"In history, it is the norm for bad officials to expel good officials and reverse elimination, Qu Yuan, who has high aspirations, has been punished by the palace, and Li Linfu, Qin Hui and others who are sinister have become popular and high-ranking officials, which shows that officialdom needs another kind of knowledge. In the past, Chinese society and officialdom were all centered on officials, and if you want to get an official and a half-job and then be promoted, you must rely on the know-how of officialdom. Chang Shouxin said.

"This is of no use to us, take me as an example, it is impossible to be an official in this life, and there is no artemisia on our ancestral grave, so we can only be a working boy and live by hard work, so I don't have to use that brain." Li Tiecheng said.

"That's not necessarily, as the saying goes, if you have the intention to plant flowers and flowers, you have no intention of planting willows and willows, maybe you kid really have the life of being an official, what shit luck you encounter, climb on our heads and make a fortune, then you will speak differently than now, we all have to obey your call." Wei Dahai said.

"You are really amused around calling Huazi and making fun of the poor, we have no power and no power, even if we want to be an official, we don't have an introduction, this is not a second-rate son scolding the street, nonsense." Li Tiecheng said with a smile.

"Human fate is destined, if you really have the destiny to be an official, sooner or later you will become an official, if not, even if you sharpen your head, it's useless, just let it be." Chang Shouxin said.

"Go with the flow, even if you go to the next life, there will be no hope, you have to be an official, you have to be a leader, you have to be an official, you won't be an official, be a little people, don't have any ideas." Li Tiecheng said.

"Being an official is just a personalized expression of the official's morality on the official. It has nothing to do with power. But look deeper. Being an official is essentially a show off of power. Chang Shouxin said.

"But so, now many people are powerful, domineering, and invincible, this kind of person is actually a dog who looks down on people, and you are an official, not how much better you are than others, but your life is good, good luck, and someone appreciates you. In fact, when a person becomes a leader, he must understand some simple truths, there are two kinds of power, one is power, no matter who becomes the leader, it will naturally be generated by your position, and the other is called personal charm, which is your ability and level. Courage and affinity, that depends on practice. Power is awe-inspiring. But it is not sincere admiration, charm makes people admire, admiration from the heart, charm depends on the accumulation of little by little, the wisdom of doing things, the courage to succeed, the mastery of command, the adhesion of convincing people, the nobility of morality, the humility of life, it is by no means that you must be attractive when you become an official, many officials make people sincerely hate, people look at your official position to obey you, but they do not look up to you for a moment, once you lose your position, people will immediately ignore you, that kind of official is the most pitiful. Wei Dahai said.

"That's why you can't be an official." Li Tiecheng said.

"Why?" Wei Dahai asked.

"Can't you see this, people in the rivers and lakes, can't help themselves, if what he says and does the same, then he can't be an official, why, the reason is very reduced, for example, there is a saying in ancient China that a person who wants to be an official is not a good person, because if he wants to get ahead, he will have no means, will this kind of person be good. There is a humorous joke that the pig asks God to be reincarnated as a human being. The emperor asked, farming? Answer: It's too bitter. Said workmanship? A: Too tired. Monkey tricks? Answer: It's too difficult. What do you want? Answer, I can eat, drink and prostitute, the emperor was shocked, and I still want to be an official. Li Tiecheng said.

"Haha, it looks like you're an official phobia." Wei Dahai said.

"Being an official is not for the people, it is better to go home and sell sweet potatoes, this is the basic system of being an official, I am not an official, and I don't want to be an official. The two mouths of the officials, the upper one is for saying good things to the people and for the higher-level leaders, and the lower one is used exclusively for squeezing the people and deceiving the superiors in the investigation. This is a social problem, it should be said that there will be in any corner, under normal circumstances, the official, especially the big official is not only proficient in the kung fu of patting the sycophant, but also proficient in the kung fu of singing Hua Dan, to learn a face can be used as a face, but also as a buttocks, so that the climb position will be higher. Li Tiecheng said.

"It depends on how to say it, if you can't eat the grapes, you say they are sour, but if you eat them? Then you say it's sweet. If you can't eat grapes, you can say that the grapes are sour, and it tastes a little bit of Ah Q, sometimes this is not necessarily bad, at least you can give yourself a reason to be at ease. Sometimes don't force what you can't get good, but say it at both ends, and if it's the other way around, people who eat grapes won't say that grapes are sour. Wei Dahai said.

