Chapter 10 Riding a Donkey to Find a Horse
As soon as he said this, He Ning and Tang Li couldn't answer at once, whether they wanted children or not, these two unmarried single men and women had never been involved at all, and they were also very private, so they really didn't praise it, but fortunately, Ma Jingwei didn't seem to need others to give any evaluation, while telling this fact, it was more like he was pouring out his worries, just talking to himself. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info
"My wife said that she couldn't give me a child, because I was poor, I was a primary school teacher, not a key primary school, just a little dead salary every month, the two of them lived tightly, and they didn't expect to be able to afford children, and her work always had to work night shifts, irregular work and rest, my family was not local, her family was not local, and it was difficult to count on the elderly to help her, so I weighed and weighed it, and felt that the two of us should not have children at all," Ma Jingwei's tone was a little sad, coupled with Zhu Panxiang's current fierce and auspicious situation, which made his grievances a little more sad, " I really want to have a child, I told her, money is dead, people are alive, if we lack money, we can think of a way, I said I can also learn from others, run after-school tutoring classes, or go to those larger educational institutions outside to find a part-time job or something, even if I go to the roadside stall to sell gadgets after work, I will definitely work hard to make money to subsidize the family, I am in my early forties, there are many children in the school who are about the same age as me, there are many children who are in junior high school, and some want children to be early teachers, and the children are going to graduate from junior high schoolI don't even have a bean at home. ”
"Then you say that, does Zhu Panxiang agree?" He Ning deliberately asked a stupid question.
Ma Jingwei sighed: "If she agrees, won't the two of us quarrel? She doesn't agree! She said that I was all a fool's dream, I am not the main teacher, who would ask me to tutor, and said that if I had the ability to go out to work part-time, I would have gone a long time ago, and it would be impossible to wait until now." I said that I am also an upright undergraduate, and I dare not say it in junior high and high school, so what can I not tutor in addition to the number of words spoken by elementary school students? But my wife didn't listen, she said that I have no future, she still lives with me, if she was clumsy at the beginning, there is no way, she doesn't plan to have a child, the child is not as good as other people's children in the future, and my father has no future in his work, and he will set up a roadside stall, so that the child will have no face in front of his classmates. I don't understand, other men are also teachers in elementary schools, why don't other people's wives think that their men have no prospects and no future? Why can people save food and clothing and raise children for two people? Why did I come here, obviously a very legitimate profession, but my wife said that, as if I was a beggar on the side of the road, and I was not as good as a beggar?"
"So you quarreled, and Zhu Panxiang ran away from home?" asked Tang Li, "Did you beat her?"
"No, no!" Ma Jingwei hurriedly waved his hand, "Heaven and earth conscience! I have never beaten women, and I despise the man who beats women the most! With my wife, there is a little fight with her, she also beats me, she makes trouble with me, but I haven't touched her with a finger for so many years!" My previous wife, I never hit her, of course, I didn't even blush with her at that time, now my wife is a little anxious, and she has a special idea, everything at home and outside the home has to follow her way, I don't say anything, sometimes it's easy to have a little contradiction, but it's not a big deal. ”
"Before this time, did Zhu Panxiang have any experience of running away from home?" asked He Ning.
"Yes, it's not the first time we've quarreled because of the child," Ma Jingwei said with a sad face, "Every time she talks about this topic, she immediately gets angry, and no matter what I say or asks, she will definitely get angry, and I have to make trouble, I have to make trouble until I am soft, saying that I will live with the two of her, and I don't want children, so that she can feel comfortable, I just don't give up, and I always want to do her ideological work again, but she doesn't eat hard and soft at all, and I have no way at all in the end." ”
He Ning looked at Tang Li, and felt a little puzzled by Ma Jingwei's statement, about whether to have children after marriage, everyone's thoughts may not be the same, some people like children, think that having a child is an indispensable part of family life, and some people do not have a strong desire for children, thinking that it is good for two people to live together, this is understandable, Ma Jingwei does not seem to be that kind of strong character, unless it is because he is forced too tightly, otherwise, as a bystander, He Ning can't help but feel that every time he mentions the child's matter, he makes a big noise or even runs away from home, this Zhu Panxiang's reaction is a little too much。
Tang Li seemed to have similar thoughts, he thought about it, and asked Ma Jingwei: "Zhu Panxiang every time I quarrel with you about this matter, where do you run away from home and live?
"That's hard to say, she lives in a different place every time, sometimes she borrows a friend's or colleague's home, sometimes she lives in a small hotel, anyway, there is always a way for me to not find it, the length of time is not easy to say, sometimes it is longer, sometimes it is shorter, it is five or six days a week, it is a short time a day or two, sometimes I feel that no matter how I coax, she just refuses to forgive me, sometimes it is better, a little coaxing, she will give me face and come home. Ma Jingwei said these things, and seemed to be full of grievances, "Don't think that I always use the matter of having children to force my wife to do something, in fact, there is really no, I admit that this kind of thing must be mentioned more often, but sometimes she will take the initiative to ask me, do you still want children, you say, can I not want to!" I dreamed about it, but she didn't want to, so I kept holding back from mentioning it, so when she asked, I was pleasantly surprised, thinking that she had figured it out and was willing, so I said yes, I dreamed of having a child. As a result, as soon as she said this, she turned her face on the spot, saying that she didn't expect me to marry my wife as a machine for giving birth, and then she lost her temper and left...... I don't even know what's going on, you police don't let you fish to enforce the law, right? I sometimes feel that I am always being fished by my wife at home to enforce the law, and then I have to apologize and coax people back, and sometimes I am tired. ”
Not to mention Ma Jingwei himself, after listening to his words, even He Ning felt that Zhu Panxiang did have some taste of fishing law enforcement, if these things mentioned by Ma Jingwei were true, it would feel like Zhu Panxiang needed an opportunity to run away from home, so he deliberately gave him a little hope when he knew that Ma Jingwei's desire for children in his heart had never disappeared, and then used the topic to play.
