Li Zhihui's current husband is still very enthusiastic, before He Ning and Tang Li left, he also specially asked if he disturbed their errands after he came, He Ning and Tang Li denied this, he was relieved, and wanted to send them downstairs, Li Zhihui of course did not want her husband to have any contact with He Ning, although He Ning and Tang Li had already had an agreement with her, but who knew if they would accidentally show a sentence and a half, so she was careful to block it on the side, He Ning and Tang Li did not plan to let anyone send it, so they politely greeted and thanked them, and hurriedly left Li Zhizhi's house, ready to start the next work。 Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

Li Zhihui's ex-husband Feng Yongjun is still living in the local area, listening to Li Zhihui, Feng Yongjun now lives with his parents, and the house when he married Li Zhihui has been idle, not resold or rented, just empty there, Feng Yongjun has never lived in it since he divorced Li Zhihui.

Based on these circumstances, if they wanted to find Feng Yongjun, they naturally had to go to Feng Yongjun's parents' house, but this time He Ning and Tang Li did not plan to go directly to Feng Yongjun himself, but planned to inquire about it excitingly.

The urban area of the county seat is not large, He Ning and Tang Li decided to leave the car and walk to the residence of Feng Yongjun's parents, first, there is no need to find a place to park, and secondly, it is convenient to talk to people who meet near Feng Yongjun's parents' house, otherwise suddenly a car will jump down two people, and as soon as they look at each other, they will start to ask questions, and it is estimated that anyone will be on guard.

On the way to Feng Yongjun's parents' house, He Ning chatted with Tang Li, or should it be said that she unilaterally couldn't help but chat with Tang Li: "It turns out that the two of us guessed wrong, Li Zhihui looks like she doesn't resemble me at all!

Tang Li turned his face to look at He Ning, He Ning thought that he was observing whether he and Li Zhihui had anything in common, and hurriedly asked: "Look, look, is the nose and eyes not like anywhere?"

"Are you confident?" said Tonic with a completely nonsensical question.

"Me?" Although He Ning didn't know why he suddenly asked, he still replied seriously, "I think I'm still confident." What's wrong? Why are you asking me this question all of a sudden?"

"Do you care what other people think of you?" asked Tonic again, ignoring her doubts.

He Ning thought about it and nodded without hesitation: "You care, don't you care?"

"I don't care. Tonic replied very calmly, and then paused, "If you are confident, why should you care about other people's opinions." ”

He Ning was dumbfounded by what he said, and he couldn't answer a little, so he thought about it and said: "Isn't this normal, people are social animals, how can they not care about the evaluation of others, if they don't care about the evaluation of others at all, then they are not excluded everywhere, so how can they live and work?"

Tonic shook his head: "Respecting others and taking other people's attitudes as the standard, these are two concepts. ”

"Then you talk about it specifically, it's so concise, I can't understand it!" He Ning said a serious thing on his face, in fact, he was a little joking in his heart, it was rare that Tonic was a little open to the conversation, of course she wanted to take advantage of this opportunity to see what the mouth of the stuffy gourd was like.

Tang Li was a little helpless, he had never been used to saying so much, but today's topic was picked up by him first, and it was too late to retreat at this time, so he thought about it for a while, and still said to He Ning: "Seeking common ground while reserving differences, respecting other people's opinions and preferences, and making appropriate concessions, this is the sociality that people need to have." Affirming or denying oneself according to other people's perceptions and attitudes is a lack of self-confidence. There are so many people in the world, you can't please them all, so don't take other people's attitudes so seriously, it's not good. You have to understand your own value, through your own eyes, not through other people's mouths, if you don't know yourself, how can others know better than you?

He Ning admitted that Tonic was still very reasonable, but what surprised her even more was Tonic Li's language organization ability, and she was in the impression that some of the less spoken people she had come into contact with were usually clumsy even if they were forced to speak at length and had to speak at length, but Tonic had no such problem at all, not only was it reasonable, but it was also able to try not to talk nonsense on the premise of expressing his meaning clearly, and the expression of his views was quite compact, which was definitely not like the state that a person who was born introverted and spoke little said。

"Aren't you very eloquent? Speaking of reasoning, it's quite like that, so why do you usually count the words and speak? You said before that you don't like to talk, I don't think it's right, how do I feel that you don't like to talk when you are a child, but later you asked yourself to talk less?" He Ning told Tang Li her guess, although she didn't know if it was right or not, she still said it without any scruples, and it seemed that she was used to expressing her opinions in front of Tang Li as she liked, because he never criticized others at will.

Tang Li only smiled at her speculation, and didn't want to respond, and He Ning didn't continue to get to the bottom of it, in fact, Tang Li was right, her confidence was not so pure. From childhood to adulthood, she is a happy child, although the income level of her parents is very average, it is just an ordinary family background, He Dad and He Mom have never been stingy with their daughter's dedication, and also gave He Ning a happy and comfortable living environment, and she has always performed well, and because of this, she has been praised by classmates and teachers, so she has always been accustomed to such a treatment, never doubted, and when she got older, the interpersonal relationships she came into contact with became more and more complicated, when she began to meet people who were inconsistent, and said different words to her, she was not too guarded, until one day, When she learned that the person who had said all the good things in front of her was doing her best to slander herself behind the scenes, at that moment, her originally intact, crystal-like self-confidence cracked, once the crack occurred, not only will not disappear, but will gradually expand due to other factors, just like the butterfly effect, so that her original very firm confidence has gradually been shaken.

