The mother is in the east and the child is in the west.

The hall house with an umbrella double heaven,

Biological parents aside.

My father, my mother,

Your enemies henceforth,

I want to put the sky on my head,

I'm going to step on someone else's ground.

The enemy's foot is the birthland,

The enemy is a living person.

Life will be deceived by others,

Ma Shan wants to be ridden by others.

Kill a lone pig in front of the cross street,

Three ditches and two forks to bully the lonely.

Someone else's mother and son sit in a row,

One of the enemies is a slave,

Serving others is not enough,

Scolding for a few days.

Mother: My daughter,

The three barmaids could not be hidden.

Mother, the rock slab of the gutter,

It's not your dragon land.

Someone's mother is your mother,

Someone else's home is your home.

To conform to the old heart,

Don't give the bitter lady to add anger,

Don't worry about the bitter mother.

To fight for a breath of life,

Fight for a stick of incense for the Buddha.

F: I'm so angry and short-lived,

How can the enemy be willing?

Born with a blue shirt that can't be washed white,

The temper of birth cannot be changed.

Mother: The copper basin is clear through the water,

Ten points for nine points.

You have left me, a miserable mother,

took off his blue shirt and changed to a purple robe;

You have left me, a miserable mother,

The silver bridge was demolished and the gold bridge was replaced.

Your hard-working mother didn't give you a single case,

Your hard-working mother didn't buy you anything.

You have worked hard and done everything,

You're so lazy and don't do anything.

Female: My father, my mother,

This enemy of yours was born,

In addition to the shoulder support, there is no two layers,

Except for earrings.

There are those who wear and wear high places to sit,

No wear, no wear, no black place.

Daddy and mother look at me weighing a thousand pounds,

People look at me lightly.

A scale in front of Cross Street,

The same milli rope is recognized in several ways.

He recognized only his own son,

His daughter-in-law is an outsider to him.

The old ones don't speak,

The enemy has feet and does not dare to go;

The old people are silent,

The enemy has wings and does not dare to fly. ”

Although Gao Xiaoxiao read the lyrics of "Crying Wedding Song" orally, because everyone listened very carefully, they were still deeply infected by the lyrics that came out, and the atmosphere seemed a little dull.

Jiang Wenwen said: "I'll tell you a story just now. A bus full of passengers, speeding down the downhill road, was followed by a man chasing after the car.

A passenger stuck his head out of the window and said to the car chaser, 'Dude, forget it, you can't catch up.' ’

'I have to catch up with it', the man gasped, 'I'm the driver of this car.' ’

Some people have to work very hard, because if they don't, the consequences will be very tragic. However, it is precisely because we have to give our all that the underlying instincts and hidden qualities will finally be fully revealed. ”

Tian Limai listened to Jiang Wenwen's joke and said, "I'll talk about one." This is a conversation between A and B.

A: 'The new neighbor is so disgusting, he came to me in the middle of the night last night and rang the doorbell of my house. ’

B: 'Abominable indeed, did you call the police right away?'

A: 'No. I took them for madness and continued to blow my little trumpet. ’”

Luo Sisi said with a smile: "I'll talk about one, it's all one style." The boy asked his father, 'Is it true that a father knows more than a son?'

Dad replied, 'Of course!'

'Who invented the electric light?'

'Edison. ’

'Then why didn't Edison's father invent the electric light?'"

Uncle Luo smiled and said, "I'll talk about one." The wife is stir-frying in the kitchen.

Her husband kept nagging beside her: 'Slow down, be careful! Hurry up and turn the fish over, there's too much oil!'

My wife blurted out, 'I know how to stir-fry. ’

The husband calmly replied: 'I just want you to know ......how I feel when I'm driving and you're chattering next to me.'"

Gao Xiaoxiao said: "These jokes you tell are not very funny, but there is a certain philosophy in each joke. ”

Tian Limai looked at Luo Sisi and said: "Luo Sisi, tonight, you are like a planner, we are all following your train of thought, we will not talk about it casually, about the daughter's meeting, we also want to ask Uncle Luo to tell us about it." ”

Uncle Luo said: "We were originally talking about the Tujia Daughters' Association, but we were suddenly pulled away by "Crying Wedding Song"!"

"Uncle Luo, we also need this "Crying Wedding Song", and we don't have to talk about it. Tian Limai said.

Uncle Luo said with a smile: "Every morning on the day of the 'daughter's meeting', the Tujia girls get up extra early, and their chattering invitations break the silence of the cottage. The girls carefully dress up and wear the most beautiful clothes on their bodies, and the way to wear them is to be long inside and short outside, so that the layers of trimmed clothes are turned into bamboo shoot shells, which is called 'Jiejie Gao'.