V111 Mother and daughter talk about their hearts
"Then I'll be talking nonsense. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć info" Zhao Qingru looked at Xue Yumin, who had changed his face with a smile, "Anyway, the one who was 'rescued' that day is still alive and well." ā
"Zhao, Zhao Qingru, what do you want to let me go. Xue Yumin, who originally had a frightened expression and widened her eyes, suddenly showed a look of grievance, and she looked like a poor little daughter-in-law who was bullied from any angle.
"Don't say that you are so innocent, you really think that the whole world is sorry for the three of you Xue family's mother and daughter?!" Although he was standing with his back to him, for some reason, Zhao Qingru faintly felt that there seemed to be someone behind him, so he turned his body half a point to the side, and the corner of his eye unexpectedly caught a glimpse of a slender figure among the bushes. Although he was not very sure, Zhao Qingru was still a little more vigilant.
"At least the Zhao family, over the years, you sisters and brothers have completed one high school and one junior high school! I don't owe you anything! How to go in the future is your own Xue Yumin's own business, is it possible that you still want to continue to hold on to the Zhao family, responsible for birth, maintenance, death and burial?!"
After speaking, Zhao Qingru did not look back to see who the person behind him was, but left Xue Yumin, who was crying sadly, and went directly into the house. Anyway, his old man just asked her to send people out of the house. As for whether Xue Yumin will take Xiao Song's jeep home after that, or choose to refuse stubbornly, it is not within Zhao Qingru's consideration.
I'm afraid that few people would think that just after Zhao Qingru returned to the house to Xiao Song drove back to the yard for a while, it was not even five minutes before and after, Xue Yumin was very lucky to have a new opportunity and met one of the "Prince Charming" in her life. To say, some people really can't relax for a moment.
Speaking of this person, Zhao Qingru also recognized that Zhao Xiaohua was the second young man of the Shi family, Shi Yaolian, who had a relatively close contact with him once upon a time.
The last time Zhao Qingru was true or false, Shi Yaolian mistook Yumu for a pearl, although no one mentioned it on the surface, but it still caused a lot of discussion in private, so that the three generations of friends who lived in the same compound saw a lot of jokes.
However, the Shi family, especially Shi Yaolian, could only knock out his teeth and swallow it whole in his stomach, not only could he not take the opportunity to fight back, but he also had to continue to slap the Zhao family. To put it bluntly, it is because the Shi family is not strong now, there is no pillar in the family, and the old man in his last years does not know if he can last until the third generation, that is, the Shi Yaolian brothers can support the whole family.
Shi Yaolian came over on purpose, and he came to visit the Zhao family with gifts such as canned sugar water. First, today is New Year's Day, which is also considered the New Year, and secondly, I heard that Zhao's father was discharged from the hospital and went home today. As a result, before this person had time to enter the door, he saw Zhao Qingru, the Zhao family's wild bull, bullying people there again.
Although Zhao Xiaohua's facial features are not ugly, she has endured a lot of hardships, especially in Shenjiawa Village for more than a year, she has had two miscarriages. Even if he left Shenjiawa Village and returned to Yanjing, he had been carefully recuperating for more than half a year, but his body was still weaker than others, and his blood and qi were obviously insufficient.
As for Xue Yumin, even if he lacked food and clothing when he was a child, he had a good life in the Zhao family. Even after being invited out of home by Zhao Qingru for more than a year, life has been a little tighter. It's just looking weak, but it's actually too healthy. Coupled with the not ugly facial features and the pitiful little appearance, Shi Yaolian saw that the three souls were immediately gone.
Zhao Qingru naturally didn't know this, and after entering the house, she obviously felt that the atmosphere at home was getting more and more wrong. Just looked around the living room a little, and found that his cheap father Zhao's father was gone, so he went back to the room and continued to rest on the bed.
Because of this little episode that was irrelevant in Zhao Qingru's opinion, the so-called reunion dinner at noon on New Year's Day was quite aggrieved. Zhao's father Xu is body was really bad, he couldn't get up from the bed, and even the old man of the Zhao family was not in a good mood, so he only ate a few mouthfuls of food in a hurry, and went back to the house to rest (sulking?).
This meal, the only thing that is not affected may be that there is no one in the morning, Zhao Qingru thought that he was still sleeping lazily, but in fact he went out crazy all morning, and Zhao Qingwei was late for lunch. At this time, Zhao Qingwei, who is in the third year of junior high school, does not know what it feels like to be a teenager, and he is heartless to say that it is ugly. However, Lai also knew how to observe words and feelings, and after noticing that the atmosphere at home was wrong, he shrank in the corner and tried to cook by himself.