What is the reason why he is not confident in his heart, He Ning knows it very well, but he doesn't want to say it to others, even her most intimate friend Fang Yuan She didn't mention a word, let alone Tonic Li, it is precisely because of this that he pushes himself and others, why does Tonic have a good eloquence but refuses to speak, the reason behind this is that he doesn't want to say it, it must be inconvenient to take it out and share it with others, and not asking is also a sign of respect.

He Ning silently recalled what Tang Li had just said, and his heart was touched, and he felt that his original crumbling self-confidence seemed to have stabilized again, he really didn't know himself well enough, and he always thought he was a smart person, until he experienced some things, and found that he was actually confused on some issues.

The most important thing is to understand yourself, and Tonic is right and makes sense.

The two of them were silent, one was naturally silent, and the other was thoughtful and forgot to speak, so they walked all the way to Feng Yongjun's parents' residence, and He Ning's mood had almost adjusted.

Feng Yongjun's parents are in an open community, there is basically no planning in it, although it does not look very modern, but it is also full of a strong atmosphere of life, many residents on the first floor of the community have changed the windows into doors, operating different kinds of small businesses, there are laundry, there are tailor shops, there are small shops for repairing shoes and shining shoes, and barber shops, and the community has become more lively.

Walking around the building where Feng Yongjun's parents were located, He Ning looked at his surroundings, then turned his head to look at Tang Li and asked, "Does your hair grow long?"

Tang Li looked at it and saw that there was a barber shop downstairs at Feng Yongjun's parents' house, and there were a few old men in their sixties sitting in the shop, chatting about something.

"Let's go. Tonic nodded, agreeing with Hening's idea, and the two of them walked towards the barbershop.

The barber shop is very small, it is a large room of the residents on the first floor, about less than 20 square meters, there is no decoration in it, there are four white walls, a large mirror is hung on one wall, there is a folding chair in front of the mirror, and the back of the chair is also covered with a cloth that has been washed a little yellow. A few chatting old men crowded into two small couches at the door, one of them wearing a white apron, a little like the head shaving master of the barbershop many years ago. When He Ning and Tang Li walked over, those old men were chatting all over the world, chatting happily, talking about heaven and earth, big and small things, everything could be involved.

When they saw someone coming, they all stopped, turned their heads to look at the comer, and one of the old men asked, "Do you want to cut your hair or what?"

"Cut your hair. He Ning answered the other party's inquiry very simply.

A few old men, you look at me, I look at you, they all got up from the sofa, indicating that a guest came to the door, let the main owner work first, they went to talk elsewhere for a while, and then came back after a while. After a while, the old men were gone, leaving only the one wearing a white apron.

"Master, what do you call it?" He Ning stepped forward with a smile and took the initiative to say hello, since he wanted to inquire about the news from other people's mouths, how could he have a bad attitude and not be sweet, it is necessary to be familiar with it first.

The barber is also in his sixties, his hair is a little gray, short, red, and his spirit is very good, he looks like a cheerful person, but he doesn't know how to cut hair. He also smiled at He Ning, and said loudly: "My surname is Wang, you can call me Master Wang! Which of you two wants to cut your hair? I can say hello first, I have shaved men's heads all my life, and women's hair is not very good, little girl, you want to be good!"

"I'm going to get a haircut. Tonic nodded to him and took the initiative to walk over and sit down in a folding chair.

Master Wang quickly shook off the cloth to help him wrap up, asked He Ning to sit on the small sofa and wait, and asked Tang Li how he planned to cut it and how short it was, and then washed Tang Li's hair very sophisticatedly.

He Ning was still thinking about how to open the topic, but Master Wang was a talkative person, and while grabbing Tang Li's scalp, he asked: "You two look a little raw, do you live with us?" I have opened a barber shop here for 20 years, and I dare not say that I know all the people who come and go back and forth in the community, and I also know a seven, seven, eighty, eight, eight, and eight, as if I have never seen the two of you." ”

"We don't live here," He Ning replied, "we are relatives, and it's normal not to know us." ”

"Oh, that's no wonder! I'm a person with a good memory, and those who have met once can still remember when we meet again!" Master Wang pointed to his head as he spoke, "Then whose grandson or granddaughter are you? Are you working or going to school outside? Why do you come to visit relatives at this time, it's not a festival!"

"There are a lot of people on the New Year's Festival, and it's not easy to buy tickets!" He Ning responded casually, and then began to fight for the initiative to question, "Master Wang, then you know everyone, do you know the old Feng family in this building?"

"There are two families in this building surnamed Feng, but I know both, which one are you?" Master Wang pulled Tang Li to rinse his hair and asked He Ning without looking back.

"It's the old Feng family whose son has left his soul once. He Ning replied cautiously but pretending to be casual, "Are you familiar with them?"

Master Wang turned his head to look at her, and pouted: "No, you are definitely not their relative! Among their relatives is the youngest son of Lao Feng and his son, who is older than you, where is your little girl's relative in their family! Say, why did you come to play with me?"

He Ning was not embarrassed to be poked by Master Wang, shrugged his shoulders, and said with a smile: "You are really sharp-eyed! This can be seen, so I'd better tell the truth, in fact, I really came to inquire about that son." ”

"Why are you asking him?" After Master Wang was praised by He Ning, he was also a little proud, but more curious.

"That's the case, there is an introducer who wants to introduce their son to my sister, and my sister is afraid that she doesn't understand, so she wants me to help inquire, and then decide whether to meet or not. He Ning replied. (To be continued.) )