Chapter 728 fell off the list
Qiaolan always feels that the smartest thing is to fool Xiangye and the old lady to come to the home to care for the elderly, it is really a family with an old man like a treasure, Xiangye and the old lady's words and deeds are affecting the children's outlook on life and values, and it is at the critical moment of the children's character development, Qingyuan and Qinggang undoubtedly benefited a lot. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info
"Then do you want to go home and have a look?" Qiao Lan asked casually.
"Aren't you going to leave in these two days?" asked Qing Gang rhetorically.
Qiao Lancheng got a porridge meal, and she realized that the child was too weak to go home.
"No, I'll go in a few days, and I'm not in a hurry, and I'm going to go back to see the plug, so go back with me." ”
Qinggang was silent for a moment.
"Don't waste the opportunity that others have worked so hard to give you, at least cherish it. Qiao Lan sighed, she didn't mean to blame, she understood that the child was a little uncomfortable, a little lost and frightened, afraid to go home and see the disappointed eyes of her family, and didn't know how to face everyone's eyes after failure.
Qinggang pinched the bun and was silent for a long time, still not saying a word.
Qiao Lan smiled and patted him on the head, "Are you scared?"
Qing Gang lowered his head slightly so that people could not see his eyes, Qiao Lan waited for a while, and Qing just nodded silently.
"You're afraid they'll be disappointed, fool, you're thinking too much. As I said, Grandpa Li may just want you to fail once, the road to the scientific examination is not so easy, we don't want your brothers to bear too much praise, that's not good for you, even Grandpa Li himself is on the way to the top prize, he has failed twice, it's not a few consecutive championships, you have too many things to carry on yourself. Don't forget that sentence, victory is not arrogant or defeated! To be a person with a strong heart, you also need to constantly face and admit and correct your mistakes, instead of escaping and covering up, this is a matter of conduct, do you know what I mean?"
Qinggang raised his head and there were already some tears in his eyes, "I'm sorry aunt, I disappointed you, I also want to fight for you, I don't want the family's money to be wasted, I ......." ”
"Silly boy, I never said that you have to come back from the exam, I have always said that it is important to read and understand the reason, you don't test your fame when you see Chuanwei, there is a way to go, you push yourself too hard. Did you embarrass your uncle because of this?"
Qiao Lan knew that Qinggang was more fragile than Qingyuan, he was more out of character and simple, but in fact, it was easier to do, if Qingyuan had any situation, he couldn't see it, and Xuewen had a temper.
"People in the village are saying that my mother is ungrateful, and what she says is very ugly, and I feel so embarrassed and uncomfortable. Qinggang tried hard to wipe his tears, but the tears kept flowing.
"It's an adult's business, it's none of your business, you'...... You can see that even if they are wrong, grandma didn't treat them well, but let them open a shop and use a prescription, and the future will depend on their abilities. Be a man and leave a line, this is also for the sake of your brothers, there will always be some bad voices, you don't take it to heart, there is no need to please everyone, it is enough to do what you think is right. Besides, you are not silver, how can everyone like it, and there are still people who don't like silver and think that gold, silver and jewelry are cheesy and coppery. ”
"But will they look down on me?" Kiyoshi was not strong enough to care about rumors.
"So what? When I went to the capital, some people looked down on me, so what? I don't eat your rice, what are you, do you look down on me and look down on me? I don't live well, I'm jealous of me. Don't care what others say, don't you care if you don't die of exhaustion every day, how can you have time to grind your lips when you do something serious, those who grind your lips are people who have nothing to do, they have no ability and like to be jealous of others, they feel that the whole world is sorry for him, and they can be indignant at all, do you have any opinions worthy of your attention? The role models you should learn from are people like Grandpa Li and Grandpa Zhang who have been clean and self-righteous all their lives. ”
Qinggang nodded ignorantly, "Shouldn't my mother give the secret recipe to my uncle?" ”
"No, the secret recipe is not hers, the secret recipe is something I researched and sent to my mother's family to get rich through hard work, not your mother worked hard alone, although she worked hard in the store, but it has nothing to do with the secret recipe. What's more, you've already reconciled, even if you want to help your mother's family, you have to tell me, just give things to people without saying a word, you don't respect others, how can others respect you. ”
"You mean that if my mother came to tell you, you would let my uncle open a shop, right?" asked Qinggang.
"If your mother can't wipe her face and doesn't want to come to our house, I can understand, even if it is your uncle and your aunt, I can agree, after all, I don't have any hatred for your uncle and your aunt. But you have to remember the point, how your mother helps her family has nothing to do with me, she is not qualified to take my things as a favor, she doesn't even say a word, I can't agree with this, I help my mother's family with my own labor, I don't use other people's things, I can't agree with this matter. Qiao Lan has a very tough attitude towards this matter and will not change.
"I see, my aunt is sorry. Qinggang lowered his head and was a little ashamed.
"You don't have to apologize, one yard is one yard, I won't implicate others, as I said before, if your uncle comes over to say, I may not disagree, but not saying a word makes people feel that they are doing it, not that you have worked hard, you are qualified to give the secret recipe to your relatives casually, if you want to do this, why is it called a secret recipe, I can still make money by selling it, the restaurant in the city invited a lot of chefs to go back to study it, I said that people came to me with money. ”
"You mean they're using the wrong method, right?"
"Yes. It's like your Aunt Xiaoling, I wasn't at home last year, her mother's side had some shortcomings and wanted to buy more land or do some small business, our grandmother also took the initiative to help find your Uncle Niu Zi to find a stall at the dock to take care of, Xiao Lingzi also took the money back to buy land for her father and mother, our family also asked if the money was enough for them to make up for it, that was earned back by her, her mother's family had difficulties to help, they should be, they are all parents and children, but Xiao Lingzi never said to take the secret recipe back to her mother's house for her mother's family to use, right? That's the difference, you can't help your own family at the expense of other people's interests, not to mention that this thing is not yours. "Qiaolan is also the first time to tell Qinggang about this.
"I see. "Qinggang will only understand this way.
"Well, it's good if you don't resent me, not to mention that even so, I still let them use it, let them continue to open the store, and now with our family's ability, I really want to embarrass your uncle, he can't open that store, and my grandmother and I are not willing to do this. But this family has some problems in doing things, I hope you can keep the bottom line, they have difficulties and you can help if you want to, he is your uncle, but you can't have no bottom line. Qiao Lan had reservations about the Zhang family.