It's just that in this way, He Ning has another question: "Then Zhu Panxiang and you have such a big difference in life, and you feel tired of always coaxing her, why do the two of them continue to live?"
"You little girl, you know at a glance that you are not married and have no family," Ma Jingwei shook his head, "Marriage is a very serious matter, once you get married, it means that two people are twisted into a rope, unless it is a last resort, it is easy not to divorce because of a little bump, that is irresponsible behavior, and it is immature." And I'm a big man, what's wrong with letting my wife a little, my previous wife has left because of an accident, how difficult it is for me to get out of the shadow of that time, regain my strength, and be able to start a family again, I feel that God is not thin on me, if I can have my own children, of course it is better, if not, then it may be said that I don't have that kind of life, I will accept the reality!"
"Oh, by the way, I haven't asked yet, you just said that you came here to work after graduating from a bachelor's degree, and your bachelor's degree was very valuable back then, and then Zhu Panxiang also disliked that you were not a junior high school teacher, but a primary school teacher, and you were not a major subject, so why did you go to primary school to teach in the first place?" He Ning asked, this question made her feel a little confused from the beginning, but she didn't have time to ask, the same conditions are of course difficult to say now, but Ma Jingwei also emphasized that his undergraduate degree at that time was still very useful, especially in a second-tier city like City A, more than ten or twenty years ago, undergraduates were not very expensive, and they were definitely "sought-after" , If he is really unwilling to teach in an elementary school, it is not impossible to find a middle and high school teacher to do it at that time with his academic qualifications, there is no reason to be so embarrassed.
Ma Jingwei's white and pure face turned red all of a sudden, and he moved his gaze to the side, as if he was a little reluctant to answer this question, but after hesitating for a moment, he may have realized his current situation and felt that it was better to be more cooperative, so he said hesitantly: " At the beginning, I wanted to be with my wife at the time, for her to come to a city, because the major I studied is really not right, I can only go to a worse school, a better school has no recruitment plan, I am unwilling, the result is delayed, I missed the opportunity, my wife at the time said that she has a relative at home, about to be promoted, and then the direct jurisdiction is the education mouth, so let me ride a donkey to find a horse, first find a job that can solve the establishment of education, and then wait for her relatives to take office, we will find him to help dredge and dredge, then I can enter a key high school, I thought it was very good, so I found my current job, and I was going to be the 'donkey' who was 'riding a donkey to find a horse', but then her relative was not in charge of education, and was in charge of other departments, and I was delayed in this matter, I originally thought that the curve would save the country, and then find a relationship through a relationship, it's better than no relationship, isn't it, but before I started to do this, didn't my wife have an accident, her mother's family and I were like that, how could I help me dredge. ”
It's no wonder that Ma Jingwei was reluctant to say it, counting on his ex-wife's relatives to want to go through the back door, but he was unlucky, and finally came to such a situation after turning around, which was equivalent to being stuck on the "donkey" that he used to "ride a donkey to find a horse" and couldn't get down, this experience was neither glorious nor pleasant.
"What did you study?" asked Thorn.
"I'm learning French," Ma Jingwei shook his head, "When I learned, I also felt that I was going to do a big career, French, what a foreign language, what a romance, what elegance, what a lot of [hx] feelings...... As a result, in the end, I realized that it was easy to be high or low, and the places with high levels were not famous enough, or the academic qualifications were not enough, and the level was not enough, and the places with lower levels were not useful. ”
He Ning felt his heart skip a beat, and remembered the French sentence on the napkin at the scene of the crime, but she quickly calmed down the heartbeat that had just accelerated suddenly, Ma Jingwei's major is to learn French, if the deceased is really Zhu Panxiang, and left a sentence of French at the scene of Zhu Panxiang's death, will this be too straightforward and obvious? As if he was afraid that someone would ignore the connection between this case and Ma Jingwei, he was a little deliberate, but he quickly calmed down after being taken aback.
"Two, I...... I still want to wait with you, okay? I'm restless now, let me be questioned by you, I can be a little better, or I'll be cranky, and I'll be panicking in my heart!Otherwise, you can continue to ask me, you can ask anything, I know everything, or you can arrange something for me, as long as it can distract me, whatever you want!" Ma Jingwei pleaded.
He Ning and Tang Li couldn't laugh or cry, where did they have so many questions to ask, and it was impossible to arrange anything for Ma Jingwei, but it could be seen that Ma Jingwei was indeed a little masterless, and in the end there was no way, the two of them discussed it and decided to let Ma Jingwei wait in the public security bureau, but he couldn't stay in the office, He Ning took him to the reception room and asked him to wait there, and then they went to the station together in the afternoon to pick up Zhu Panxiang's parents, and when the time came, the DNA samples of Zhu Panxiang's parents could be compared with the DNA of the female corpse to determine whether the identity of the deceased was Zhu Panxiang。
Ma Jingwei thanked him a thousand times, he said that staying in a noisy environment is much more comfortable than letting him go home, so he really went to the reception room to kill time, at noon He Ning sent him a lunch, and at four o'clock in the afternoon, he came to find He Ning.
"My parents-in-law called and said that they would be able to arrive at the station in more than half an hour. He said nervously. (To be continued.) )