Not long after eating this depressing lunch, the third grandfather of the Zhao family got up and said goodbye for the first time. What's even more surprising is that this time the old man of the Zhao family didn't keep his only surviving distant cousin of the same clan. However, he still asked Xiao Song, the guard next to him, to be responsible for sending Zhao San's grandfather and Zhao Xiaohua home, and asked him to take some canned malt milk essence back with sugar water.
left home with Zhao San's grandfather Zhao Xiaohua before and after, as well as Aunt Zhao and the Da Mei Xiaoli sisters. The little uncle is still working as his sesame official in the province at this time, and the family is all busy inside and out. My aunt's mother-in-law was not in good health and had been paralyzed in bed for several years. It is not easy for the little aunt to take half a day to take a pair of daughters back to her parents' house and accompany the old man and the old lady for a holiday.
So knowing that her little girl was leaving, the old lady of the Zhao family didn't keep it, and without waiting for the old man to speak, she packed up a large bag of so-called nutritional products with her hands and feet, and asked the little aunt and daughter to take it back. Even Zhao Qingru secretly prepared one, which was wrapped in a few hard cakes and half a catty of chocolate.
Originally, Zhao Qingru wanted to take out the red Fuji apples, but unfortunately the old lady had already packed several Guoguang apples, and she had already let the three aunts see it, so she had to give up.
"Sister Qingru......" Although Xiaoli was a little greedy for the cake and chocolate that Zhao Qingru took out, she didn't dare to take it because she didn't care about it.
"Take it. If you and Da Meimei still call me sister, you will take it. Don't let your milk them see, this is what you and Damei eat when they are hungry. Don't worry, I have something for you to milk them. Zhao Qingru couldn't help but stuff the cake and chocolate into Xiaoli's hand.
"Thank you, Sister Qingru. On the contrary, it is Da Mei, who is older than Xiaoli, and Xu is already sensible, so he is no longer polite to Zhao Qingru.
Zhao Qingru didn't know that her little aunt was not having such a smooth time at her in-law's house. After all, the Zhao family's family background is there, don't look at the monk's face to see the Buddha's face. can only say that sometimes I really can't help but meet those feudal old ladies with long hair and short knowledge.
Xu is aunt gave birth to two daughters in a row, and in front of her own mother-in-law, she is always a little inferior. Not to mention the second generation of research and development, the boys and girls have the final say. The key is that a person can never develop it, whether it is good or not. The little uncle who has not shown his face in front of Zhao Qingru has been in other provinces all these years, if the little aunt really develops a son, wouldn't the top of her head be green?
is also thanks to the old lady who still boasts of her own scholarly family, and sometimes she is not as good as an old lady with small feet in the countryside.
That is, the little aunt's bun-like good temperament, replaced by Zhao Qingru, let the little uncle taste it well, let him understand why the flowers are so red!
After the little aunt and mother and daughter left, the Zhao family, which was still a little crowded, seemed to be a lot empty. However, the atmosphere at home is still very dreary.
Zhao Qingru made an excuse and went upstairs and slipped back to her room. Who would have thought that Zhao's mother, who thought she should be in the next room, was lying on her bed, and tears could be faintly seen in the corners of her eyes.
"Mommy. Why are you crying?" Seeing this, Zhao Qingru decisively turned around and locked the door to prevent someone from coming in suddenly. Even if it's not very likely.
"Nope. Mother Zhao sat up, took advantage of the gap between getting up, took out a handkerchief from her pocket, and quickly wiped the corner of her eyes. Then he patted the position next to him and pulled out a faint smile, "Ru'er, come and sit next to Mom." Our mother and daughter haven't spoken to each other for a long time. ā
"Good. Zhao Qingru took off her trousers and climbed onto the bed neatly, "What does Mom want to talk about?"
"What are you talking about...... Mother Zhao looked at her baby girl and was a little confused for a moment, thinking of the news she heard from her mother's house not long ago, after thinking about it for a while, it was better to go straight to the point.
"Ru'er, you really think about it, you want to be with that kid surnamed Zhou? do you know him?"
"Mom, people have names and surnames, and they are called ......" Zhao Qingru saw the worried look on Zhao's mother's face for the first time, so she no longer detoured, but nodded and said with great certainty, "Well." If there is no emergency, it should be him. As for understanding...... How to say it. Zhou Wentao never concealed the situation in his family in front of me, including his identity as an adopted son in the Zhou family, the old lady of the Zhou family, and those relatives of the Zhou family. ā
"Ru'er, you are Mom's only daughter, although she didn't care enough about you since she was a child, Mom doesn't want you to choose the person who wants to live with you for the rest of your life so hastily. Zhao's mother Xu saw herself from her own baby girl, and she was in love with the scene, so she naturally didn't want her only daughter to follow her own old path, or even an old road that was not as good as herself.
Even if Zhou Wentao's own conditions are indeed not bad, and his temperament is not bad, his family background, whether it is compared with the Zhao family or the Xu family, is too far away. Even if you don't pay attention to the right door now, two people who grew up in completely different environments live together, but I am afraid that there will be friction and discord due to different living habits. After a long time, it is inevitable that small contradictions will escalate into big problems, and when the time comes, it will be difficult to get a divorce?
The most critical point is that Zhou Wentao's family, although the adoptive father is an honest man, but the adoptive mother still wants her adopted son to marry her own daughter, and she is afraid of such a mother-in-law...... What's more, none of the old ladies of the Zhou family have any worries.