"This is normal, when there is a setback in life, I find a reason to scandalize what I can't get, and find a trace of comfort psychologically." Chang Shouxin said.

After all, nothing can be perfect, living in the same world, but with completely different destinies. For example, if you are not admitted to the prestigious university of your dreams, but are admitted to an ordinary university, you will say in your heart that it is okay if you are not admitted to a prestigious university, where the competition is fierce, and you may have to study hard to keep up, but if you study in a general university, you may be able to easily study and be among the best. Another example is that an ordinary cadre who was unsuccessful in the position of manager of the competitive department, felt a sense of loss and was depressed, and then suddenly thought that the higher the position, the heavier the responsibility, and being a common person can be at ease, and he can have more time to study business. This time the feelings soon returned to normalcy and were no longer troubled. The sour grapes psychology is because when you feel frustrated when your real needs cannot be met, in order to relieve your inner turmoil, you make up some reasons to comfort yourself, so as to eliminate tension, reduce stress, free yourself from negative psychological states such as dissatisfaction and anxiety, and protect yourself from harm. A hundred years of life, ten of adversity**. It is true that the psychological defense function can help to better adapt to life and society, but indulging in it has significant side effects on psychological life. Mr. Lu Xun's Ah Q always looks for reasons to excuse the insults he has received or the unfair treatment he has encountered, which is too poor and sad to live. In fact, it is not that hard work will have good gains, this is a real society, and there are many people who work as hard as us or work harder than us. The success of people is not only based on hard work, but also on opportunities. The reality is that the most valuable thing in life is not to have, but to pursue. Therefore, as long as you work hard to pursue any kind of ideal, even if the end is a failure, it is nothing, because you have gained pursuit and experience. If you don't work hard to pursue your dreams at all, blindly evaluate the quality of things, it is unreasonable, it is not your own but you want to take it, you must recognize what you want, what you are suitable for, do not blindly pursue. In today's society, the competition is still fierce, there are people outside the world, and the ability of each of us is very limited. No matter how good a person is, he can't include all his talents, so he can't get all the things he wants, which is a cruel reality. For this reason, when we are not able to achieve the desired goal, we might as well think of those things that are unattainable as sour grapes, and when that extraordinary period of longing has passed, the grapes may ripen and sweet. The key is to learn to give yourself a proper reason. Waiting for the opportunity to favor the plot will definitely pay off.

"If you don't say that you can be the boss and see everything thoroughly, we are ashamed of ourselves." Wei Dahai said.

"People are growing up in learning, no one dares to say that they can do anything when they are just born, but they learn and try step by step, and those who are not willing to try to learn will not be able to do anything after all, so we must know how to try, to learn, to grow in trying, to live in learning." Chang Shouxin said.

When he came to the Feiteng franchise store, seeing them coming, Huang Feiteng hurriedly greeted him, and seeing that the inside had been cleaned up, Chang Shouxin nodded, and went to the back again, which was very in line with his thoughts. Sue sù Huang Feiteng, you must dress according to the regulations when you open, this is the face of the barbecue square, and you must not dress in different colors.

"I've already arranged this, and there won't be any problems." Huang Feiteng said.

"The main thing is the quality of service, without a good service attitude, otherwise, no matter how good the meal is, it will be in vain." Li Tiecheng said.

"That's the reason, we must pay more attention to this aspect, I am a layman in this regard, if there is any fault, even if it is pointed out, we will definitely correct it." Huang Feiteng said.

"The preparation is okay, and we will solve the problems together when we find them in the future, as long as we work together, the business will definitely get better and better." Chang Shouxin said.

"That's for sure, you have experience in this area, and I'll learn from you." Huang Feiteng said.

"I heard that you will have a treat tomorrow night, and all the officials you invite are from the district." Li Tiecheng said.

"Yes." Huang Feiteng said.

"Didn't your uncle disagree, he wasn't allowed to attend the opening ceremony, why did he treat him again." Li Tiecheng said.

"That's the case, at first my uncle didn't agree, and then I pondered, this is absolutely not good, it will affect the future business, so I found him again, and said what I mean, this is not only a matter of having a meal, but a matter of buddies' feelings, usually nothing to eat and drink together, how can such a big thing not be done, it seems too uninteresting, and what is there for a meal, the opening ceremony can not be done, it is still okay to gather in private, he thought about it, and felt that it made sense, so he agreed, sue me sù The scope is not too big, As long as he agreed, it would be easy to do, and this set the time. Huang Feiteng said.

"I see." Li Tiecheng said. (To be continued.) )