Since Zhao's mother knew what kind of family the person her only baby girl fell in love with, she didn't want Zhao Qingru to marry Zhou Wentao.
"Mom, I can see what you're worried about. Marriage is not a matter of two people, I really understand this truth for your daughter. Zhao Qingru's eyes flickered a little, "Even if Zhou Wentao really changes his mind in the future, he won't be able to go on, and it's a big deal to scatter in one shot." ā
"You, you girl, talk nonsense!" Mother Zhao reached out angrily and gently touched her precious daughter's forehead, "If you get divorced, you won't let people drown in the stars." Do the Zhao family and the Xu family still want to be human beings?"
"Mom, life is lived by yourself, and it's not for those who don't matter whether they are happy to live. But just ask for a clear conscience. The shoes are on the top of the feet, and even the skin is worn out, and there is the pain of blisters, only you know, and others can't help you bear it. If it doesn't fit, why should you grieve yourself?"
Zhao Qingru's words undoubtedly woke up Mother Zhao, maybe she was still hesitating before that, but at this moment, Mother Zhao never understood. Yes, life is lived by oneself, since it doesn't fit, why should you wronged yourself?
"Ru'er ......"
"Huh?"
"If Mom really can't get along with your Dad, who are you going to go with?"
Zhao Qingru raised her left eyebrow slightly, and there was a trace of doubt in her heart. What's going on?
Although in the previous life, his mother-in-law's mother-in-law did divorce Commander Zhao, that is, Zhao's father. And it didn't take long for her to meet a true son who cherished her very much. The two ripped off their marriage certificate at the speed of light, and then went abroad. That true son of heaven is said to be a diplomat who has been abroad all the year round, although his family background is not as good as Zhao's father, and his appearance is also the kind of unsightly appearance, and a dozen similar ones can be found in the pile of embarrassment, but he is a little stronger than Commander Zhao, and he is really good to Zhao's mother, and it can be said that he is pampered to the bones.
Zhao Qingru didn't feel that she had driven Du Juan'er's mother and son out of the Zhao family like a quick knife before, and she would be able to divorce Zhao's mother and Zhao's father, and then marry another lover This matter is gone. After all, the contradiction between the two of them cannot be eased and adjusted in one or two sentences.
Why did his cheap dad marry Du Juan'er's white lotus flower back then, even if Du Juaner wants to fly on the branches and become a phoenix, the key one is still in his own cheap dad. Zhao Qingru felt that his father's idea was actually quite manly in his bones, and what he always wanted was the kind of wife who obediently taught her husband and children at home and took him as her god. When you get home, there is a steaming meal......
Du Juan'er is indeed better than her own mother at this point, and her own mother obviously can't do this.
Even when she was in the mountain city, after Du Juan'er's mother and son left the Zhao family, her mother did change, no longer being away from home all day, performing outside all year round, and staying at home most of the time to take care of her cheap father and younger brother Zhao Qingwei. But this change did not move his cheap father, and even his mother herself was not used to this kind of day of being locked up at home and doing nothing.
And today, after Xue Yumin accidentally met his cheap father in the hospital, his cheap father's attitude towards the Xue family has not changed much, which is undoubtedly the fuse that completely angered his mother.
To sum up, both husband and wife belong to the career type, and the husband's hope is that his wife will obediently teach his husband and children at home. Being a wife is actually not happy, and finally made a sacrifice, only to find that being a husband is not moved at all, but is still favoring and maintaining the white-eyed wolf who lives at home in front of him. Thereupon...... The volcano erupted......
This kind of thing, in a few decades, most couples will have their own careers. Especially in the new century, where "women are men's servants and men are livestock", strong women and professional women abound. It's just that my mind is not so open at this time.
Zhao Qingru carefully recalled what she had just said to Zhao's mother, and she was not sure if it was because of those words that her mother had the idea of "divorce". Maybe this thought has always been there, but before that, it wasn't so strong.
From the child's point of view, she naturally does not want her parents to divorce, even if she will be 18 years old in half a year. What's more, not to mention that there is basically no divorce now, in another ten or twenty years, divorce will be a shameful thing. Although Zhao Qingru doesn't feel so, the general environment is like this.
However, standing in the position of the same woman, life is aggrieved, and it is really better to choose to let go.
"Mom, you and Dad have been husband and wife for 20 years. The seven-year itch has passed...... Zhao Qingru saw Zhao's mother looking at her, and hurriedly retracted her joke, "As a child, no one would want their parents to divorce." If you get divorced, your family will be separated. However, Mom, if you really can't get along with Dad, why don't you try to be separated for a while?"
"Separated? It's not like they haven't been separated!" Zhao Mu muttered quietly.
"......" Zhao Qingru suddenly had a flash of inspiration, and a very bold thought flashed through his mind. But don't tell her that her mother-in-law's brothers and sisters have been like wild children without a father and mother over the years, just because their father and mother are separated.
I can't say for sure...... (To be continued.) )